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Giflriend still bleeds
18/m
My girlfriend and I have had sex a few times.
I was her first and we went slow and stuff. She bled the first time and every time still she bleeds.
What is causing this? How can we stop it or will it go away?
Sometimes we are a little rough lol
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She's not supposed to bleed during sex so the best option if for her to go see a gynecologist.
My best guess would be that you go too rough or you don't use lube. If she's really tight, you need to go slow and use lubricant. Also foreplay helps a lot.
But if this keeps happening, definitely have her see a gyn because that really isn't supposed to happen. You want to make sure there is no infection or anything too. There could be an underlying problem that she doesn't know about, so tell her to go get checked out.
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The best answer I can give you is to have your girlfriend see her Gynecologist. She is 18 now and adult and does not need parental permission to see any doctor. As an adult now any medical information is strictly confidential and cannot be released to anyone, this includes her parents.
Under a federal law called HIPPA, which stands for: Health Information Personal Privacy Act our medical records are strictly confidential. For anyone who is an adult to have their medical records seen by anyone else, this includes, spouses, parents and significant others, requires written release by each of us to the doctors as to just who can see these medical records. The fact that she may still be on her parents medical insurance has nothing to do with her medical privacy.
So if your girlfriend is concerned her parents will find out she is sexually active; they cannot find out from her medical records or her doctor or anyone in the doctors employ. For anyone to release any information they face 5 years in prison and a $5,000 fine.
While she is with her doctor if she is not on birth control she can ask the doctor for birth control medication. No one will know as even the pharmacy cannot release information on her prescriptions without her written permission.
Now the reason why she need to see her GYN is simple. She was a virgin, most likely with her Hymen in place. It is possible that the Hymen has not fully detached. So each time you have sex the Hymen that is still attached is disturbed. It may eventually tear off by itself though it would be better that her GYN remove it in an office visit as the doctor can then repair any tear to her inner vagina the tearing may have caused.
I realize this was a long answer to a short answered question. I felt I needed to give you reasons to overcome any reluctance she might have to seeing her GYN. Most of that reluctance had to or has to be centered on the fear of her parents finding out she is sexually active. I have removed that fear and now she has no reason not to see her GYN which is the best solution to this question.
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