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Short Boy


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 4:35 pm

Well this boy who is 21 works with My father. Well I met him 2 weeks ago and they told me he was a good boy for me. Well Yesterday he told me to meet him somewhere so we can hang out. Well I did and he ended up taking me back home. Well on the way to My house he asked me out this weekend and I said yes. Well My father said that everyone is going to make fun of me because he is short. i'm 5'9 and he's like 5'2. I really like him and I don't think I should care what anyone says.

help me out

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what is a good way?


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 4:32 pm

my bf's parents wanted me and my mom to come up to see them so they new i wasnt a computer perv but now my mom says no they have to call and am afraid they will say no. My mom wants to tal kto my bf first anyway and am afriad they will say no. Am afriad my mom and his parents will never agree with us dating n will get angry that we will not listen n keep dating. a, afraid my bf will not ignore them and still dump me if they dont approve n believe am a regualr 14 YEAR ODL GIRL! Q:1 what should i do to get them to agree to talk to each other over the phone then they meet each other kids?
Q:2 do you think my bf will dump me if they dont approve or believe me and/or my mom?
Q:3 Do you think am bein a crazy gf who worries to much?<...

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Looking for an online adult dating site not centered around sex


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 3:48 pm

I am looking for a dating site for adults over 21 to about 35 or so that is reliable and not riddled with sex addicts. I'm so sick of signing up for online dating sites and getting messages about sex over and over. When did dating become soley about sex anyway? I do not give out personal information but wouldn't mind having to pay if the site was decent. Does anyone have some decent suggestions?

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What should i do?


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 2:55 pm

I am 17 year old female, my girlfriend just broke up with me...and now she is in the hospital because she od on pills, because she felt bad for hurting me. i haven't been able to see her because she is in PCU and only family can visit. When igot home last night from the hospital i cut myself a few times. I didit because i felt numb and empty, and because i was so freaked out about her and worried. I dont know what to do. I know that i need help. But i don't know how i can tell my mom. Can someone please help me?

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love life never works out.


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 11:52 am

16/f.

So my love life just never seems to work out. I never meet anyone and have it work out between us, y'know. I always seem to get involved with complete pricks, like they seem great at first but they ALWAYS turn out to be manwhores or players, and it's those guys I'm interested in and those guys that are interested in me - trouble is, they're never interested enough to stop being players, they never love me or anything, just fancy me. It's like I have some manwhore-magnet on me or something, that's just the kind of guy I attract. Y'know how when there's more than one girl, a manwhore will pick just one out (because that's their technique it seems), it's like they look at me and decide I'm that one, and I don't know why. A...

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Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 10:51 am

Okay. So I've been with this guy since October of 2006. He is my love. My life. My everything. I've never loved someone more. Well, we recently broke up, because his parents are not very fond of me anymore because of some stuff that has happened in the past. Long storiess. And it's hard to have a relationship where parents don't like you, ya know what I'm sayin? So it was better sooner than later I guess. Well here's the thing. We still talk all the time, which I love. And we occasionally hook up and stuff, because well, I love him a lot, and I know he loves me. But usually after a breakup with him, we don't talk for a while, because I can never handle the thought of us being "just friends". Well, this time feels kind of different...

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I know you heard this before but what do i do if i like a guy??


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 6:26 am

I am in year 8 and i really like this guy. My friends always match me up with him. He never talks to me and he always hungs around with the popular girls. The thing is i don't need a boyfriend but what if he is asken out and i can't do anything about it??

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Possible Love


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 1:57 am

So I have known this boy for 2 years and ever since the moment I met him there has been a connection with him. We flirt literally every time we are together even if one of us is currently seeing someone else. We have so many things and common and always manage to have a good time. We never dated before but we have both talked about how we have always liked each other it has just never worked out. Also he is a huge flirt and goes out with a lot of girls but somehow I feel its different with me because he always seems generally concerned with how I am and never wants to push me to do anything I don't want but I don't know if I really am different or just another girl. I have recently started college and I know I'm young and I'm still going to...

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Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 1:07 am

i am 13 years old and i have a friend who has this prob with a guy she has liked for a really long time and has been best friend with him for 3 years now. my friend and the guy have never gone out...but the guy has a gf already....soo my friend wants to know if she should move on or stay with the guy she has liked for as long as she has known him. she asks me this question every nite please help!

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..does he like me too?


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 1:02 am

I really like this guy but im not sure if he likes me back. he hasnt asked me out and im not sure to ask him out myself cuz im a girl.
how do I know what to do ?
-from confused loverr

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flirting,boys,boys,boys


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 1:01 am

well um i like this guy and we like always flirt we're always like hitting each other and staring at each other and we'll always smile at each other and we always get into those flirting pushing your buttons fights so what do i do and did i mention he has a girfriend eeeppppp i'm in a jam

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I don't know what to do!!!!!!


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 1:01 am

There's this guy in my school and I didn't know much about him until the Winter Formal dance and he danced with me twice! well, i didn't think much of it cuz that happens all th time but then he came to my play and said i did really good and laughed at my lame jokes. This is where it gets weird that night I dreamed about him that I was going out with him. I had that same dream 3 nights in a row. I really want to talk to him before school gets out, but he's not in any of my classes, and my friends nor I hang out with him, I just want to know more about him, but im WAY tooo afraid to just walk up to him!!! Please help me!!!

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dont know what to do


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 12:54 am

allright, there is this girl at school that i met a couple of days ago, she thinks im mad hot and really likes me, I like her to, but see, the thing is, shes 12 and in 6th grade, im 13 in 8th grade, i dont know what people would say or do if i went out with this girl.
Confused and need help


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help!!


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 12:53 am

this guy really likes me and i don't know what to do.i dont like him but i dont want2 hurt his feelings.what should i do????

signed
desperate girl

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Shy Boy


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 12:53 am



ok about the shy boy.He is 16 years old. I am 15. I have asked some people in his grade about him, this is what i've found out. BTW this is gonna be long! He is shy,and has been picked-on in the past i guess because he doesn't meet societies standards of masculiity.He applies himself in school and gets extremly good grades. He cries a lot i guess due to low frustration tolerence. He also cried when people pushed books out of his hands(rude i know). He has never had a girlfriend which is good and bad for me. Good because compared to nobody i'm pretty good plus i'm giving him the time of day. Bad because if he did like me he may not have the courage to ask me out. Two boys in his grade(junior) said he was gay, which I highly d...

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cheating i need advice


Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 12:52 am

ok so i was dating this guy and he told he was going out with his friends and i was like ok and then my friends said that they had seen his truck out side his x girlfriends house and i didnt beleive it so i said ill go and see with my own eyes and sure enough it was his truck so i was crying and he told me that it was nothin that i did he just had the urge to cheat but he really loves me now im really confused cause i dont understand why he did that if you can please help or ever better email me at 2cute4u004@sbcglobal.net

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A Breech of Trust; I don't want a divorce


Posted Tuesday September 29 2009, 10:03 pm

So I did something to make my husband not trust me (FYI, I have been married for 10 years and am having a significant b-day soon; perhaps I am in mid-life crisis mode). Actually more than one thing, two things. (1) I had two flirtations on FACEBOOK; strictly 2-dimensional, but definitely behaviour inappropriate for a married woman. Got caught, with one, fessed up to the other in an effor to be truthful. Deactivated my FACEBOOK; that was 3 1/2 months ago. (2) I sent an e-mail to an ex of mine admitting some unresolved feelings and wondering if we ever could have made it together; my husband found this e-mail {yes, by poking thru my personal stuff}. I maintain that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS, and that these were thoughts conveyed...

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Arguing with fiancee over my ring.


Posted Tuesday September 29 2009, 7:10 pm

I'm a 23-year old female and my 22-year old fiancee and I just had a big argument over the price of my ring. He didn't buy me an engagement ring and though he promised to "get me what I wanted" he's basically saying now that expecting him to spend more than a couple of hundred dollars is outrageous.
I know he's not trying very hard to save, which is also pretty upsetting. What I'm asking for isn't a 5ct rock...just something I can be proud to wear.
I mean, we aren't rich, but I can't shake the feeling of wanting something I'll be happy with for a long time. I don't think spending $500 is exorbitant considering how much it will mean to me.

Did anyone go through something similar and if so, how did you and your significant other compromise?

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Hmph.


Posted Tuesday September 29 2009, 6:53 pm

So, i'm 15 and female. My boyfriend for two months who I'm really starting to develop strong feelings for asked me to give him oral the other night. See, now I'm not prude okay? It's true I've never done that before, but I think it's normal to be nervous about EVERYTHING the first time. Hell, I was nervous the first time i got fingered! I just really don't like the idea of putting a guys penis into my mouth. Like common, thats kind of gross...for all you girls out there thats done it, is it that bad? Also, I don't want to be used by this guy! Like, if I'm open to exploring new things because he wants to, I don't want it to be a situation where we do this stuff and hes bored & leaves, you know? Anyways, do you think I should give in and ...

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hes mad because i didnt kiss him. chances ruined.


Posted Tuesday September 29 2009, 7:47 am

okay,
so last night a guy came over and everytime when he wanted to kiss me i would back off. i would tell him no. and then he would get mad. i havent made out in a long time and im really scared because i dont know how to do it anymore or i dontwant to be bad at it. but he told me before that he came that he wants to date but i told him that we have to see eachother more so he said that he is going to come over everyday but i doubt that he is anymore because i made him mad because i wont kiss him. i know that yall think that its stupid for him to get mad, but its actaully not because ive made out with other guys like 2 months ago. and they are random guys to. so he is mad now. and i texted him when he left saying that ill promise hi...

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