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Tell him the truth ?
16 /f
I am so very much in love with my boyfriend . I really am .
I asked him to go to this party & he made it very clear he didn't want to be there . Well the day of all of my friends asked me if I was coming, I didn't plan on it . But my boyfriend started ignoring me the whole day until on my way to my friends house he finally text me, but by then I had made plans, I'm so tired of him doing that to me . So I was gonna go, I'm with the girls & he calls, & I tell him & he gets pissed off again . Long story short he goes and hangs out with his friend & his gf & this girl he used to be involved with actually got her pregnant . So I'm mad and it's this guy J's birthday so I call him and tell him happy birthday, I end up going to hang out with him for a couple of hours, just talking & smoking, nothing more , pretty much talking about my boyfriend M . who would hate me & break up with me & never speak to me again if I told him about this . But I'm always so honest with him its breaking my heart not to tell him , but Itll be soo much more worse if I do . idk what I should do . Our realationship is falling apart & if I tell him this he'll be gone for ever . Can I have so advice ?? Cause I know if I wait longer & it ever comes out itll be so much more worse, or if i keep my mouth closed for ever . I should do that right ?
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hey i think that you should tell him dont hide anything from him if you lose him im sorry but if he acts like that he doesnt really love you trust me ive been their before
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Wow. Your boyfriend is a douchebag. Why do you care if he leaves? Or more specifically, why haven't you left yet?
I mean, he knew you were heading out and tried to stop you, then gets pissed off when you won't break plans. He's a petulant child, no one with any level of maturity sets you up to be doing something else, then demands your attention and throws a hissy fit when they don't get their way. He created the situation so he could be mad/hurt/whatever and make you feel guilty, thus allowing him more control over your actions.
The technical term for these kinds of actions is "emotional abuse"
Your relationship is falling apart because it's not really possible to maintain any real relationship with a whiny controlling pathetic baby. Let it go.
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