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am gay and i never do sex befor is it painful at the first time
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I don't understand why you've been given lectures about your sexuality from the other advice givers.
If your a girl it hurts, a guy less so I think. But the real impact most people arn't ready for is the emotional impact it has. This is why its important to make sure you do it with the right person who loves you.
Then again, for gay people the dynamics are slightly different.
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It would help to answer this question if we knew your age and sex.
We get a number of questions from young people saying their gay when they are really not sure. They have not had sex yet or they have had only minor sexual contact with same sex touching and feeling.
Young teenagers seem to feel they are gay if they have any type of sexual contact with members of the same sex. This is not true. Many of us have had some type of same sex sexual contact while growing up. This is called exploring your sexual identity. It is how you learn about yourself and how to touch others sexually. It does not mean your gay.
It means you have a safe way to explore your sexuality with another person. One that most likely will not raise the suspicions of a parent if you two are alone together in a room for any length of time. Eventually you both move on to sexual experimentation with members of the opposite sex.
It is at this point that people learn if they are gay or not. Being gay is something you are born as, it is not something you learn to be. You either are or are not gay. There is true middle road even though there are people that are bisexual.
As for does sex hurt. Only if you are being penetrated. Be it vagina or in anal sex. Then it is usually only until you get accustomed to being penetrated.
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It really depends on if you are male or female and what type of activities you decide to engage in. Usually any type of activity that involves penetration will hurt the first time, maybe even the first few. Just let the other person know to be careful. The more aware they are, the better your experience will be.
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