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is there any birth control that dont make you gain weight?


Posted Sunday August 11 2013, 10:53 pm

I'm 14 and have terrible periods, bad acne, and sexually active. My mom has mentioned putting me on birth control before, I said no because weight is a very big concern of mine. I am going to the GYN soon and I want to ask her about it. But, knowing her, she will be stubborn and prescribe me a kind that makes me gain weight . Therefore, I would like to be able to ask her for a specific one. Any recommendations?

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I just cant get better


Posted Sunday August 11 2013, 8:56 pm

One of my friendsnthinks shensaved my life from sh prevention, but not reallyhow do I tellbher?

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Older men.


Posted Sunday August 11 2013, 8:26 pm

I am an 18 year old female and I find myself to be way more attracted to older men that guys my age. Not old as in anything higher than 30, I wouldn't even go above 24. I just think that 22, 23, 24 are so much more mature, they know what they want in life, they are probably living on their own. By that age as well, they are probably done with the whole pimp thing and thinking they're hot shit, going around and getting all the ladies they can. I also think that older men are more respectful. I was just wondering if anyone found this to be weird. Now, don't preach to me that not all older men are more mature and know what they want type of people. I am talking about the older men that I have personally met and found to be attractive are such ...

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Shy for university


Posted Sunday August 11 2013, 12:15 pm

Hi!
18/f/UK

So naturally when I meet new people I am shy-not an introvert, just shy.
I worry whether they like me, and automatically think people don't.
Well I'm going to Uni soon, and I am freaking out!
I know no one knows each other, but it takes me a while to get 'with the crowd'.
I want to go out, and party etc...but I'm scared I'll make the wrong impression on the first few days and that I'll be left out and stuff.

How can I involve myself more and make a real good impression?

Thanks~ from a shy girl who wants to change!

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I have an odor


Posted Sunday August 11 2013, 5:54 am

I am 14 and a virgin but I have been fingered several times... I have a certain odor down there, I'm not sure if it is normal or not and it really worries me. I've tried certain washes, creams, etc and nothing seems to help me. I am very scared to go to a gynecologist, I am just a teen and I'm not sure of my mom's reaction if I were to ask. Should I try asking my regular doctor? Or is it normal? And also, in the days of my ovulation, I have a worse smell and alot of discharge that lasts for a week. I'm not sure what that means, I've came across similar problems with down there and my mom thought I had stds. I never looked into it much further than going to a regular doctor why couldn't tell me anything. I'm very nervous about gynecologists...

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Best Friends or More?


Posted Sunday August 11 2013, 4:01 am

(Im a 22 year old girl.)This one feels complicated. I met my now best guy friend, who is a 21 year old guy, at work at the beginning of the year and we bonded through his breakup with his long time girlfriend. We're a lot alike in a lot of ways and talk easily about pretty much everything, including our dating lives, family/personal/work problems and secret future dreams. Over the past like three months our friendship has gotten deeper and deeper, I guess you could say. Out of the blue one night he told me I was his best friend and he felt closer to me than to his best guy friend that he grew up with. Then he told me he loved me as a best friend. Then he started relying on my fashion and relationship advice to get back into dating. He kisse...

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is he ready for a serious relationship or am i just wasting my time


Posted Sunday August 11 2013, 12:56 am

we've been dating for about a year things have been good but sometimes i question why he hasn't officially said we're in a relationship? mind you he's one of my good friends younger brother my guy always chased me through the years until i finally decided to give him a chance. well we really clicked and now i feel like we could have a future together. he's a bit younger i'm 34 and ready to settle down he's 31 and still drinks and apparently smokes weed and likes to flirt with girls when he's out with the boys something i found out last night from my other best friend (male) who i think secretly has a crush on me who also happens to be friends with my guy ( we all grew up together). now i'm sad hurt confused and angry. I don't want to lose h...

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Don't laugh at me for not knowing this!


Posted Saturday August 10 2013, 11:21 pm

What dies 69 exactly stand for ?

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Book Suggestions For a Teenager?


Posted Saturday August 10 2013, 9:41 pm

Hey everyone! Well, here's the thing. I am reading books and I used to not read at all but I do now. I read the genres of horror,cancer related issues, suspense, and teenage bullying stories. If anyone has any book suggestions I would highly appreciate it. Thank you!

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No conscious sex drive, but... uh... subconsciously...


Posted Saturday August 10 2013, 9:22 pm

25/f. I'm just curious as to what you guys think about this.

I'm a long, complicated mess, but here's the story as short and sweet as I can make it: I've been in two abusive relationships, and was cheated on in the last one (I don't count it as abuse because the coercive control tactics were missing). I'm so done.
All that said, I just don't look at guys the same way anymore. I've been single and far over the last relationship-fail for a good eight months. I even saw my ex after we broke up and was completely indifferent to him. He looked like a different person to me in the sense that I no longer found him attractive. It was like someone had flipped a switch in my brain.
Apologies for the graphic, but I don't ...

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Fainted/ almost blacked out?


Posted Saturday August 10 2013, 2:50 pm

13-f
So yesterday I was in the restroom, and I was kind of wasting time by playing on my phone and sitting on the counter near the door. I had the shower running, but it was right in the middle, so it was just room temperature water. There wasn't any mist or anything, because the mirror wasn't fogged up, and I had the fan on and my 'eva-dry' machine was on. (I was alo only in my panties)

I was texting when all of a sudden I kind of felt sick, like a 'I feel like I'm going to puke sick', and I set down my phone because I almost started gagging-- this was after about 15 minutes. And thats when I stood up. You know when You stand up too quickly and everything goes black for like 5 seconds? Thats what happened to me!! Bu...

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Solid gold whistle


Posted Saturday August 10 2013, 12:56 pm

Where can I buy a solid gold whistle?

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Birthstone Jewelery


Posted Saturday August 10 2013, 12:55 pm

I have 12 clubs and want to get a piece of birthstone jewelery .Should I get a necklace bracelet or ring and why?Thanks

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A Club Dilemma


Posted Saturday August 10 2013, 12:53 pm

I have 12 clubs and want to start another one but there are all kinds of obstacles.A person I want out of my life is bothering us.The show this club will be based on is on at a bad time.Also I've only seen birthstone jewelery for up to 12 and i want to get one for all the clubs.What should I do? I wanted to start this club soon I 've been making plans for this club and talking about it a lot recently.

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Posted Saturday August 10 2013, 8:11 am

Disadvantages of master bite

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letter to my best friend


Posted Saturday August 10 2013, 6:07 am

Okay so I asked a question about losing my best friend because of my depression. I'm writing her a letter to say I'm sorry this is what I've writeen so far: Okay so like I'm really sorry. For everything. Like for being so down and whatever. Like I realzie it was stupid to get mad at you for saying its hard to be my best friend, because it is, and I know that. I can't blame you for not wanting to be best friends anymore. And I know it must be hard to be with someone who's down all the time, especially best friends with them. I understand if you'd rather be best friends with tristynn, because she has like no problems and she's always happy. I really miss you.. I'll try not be so down and stuff, I'll do anything to keep you as a best friend an...

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Drinking: I feel sick whenever I drink


Posted Saturday August 10 2013, 2:25 am

First off not sure if this goes in this section so I apologize on that.

18/m

First and foremost please do not tell me that I am under age and should not be drinking. I am very well aware of the fact. I came here for an answer to my question not to be lectured.


Last summer when I was 17 I went to a party and didn't have anything to eat and I ended up drinking a lot. I felt like throwing up at one point but never did and was hung over the next morning.

I have not drank since except for beer. Whenever I have tried to drink any alcohol besides beer I immediately feel sick and like throwing up. Ever since that party I have been this way.

Will this go away so I can...

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Giflriend still bleeds


Posted Saturday August 10 2013, 2:21 am

18/m


My girlfriend and I have had sex a few times.

I was her first and we went slow and stuff. She bled the first time and every time still she bleeds.

What is causing this? How can we stop it or will it go away?

Sometimes we are a little rough lol

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What are some good books or magazines to send to an inmate in jail?The type


Posted Friday August 9 2013, 11:38 pm

I asked a version of this before but I added some more details and wanted to see some more opinions


my mother is currently in jail the next eight months for a financial crime(if she serves her full sentence it will be about next April when she gets out). I might get flack for supporting a criminal but you know since her crime wasn't against me I guess it is OK to support her in this way. I was wondering what are some good books or magazines to send to an inmate, I honestly don't read much and I was thinking maybe there were some good specific books you can send to an inmate


Something I forgot to make clear last time. The types not allowed are things inciting racial hatred, rioting, making drugs,...

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I Have a party tomorrow and I have to wear white jeans and i'm on my period


Posted Friday August 9 2013, 10:58 pm

So I have a party tomorrow and I'm on my period but I HAVE to wear white jeans! I've tried tampons but I tend to tense up so I don't think I should use them. My white jeans are a bit see through and I'm scared that I might stain them. What can I use or do so that I don't stain them?!?!?!

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