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am i a slut?!?!


Question Posted Monday July 5 2010, 1:46 pm

ok so my bf and i r going out and i went to his house yesterday we started making out and one thing lead to another and he took off my shirt and bra.we continued making out but i eventually put my clothes back on after like 3 minutes. I'm only 14 and a female and i feel like I'm a slut because we've only been going out for 3 weeks. he said that he loved me and he always talks about the future in like years but i don't know what to think. am i slut?

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twistedheartx answered Thursday July 8 2010, 2:45 pm:
You're not a slut, but I'd advise you to make sure and take things slow. If you're not sure you love him, don't go toward sex. But, again, you're not a slut.

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Icanhelpyou123 answered Wednesday July 7 2010, 1:26 pm:
Oh Sweetie,
you aren't a slut your only expirementing and that's fine just remember dont go TO far and have sex with the no matter what until yor alot older. And dont fall for anything he's trying to conviince to do by saying he loves you because at this age he really probably doesnt. So remember use your brain and stay safe, you are NOT at slut.

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maxgrey answered Wednesday July 7 2010, 11:21 am:
No.

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natalie32 answered Wednesday July 7 2010, 1:06 am:
Don't put your self down like that.no ur not a slut.jus don get your mind all high in the sky when he says he loves.you but no ur not a slut.

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soccerrocks answered Tuesday July 6 2010, 8:46 pm:
No honey your not a slut. If he's your boyfriend you're expected to do things with him. It may be too fast and if you're uncomfortable with how fast things are going then talk to him about it. He might even agree with you.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Tuesday July 6 2010, 12:53 am:
You're a teenager, it's natural to want to experiment. Your mother would probably be alarmed to hear you did this, but it's not that big of a deal. As you long as you stay above the waist, things are cool.

Your boyfriend should calm down about years in the future. Chances are, you guys aren't going to stay together. Let's all be real here.

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pinkcherries answered Monday July 5 2010, 10:34 pm:
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hes not a stranger, so i dont think it sounds slutty. i wouldnt let it get much farther than that though until at least 6 months. but you guys are dating and you shouldnt stick to hugging for forever.

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nonameboy70 answered Monday July 5 2010, 9:32 pm:
You arent a slut you are a normal teenager hun.... we (me included because i am a teen) all like to have fun at our age its ok you are not a slut

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