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I've been dating My boyfriend for awhile. We always use condoms when We have sex. Always. I started on birth control pills about like maybe 6 or 7 months ago now. I always take them on time no matter what. I'm not stupid. My boyfriend and I had sex last month like usual. We used a condom every time and everything. Neither of Us thought any of the condoms We had used broke or busted or tore or whatever you call it. We had no cause to think I could get pregnant.

My period was late. I took a pregnancy test and it said + positive for pregnancy. I didn't have sex with anybody else. I read these things don't lie. Is this for real though? I mean, is it really possible to get pregnant when using birth control pills AND condoms? I mean WTF. Should I take another test or see a doctor? (link)
Well lk you sed you no thoes things don't always work on the reelz you should go see a doctor.beacause your preiod culdve gone late because when you had sex thats what happen to me so yes you kan be preg but then again youu really don know


If you give head to a guy at a party while your boyfriend is not there does that mean you cheated on your boyfriend? Yeah, the guy was really hot but it's not like we had sex or anything. I didn't even let him finger me! My boyfriend is really pissed and won't talk to me now but I really can't see his reasoning or point of view. I've done this a few times before but I haven't told him about it and regret telling him this time. Do you think giving a blow job is REALLY cheating? I mean, come on...it's like...kissing...sort of...I don't see a problem. (link)
Okay from my point I see why your bf mad at you you sukkd some up and if you really like him you wuldnt do nothing behinde his bak because if it was me I wouldn't do thta because I don't believe in cheating I think its so wrong and how would you like it if your bf went to a party and ate a girl out you wouldn't like it so much you would be devasted and said he cheated on and he will be like no u did the same but on the reelz main thing n a relationship you have to have trust or there no point you no so yes I think what you. Did was cheatin


ok well i am currently single. im not really lookin for someone but then i am. it seems like all the guys that i am somewhat interested in are older than me. im 22. the guys that im interested in and are interested in me are in thier 30s. is it bad to be 22 and interested in a guy in thier 30s? i mean they have been through more and already pretty much mature.what do you think? what is to much of a age difference for a 22 year old? (link)
Well its not bad because I'm fifteen and I rather be wid the eighteen yr old I use to date but we stop because we thought it want right but ur legal to do what you want do like I say age ain't nun but a number so jus do you and do you good..do what makes you happy don't mind what people say because remember its your life it doesn't matter what people think aslong as u feel rite


so me and my boyfriend had sex june 23rd through the 26th. we used condoms and he pulled out in advance before he came and there were no breaks, holes, etc, but also i'm not on birth control. i was supposed to get my period around the 3rd or 4th this month but i've just been cramping off and on like its going to happen and then it doesnt and i also have some white discharge. i've been stressing quite a bit that i could be pregnant but considering the circumstances i dont think i am. premenstrual symptoms are almost the same as pregnancy ones so i cant tell. i think i'm just paranoid. could i be pregnant though? (link)
Well. Stressing can make your period not start same thing happen to me jus take a home pregnancy test.and try not to to stress so much because if you are pregnant it can hurt the baby.but really I don't think your pregnant I think it because you stressin to much...when that happen to me I didn't start for lk 2months but its because I was stressin hard over it..just don't worry


i am well soon to turn 15 and me and my boyfriend really want to have a baby. my boyfriend is 100%loyal to me. i guess i want to know if i should go through with this. i mean what to tell my mom i dont know my 16 year old sister is already thinking she might be pregnant to. i also would like to know if it is expensive to be home schooled and be home with my child. thank you. (link)
Ok ha where to start first you are only fifteen you are still a kid your self and its scary because think about it you body hasn't fully grown so u can probably die from having it.and its hard to have a kid at a young age how are you going to support it I mean when I had a false results of being pregnant I was scared because you can have bad back problems.you get bad stomach pains.and I know you want a kid but think about your gunna want it to have a good life I'm not saying you can't support it but its not going to be easy so all I kan say is please think about what your doing please


There is this really hot girl I've been talking to. She told me she's slept with a lot of people. I mean, a lot, like 40 something guys. She's so hot though and, to be frank, she's easy.

I want to have sex. She told me that she'd do it with me next week if I come over to her place while her parents are gone. She has a big pool there and she said she always does it in the pool so that she's clean and STD free. What she was saying was that the chemicals in the pool kill any STDs that somebody might be carrying.

Sounds great but I want to double check this. I'd hate to have to go to the doctor after banging her. Is she telling the truth? (link)
Too be all the reelz side I wouldn't have sex wit here just because tha fact that she had lot of sex..I mean that's just not rite yes its easy to get it because she fast but think about it u could jus be on the safe side and not mess with her and not catch anythinq or just do it and have to worry if u got anything come on there lots of pretty girls out there that hasn't really done anything...and if you do somethinq just tha one girl gunna mess it up because you kan get somethinq.you no


My bestfriend never talks to me anymore. Like i'll go up to her and ask her if she wants to sit by me she'll just snuff me all the time. I'm almost 16 and I'm a female. If someone could please give me advice that would be nice.
Thx (link)
Ok since y'all bestfriends you shuld tell her y'all need to talk..or just ask her why? She is not talkin to you..and she has to give u a reason.or maybe she just going through something and she doesn't feel like talkin.or it cud be cuz she heard something that may or may not be true.but on my point of veiw I don try to have a bestfriend just because the reason u. Having that's why I just have friends.but really just get her and sit down to talk to her. And see what the. Problem is


ok so my bf and i r going out and i went to his house yesterday we started making out and one thing lead to another and he took off my shirt and bra.we continued making out but i eventually put my clothes back on after like 3 minutes. I'm only 14 and a female and i feel like I'm a slut because we've only been going out for 3 weeks. he said that he loved me and he always talks about the future in like years but i don't know what to think. am i slut? (link)
Don't put your self down like that.no ur not a slut.jus don get your mind all high in the sky when he says he loves.you but no ur not a slut.


I'm a girl and 14 almost 15.I have liked this guy for a really long time.For the past few days we have been talking non-stop.He told me that he really really likes me and that he wants to be with me forever.I want to be with him forever to and i love him and he knows that i do but he has a girlfriend.He doesn't want to be with her so he can be with me but he doesn't want to break up with her.what do i do??? (link)
I've been in the same problem..I'm about the same age..well don't really get your hopes up because if it don't really happen its going to hurt you big time.and look at it this way he has a girlfriend and he telling you he loves you just think if or what he going to do behinde your back

Natalie32




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