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Trust Is Important, But...?
Posted Tuesday July 6 2010, 12:01 am
I'm a thirteen-year-old rising female freshman.
Back in September, I got my first boyfriend. Let's say his name was Tyler. Tyler verbally, mentally, and emotionally abused me for almost six months before I finally broke it off. The thing is - I know I was wrong to give in to this - I lost my virginity to Tyler. I thought I loved him, and adults around me believed we were in love too, so I don't know, I just felt like I could trust him. I know I was stupid, losing my virginity at thirteen to someone I no longer care about, but I've learned from my mistakes and won't do this for many years.
Now I've got a new boyfriend. Let's say his name is Aaron. I've known Aaron for almost two years now; we've always been clos...
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Should I ask or should he?
Posted Tuesday July 6 2010, 12:01 am
Hello I am a 13 year old girl I like this boy and his brother told me that he likes me and I want to go out with him, should I give a hint, or ask him myself or wait and see if he would ask me?
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secound base
Posted Monday July 5 2010, 11:20 pm
how can i get a girl horny without touching her vagina ?
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make him trust me
Posted Monday July 5 2010, 11:04 pm
i slept with my ex a day after my boyfriend and i went through this huge break up. but then we got back together and now he feels like i cheated on him. it's 7 months later and he still has a hard time trusting me. how can i regain his trust? i dont wanna lose him.
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boys...
Posted Monday July 5 2010, 11:03 pm
Okay... uhm. Here's how it's going. I got dumped by a toootal a$$. Anyway. I've moved on, its been about... two months? And I like this boy, we'll call him J. J is super duper nice and I really like him but I don't really know what our relationship is right now. We've been talking for about a month and a half and we've hung out a few times never kissed or anything but we're both really flirty. I just don't know if we are "talking"... Like I don't know if I should ask him...? Cuz I don't wanna scare him off... And I don't wanna ask him who he likes and then him think I'm asking because I don't see what we're doing as something that could become romantic ya know? I just don't know what to do but I wanna know where we stand...
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Kissing
Posted Monday July 5 2010, 10:54 pm
Ok so I have never like reall kissed a guy before and I don know how to. And please don't say you will figure it out it comes naturaly or something please!? Thanks alot! :)
~Kaiya
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too close to be together?
Posted Monday July 5 2010, 10:13 pm
Me and this girl started talking and really like eachother. The thing is, shes my aunts sister's husbands daughter ( aunts sister's step daughter ..he didnt have her with my aunts sister ). My aunt is together with my uncle (my uncle is the actual blood relation to me not my aunt). So there is like family realtions but not like blood relations. My question, if you understand any of this at all is...are we too close or too related to be bf/gf or to close for anyone like my aunt or uncle or her family to think its weird, if they think its weird are they right? Thanks =]
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am i a slut?!?!
Posted Monday July 5 2010, 1:46 pm
ok so my bf and i r going out and i went to his house yesterday we started making out and one thing lead to another and he took off my shirt and bra.we continued making out but i eventually put my clothes back on after like 3 minutes. I'm only 14 and a female and i feel like I'm a slut because we've only been going out for 3 weeks. he said that he loved me and he always talks about the future in like years but i don't know what to think. am i slut?
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boyfriend whose inconsiderate (to the guys)
Posted Monday July 5 2010, 12:21 pm
So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 months. He has a tendency to call other girls "his love". Now isn't that rude? I think it's disrespectful and selfish for him to call other girls that, knowing that he has a girlfriend. he calls them that on facebook and while he texts. And on fb i can't help to get embarrassed because other people are reading that and it's like i'm his gf and he should know not to say stuff like that, especially on facebook. what do you think i should do?
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boyfriend takes waaaaaay too long in bed
Posted Monday July 5 2010, 12:08 pm
my boyfriend and i were having sex for about thirty minutes and i got tired and just had to finish him off oral-ly. even after i did that, it took another hour-hour and a half for him to finish. A) why is he taking so freaking long? B) how can he NOT take so long? any ideas?
this fact is keeping me from wanting to sleep with him that much, and its taking a toll on our relationship.
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Mini-sex
Posted Monday July 5 2010, 3:19 am
Hi i am 13 nd im a gurl um i want 2 noe wat iz mini-sex bcuz i think i hav done it wit my last boyfriend i dnt noe wat itz rly p.s. srry 4 da grammar i am on da interent on ma fone
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When he's fingering me...
Posted Sunday July 4 2010, 4:53 pm
So my boyfriend has fingered me before and I just kind of breathe deeply to let him know I like it. What else can I say to him or do besides that?
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boyfriend too controlling?
Posted Sunday July 4 2010, 3:12 pm
i'm 16/f.
i've been with my current boyfriend for 7 months, and sometimes, i feel that he's too controlling. extremly controlling. and sometimes it get's out of hand. i've never really had a boyfriend, so i don't know if ALL relationships are like this, or if my boyfriend is just a jerk.he alllways ask what i'm doing. which, isnt bad, i can understand that, but he makes me tell him EVERYTHING i'm doing, and everywhere i go. he's constantly keeping tabs on me, and has even had some friends of his watch me at school to make sure i'm not flirting or talking to other guys. if i don't tell him when i leave the house to go somewhere, he gets mad, and starts a fight. if i don't tell him i'm leaving somewhere to go somewhere else, he gets ma...
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long distance kinda?
Posted Sunday July 4 2010, 1:40 pm
so me and this guy i'm talking to are going to college 3.5 hours away from each other. we really like each other but we're afraid that if we date we wouldn't get to see each other. so i'm just wondering how many relationships actually work out when you only get to see them like once or twice a month? i reallyyy like him.
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Tell him the truth ?
Posted Sunday July 4 2010, 12:59 pm
16 /f
I am so very much in love with my boyfriend . I really am .
I asked him to go to this party & he made it very clear he didn't want to be there . Well the day of all of my friends asked me if I was coming, I didn't plan on it . But my boyfriend started ignoring me the whole day until on my way to my friends house he finally text me, but by then I had made plans, I'm so tired of him doing that to me . So I was gonna go, I'm with the girls & he calls, & I tell him & he gets pissed off again . Long story short he goes and hangs out with his friend & his gf & this girl he used to be involved with actually got her pregnant . So I'm mad and it's this guy J's birthday so I call him and t...
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Dream About Boyfriend...
Posted Sunday July 4 2010, 7:49 am
17/f I've been dating this guy since March 25th and last night i had a dream (nightmare) that he cheated on me. i wont go in to too many details but it was with my sister in the dream *i dont have a sister in real life* and one of her friends. i walked in and i started crying and he didn't think he did anything wrong. their shirts were off and i had to try and explain that it would be the same thing if i was there with his brother but he said it wasnt...why would i dream about him cheating on me? it's freaking me out and i don't want to sleep again let alone kiss my boyfriend... anything you can tell me about this would be great......please don't tell me to use dreammoods. :/
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i want to meet him so bad.
Posted Sunday July 4 2010, 12:14 am
so i have this facebook friend that i requested cause we have alot of friends in common and i see him around sometimes, so i was like sure why not. i think he's gorgeous. and i'm not the type of girl to really obsess over a guy at all. not to be conceited but i'm a pretty good looking girl. i sent him a message saying that i've seen him around and stuff and i wasn't just requesting him for no reason, but he didn't say anything back:/ i don't know if he got it or just didn't know what to say and then forgot about it or what. a mutual friend says she'll hook me up but i really want to talk to him:/ but i definetly don't want to seem desperate to him. i'm not at all. i just think hes so goodlooking:) what should i do?
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how to break up with somone
Posted Saturday July 3 2010, 5:35 pm
I really need to get out of this relationship before I hurt my boyfriend and do somthing to him ill regret we don't even talk soo this is wierd for me how do I tell him its over but without beeing harsh
im a 13 year-old girl
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no trust
Posted Saturday July 3 2010, 12:56 pm
my boyfriend and i broke up and i slept with my ex. when we got back together i told him about it, now he's so insecure that he's a jerk. its like if one of his friends sleep over he'll be mad and give me the cold shoulder the whole time and the next morning! even after they leave. and when i ask him about it he'll say "how do i know what you did after i fell asleep" i tell him he's being hurtful by saying these things and he says he's not trying to hurt me but this is how he feels. what should i do? i want him to trust me because im not doing anything wrong and i never cheated on him but he insists otherwise.
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Does he like me?
Posted Saturday July 3 2010, 2:59 am
Theres this guy named Jeff. I dated him for 2 months and then he broke up with me for some girl. Well we have been talking some (Jeff and me) and well we have had long conversations. Him and Kimberly broke up and well i told him i loved him and then randomly he says "so hows your mom" (by the way this is facebook chat) Does this mean he likes me? And im 13 hes 14 and im a girl.
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