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guy problems!
Posted Saturday August 12 2006, 4:13 pm
hi i'm a 16 years old girl and have never had sex, a boyfriend, or kissed a guy. people tell me all the time that i am pretty and must have a ton of guy friends. i get ridiculously nervous around guys i really like and act like a total dork. what can i do to get guys to like me or to handle my nerves?
here's pics of me lol
http://i8.tinypic.com/24fa8o1.jpg
http://i7.tinypic.com/24fadcy.jpg
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pain
Posted Saturday August 12 2006, 2:06 pm
ok i did stuff iwth my boy friend (not sex...he like fingered me and ate me out... and i gave him head and stuff like that...ok omg it is so weird to say that.....) and now my stomach hurts and i was wondering if that might have any thihng to do with it... because that was the first time i did any of that and i dont kno i just feel funny please no bs!!!! o ya and im 14/f
EmMi
ps- its my lower stomach...and when i woke up my upper stomach felt like som eon was sabbing it
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oral cherry popped?
Posted Saturday August 12 2006, 1:25 am
Can you get pregnant during oral sex? And what does getting your cherry popped mean?
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my bf and me...(sorry its so long..)
Posted Saturday August 12 2006, 12:37 am
first things first.. i am 14/female and i have a boy friend who i really love, my boyfriend is also my best friend's brother.. so when i sleep over at her house i useually sleep in the same bed as him,but this last time i slept over i almost had sex with him..i mean i was naked and every thing...but i couldnt do it and he says its fine but i wanted to do it it is just that i dont know how it would feel or if it would hurt..my friend (his sister) had sex with her bf and said it really hurts the first time and that she was hurting the whole day after..im just scared is all and i want to make my boy friend happy because he loves me and i wanna show him how much i love him, but im just soo curius...can some of you people tell me how ur first ti...
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Bi the Way
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 11:09 pm
I think I may be bi... I never really thought about it before a few days ago, you see my friends and I were playing Truth (it's like truth or dare without dares)and "David" asked what my deepest, darkest secret was. I said that it was that I used to make out and do other things with a girl that used to live by me. Then I realized I do a whole bunch of other things, like look at women's faces and breasts. I never really enjoyed doing things with her, but it felt nice... sorta. I don't really want to be Bi (no offense!!! I'm an activist). Do you think this was just a phase or do I truly have feelings for women? I haven't had any feelings since and I don't intend on doing anything with girls again.
Thanks...
P.S. I have a boyfriend.
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beyond worried
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 7:53 pm
ok so here's the deal. me and this guy had sex on august 8. we didn't use a condom but he pulled out probably 3 minutes before and finished off in the bathroom..well here's my question, could i be pregnant? i don't get my period till the 20th or 21st and i really need to know if i'm pregnant or not. if i was pregnant, would there be any symptoms like aches or pains or anything like that on the first few days?
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Phobia that will lead to suicide or anorexia.
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 6:39 pm
I have a phobia of food poisoning and throwing up. I've already decided that the next time I throw up or ever get food poisoning, I will kill myself, and if that doesn't work out, I'll be anorexic to prevent food poisoning.
I already have a therapist, but she doesn't help with my phobia's. I've asked my mom to get me one that specializes in phobia's, but she chose this one to helpme with my depression (which I am over) and she won't get me a new one.
It's either give me a way to never throw up or get food poisoning, or I'll end up in a bad situation.
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getting tested
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 5:30 pm
So me and my bofriend haven't had sex and are both virgins. But we do have sex play. He's the first guy I've ever done anything with besides kissing. He's waaay more experienced than me and he says he's been close to having sex before. Which could mean he's made sexual contact with other people, and I'm guessing he probably has..he's been doing that for awhile..[before we started dating] I don't know how many girls he's been with or whatever. But..I want him to get tested. The problem is, I don't know how to ask him to do that or anything. Because I'm afraid if I do he'll think that I think he's like disease-infested or something. And I don't. But the truth of the matter is you don't have to have sex for STDS to spread and anything is possi...
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help!
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 3:27 pm
me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and he doesnt let me go and see my guy friends. and if i talk about another guy he gets really jealous. and if i bring up the subject he says if you were in my shoes you would understand. how do i tell him that he needs to be less protective and not as jealous without makeing him flip out??
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breasts size
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 3:23 pm
ok i am 15 and have really small boobs i am an a and 5'4 and i am 108 pounds i feel like a boy sometimes now is there anyone that has had the same problems has me taht can tell me there stories is there anyoen that had small boobs at 15 but now have decent size breasts please tell me and how long did it take after 15 i mean do you just wake up with them help me please
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SHAVING.
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 3:09 pm
I hear that guys like girls to be shaved.
Then i heard guys like the 'landing strip' better.
Oh yeah and my friend shaves down there and she says that it grows back within a day and its prickley.. so i don't understand why guys would like that.. but yes input would be nice..
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Does it hurt
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 1:49 pm
I would like to know...does sex your first times hurt? How do u know ure cherry poped...is it awkward with seeing your partner's hair or penis, or him seeing your hair and stuff...I would really like a completely honest answer, dont be afraid to give me gory details, but nobody else will be straight wth me..please...answer every question
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embarrasing!
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 12:13 pm
is there anyway to get rid of bacterial vaginosis besides going to the doctor. i'm very embarrased to show the doctor "down there" so is there anyways to treat it at home??? THANKS
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nervous
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 11:15 am
I don't know why but I'm nervous about being pregnant. I had sex the day after my period was over, a condom was used, and he pulled out, but its the first time we actually did it the whole way. I probably wouldn't be right? What would be the signs if I was?
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Virginity and Ect.
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 10:12 am
To start out, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, and we plan on getting married. I'm still a virgin, and I really want to loose it to him soon. Since he is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. But, I heard your first time hurts really bad, and you start bleeding as soon as you start. Is this true?
I mean, I know a lot about sex, and everything. And I am sure I am ready. I just want to know about the pain, and bleeding and all. I mean, my boyfriend has a rather large penis too. Any websites will be helpful. Thanks. =]
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shaving and stuff
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 2:24 am
alright this is really embarassing.. but im not gonna be like stuck up or anything but i am skinny and i have a nice body.. but i feel insecure because i have hair on like my inner thighs and under my belly button. ive tryed to shave it but little bump things come and it hurts real bad and eritates.. does it get better if u keep doing it? because i hate being the only one not in a bikini.. and i no me and my boyfriend are going to be sexualy active soon (like finger or w.e, i no im not ready for sex yet) so if anyone could tell me 1.does it get better if u keep doing it 2.is there an easier way thanks so much.. i rate high =)
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Attempted suicide, depression, and anorexia
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 2:17 am
To start off, I apologize for my question being long, but I think it's necessary for you to know the history of this question so that you can fully try to help me. Thanks :)
The other day I had a tear-jerking conversation with my friend. I noticed scars and scabs on her wrists from cutting herself. I confronted her, and she broke down and confessed everything. Around springtime last year, she was sickeningly skinny. She honestly looked like a skeleton, or a concentration camp survivor. Then all of a sudden this year she gained a ton of weight, and now she looks healthy. She had reasons for being so skinny, (she's a vegan) but I always worried about her, but never confronted her until just now. She admitted to having been anor...
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SEX: DO you remember your first time?
Posted Friday August 11 2006, 1:11 am
i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't ...
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balls
Posted Thursday August 10 2006, 11:24 pm
what is blue balls?
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Weird Pain During Sex Play
Posted Thursday August 10 2006, 9:12 pm
OK, so me and my boyfriend have been having sex play. But, when I lightly circle around the tip of his penis....he says if I do that a lot it hurts. He says the same thing if I rub his testicles. I don't think this is "blue balls" cause he seemed to be making a big deal about it. So, apparently doing that a little bit turns him on...but too much hurts him. What is this and why is it happening?
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