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Possible Love
So I have known this boy for 2 years and ever since the moment I met him there has been a connection with him. We flirt literally every time we are together even if one of us is currently seeing someone else. We have so many things and common and always manage to have a good time. We never dated before but we have both talked about how we have always liked each other it has just never worked out. Also he is a huge flirt and goes out with a lot of girls but somehow I feel its different with me because he always seems generally concerned with how I am and never wants to push me to do anything I don't want but I don't know if I really am different or just another girl. I have recently started college and I know I'm young and I'm still going to meet so many people and I have met/am meeting so many new people but I still think about him all the time. I can really see myself being with him possibly forever but have no way of knowing. I don't feel this strongly about any of the other boys I have dated and I am really scared that we will never end up together. The only problem with me realizing all of this now is that he is at school in South Carolina while I am in Boston so it is very inconvenient and I don't know what to do.
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ohhhhmygodddd. this is crazy, i am.. or was in the same situation. i basically fell in love with my best friend. me and him have been friends for about 4 yrs now. everytime we were together everyone would ask if we were dating because we would act like it but that was never the case. i felt the same way you do; he acted different towards me. he was a popular guy and everyone loved him but he seemed generally caring towards me and always made sure i was happy. turns out he was doing that for all the other girls i didn't know about :( now i'm not saying this guy is seeing other girls but you just don't know. i don't want to be a downer AT ALl or have you lose faith, but just be sure of possible situations. i think i fell in love with our friendship and thought we could be more by the way he acted towards me but thats how he was being with every other girl too and when i found that out i was crushed. i really do think you should focus on meeting new people and i'm not saying you have to date any of them! you can still keep in contact with that guy, and ask him what he thinks of your guys situation. ask if he could ever see you two being more. ask him how college is going and if he's met alot of new people, girlsss?!!;) think about this.. are you in love with your friendship and knowing that he was always there for you and having that comfort or are you IN love with him? and can see yourself persuing this relationship. the bad thing i always thought about was what if you dated and broke up and it ruined your friendship? although i do hear that the best relationships are those of best friends! if you can't stop thinking about him and don't want him to get away.. you have to talk to him! don't let him ruin your college experience though. you two are in different states so it may now be difficult to have a relationship. if you were to persue a romantic relationship with him would it make things worse with the long distance? think about all of this before you make any moves:) good luck girl! if you need anything else, i'm here! ♥ LU
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I think your just missing him madley because you are close friends. It's important to remember that a good relationship is built on the foundation stones of friendship. It you enter a relationship that's already established friendship & trust the relationship has a better than average chance of survival,follow your heart.
If it's ment to be you'll find a way to make it happen. Good luck.
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Don't marry a man in your mind if you have such high confused doubts about him
Don't bow, you mind as well get it over with and ask him out huh?
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