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ok so my bf and i r going out and i went to his house yesterday we started making out and one thing lead to another and he took off my shirt and bra.we continued making out but i eventually put my clothes back on after like 3 minutes. I'm only 14 and a female and i feel like I'm a slut because we've only been going out for 3 weeks. he said that he loved me and he always talks about the future in like years but i don't know what to think. am i slut? (link)
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You're not a slut, but I'd advise you to make sure and take things slow. If you're not sure you love him, don't go toward sex. But, again, you're not a slut.
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My school has a dress code and i hate it! We have to wear collar shirts and they have to be a sertan color. Where can i get solid collar shirts? (link)
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Old Navy has tons of collared shirts at a reasonable price. Depending on the season, they may not be IN store, but you can always find them online. Another online store for collared shirts is Land's End, although their prices tend to be a bit more steep.
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I am an aspiring photographer looking to buy my first really nice camera & start my home studio business. Anyone have any advice on a great camera to get me started? My budget is going to be somewhere around $1,000. Thanks! (link)
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My first professional camera was a Canon EOS Rebel T1i. It was around $600, and I'd rate it an 8 or 9 out of 10. It was not TOP notch, but it was a great starter. Once you get somewhere, you can increase quality slowly. Best of luck with your business!
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what kind of music do you play for like a romantic night/ for sex? Like that slow soft music you hear in movies and on tv and stuff?
Helpp! thanks =] (link)
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Al Greene, Barry White, Luther Vandross, maybe some Isley Brothers. All good stuff, good luck (:
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I met my best friend when I was 8 years old. As we grew, he knew my feelings towards him, but we remained friends. When my parents split up me and my little sister were in a since, taken in by his family. It created a bond so strong I cry when I think of our situation now.
Now at the age of 21 I am engaged to a wonderful man, but my friend refuses to talk me, I haven’t heard from him in two years, I can still communicate with his family but I think that makes things harder. I have always loved him even when I was 8. When he finally admitted his feelings for me I was 16, I can’t begin to describe how much we loved each other. But we never dated, when the opportunity was presented, I shied away. I don’t know why, maybe fear to lose what we had but that didn’t turn out well.
When I try to talk to him I get nothing, his family wont continue the subject, his father urges we both should focus on our current relationships but no matter how much I love my fiancé I have not idea if I will regret not seeking out my childhood love. I don’t know what to do if I cant talk to him, I don’t even know if he still loves me. What should I do? (link)
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It is never a good idea if you have past regrets holding onto you, while in a new relationship. You DO need closure, for yourself, and for your childhood love. Even if it turns up nothing, at least you will know that you tried to repair things between the two of you.
As for your fiance, no matter how upsetting it would be for him, you cannot go behind his back if you decide to pursue closer. He needs to understand that you need to do it before you commit to him for good.
However, if you are NOT looking for closure, but instead wishing to pursue a relationship with your old friend, you need to look at your priorities. Who means more, your friend, or your fiance? If you believe things would work out with your friend, do you really think that it would be worth leaving your fiance for? Consider these things.
But, if you are looking only for closure with your friend, by all means, search it out. Your marriage will be happier without regrets in the back of your mind.
Best of luck, I wish you a great life with whomever you choose.
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Well im 13 (female) and my mom lets me babysit my two youger sisters (4 and 2) On Friday im babysitting them in the morning 8 to 9 but then later that night im babysitting them from maybe 8 to 11. They go to bed at 9 30 and take a bath at 8 30. What are some things i can do with them so they wont be bored? And is it okay to go to sleep after they do, or should i wait until my mom gets home? (link)
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Young kids are so fun to entertain, and it is very easy to do with small activities! I babysit children of similar ages, and a favorite is always Play-Doh. It is inexpensive and even though kids have a short attention span, this seems to hold their attention as long as it is needed. You have to play WITH them, though, not just let them go. Make shapes, or suggest that they make food out of the pieces and let them "feed" you. This is perfect for their ages, although, make sure that the youngest does not eat any of it!
At night, if you want to go the extra mile, plan a "sleepover" with your sisters. Lay blankets on the floor and lay with the both of them next to you. This way, you can go to sleep before your mom gets home, and still be within your siblings' reach if they need you.
I really hope this helps, best of luck!
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I need help finding a job babysitting, I'm 13 years old and I just can't seem to find a job in babysitting. Can somebody maybe help me look. (link)
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If you belong to a church, it would be a good idea to talk to someone about your babysitting. In most churches, there is a babysitter list for the use of its members, however, there may be an age requirement. Generally, it is high school age. Ask your parents if they have friends or coworkers who have small children, in order to spread your name around. Consider making flyers or a form of business card, so that they will remember your business when needed. If there is an American Red Cross near where you live, I strongly recommend a babysitting course. If you get yourself certified in babysitting, you have a better chance of being hired. Go to someplace that generally has children, such as a public library or even a daycare center, and post a flyer or two there.
I wish you the best!
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Over the past six years or so, I've lived as a recluse. I have virtually no human contact other than what is required. In an average day, I probably say about 100 words aloud. I had a small group of 3-6 "friends" in elementary school, but I very rarely did anything outside of school with them.
Unlike most people with this problem, mine is entirely self-inflicted. I was never bullied, and I've had no "bad relationships" of any kind. I simply do not enjoy multi-person activities (including conversation). Since I viewed friendship as useless in the past, I didn't pursue it, and I am now completely incapable of participating in any kind of social interaction due to lack of experience.
Recently, over the past 2-3 years, this state has increasingly been bothering me for the following reasons:
* Having no social network of any kind puts me at an enormous disadvantage in gathering and spreading information.
* I have not a single person I can really trust with anything.
* Not having any human contact makes me depressed/lonely from time to time. Even though I don't consciously *want* human contact, I clearly need it in order to fix this.
So I eventually want to have like five friends (preferably online) who I can trust. It's no good just to have five contacts sitting in my instant messaging program; I need actual friends with whom I have real understanding.
How do I do this? Keep in mind that I have less social understanding than the average 3-year-old, and I am completely useless in a conversation. I also don't particularly enjoy conversation.
Don't tell me to "go out and talk to people". That's what all the websites say, and it does me exactly no good because I don't know the first thing about having a conversation. In all cases that I've tried to randomly participate in a conversation (_many_ times, online and off), I say virtually nothing because everything moves too fast for me and I can't think of anything to say.
I've posted this stuff to one other site, and despite talking to several of the people there, nothing good came of it. I will therefore be reluctant to contact anyone offering to "be my friend" in their response.
(18/m) (link)
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I was EXACTLY like you about six months ago, right down to the near 100 words a day. Back in December, I joined YouTube and started writing fanfiction stories with Disney centered storylines, and putting them into videos for comments. I soon met my best friends through that website, and joined Twitter where I met even more people. I am not necessarily suggesting that you join YouTube and Twitter, that was an example. But, find an online community that interests you, such as a Scrabble or music community, and see if someone else will spark a conversation. Most people would tell you online life is unhealthy, but I am quite content with my online friends, who have helped me through everything in my life.
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Me 13/f
him 13/m
I have posted ALOT of questions on here so if you feel like reading those, just go to my page or column or watever. Anyways here's the story.
I am IN LOVE with this guy. He is my best guy friend. We live three houses away. So I hang out with him somtimes. I've even been inside his house. We always walk home together. Lately on our walks home he has been "touching" me. It's mainly my butt but he's started touching my boobs. I always move away and call him a pervert. Bt he asks me if i want him to stop. And I just don't say anything. Bc if I tell him to stop then he'll think I don't like him when I do. So a few days ago we were testing and I asked him who his crush was and he said this other girl that used to be my best friend. We arnt enemies we just barely talk anymore. But she has a boyfriend. Then when he asked me who I like I told hi
that I liked him. Then he said he had to go. Then the next day he asked me if I wanted to go over to his house and have sex. So I said that I wish I could but I was at my grandmas. (we were just messin around. I am waaay to young for sex.) and he told me to prove that I wanted to and I asked how. And he told me to send him a pic of me naked or come over. So then I told him no and we had a huge convince abot that. Then he just stopped textin me. And now everytime we text, he barely says anything. So my question is.......what's going on. Does he like me or not. (link)
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I'm sorry to say, but he doesn't like you. He wants your body, don't let him use you. Text him casually as a FRIEND, and nothing more. But sadly, he's just a manwhore at a young age. Be careful.
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This may be long
so it started when i was dating "B" we broke up got back together then broke up again for the final time. So then i moved on and started dating "M". "B" started to get jealous and was saying stuff like "sloppy thirds" ect. so when i finally broke up with "M", "B" was suddenly very keen to become a close friend, today "M" started to cuddle me and stuff infront of "B" to make him jealous and even told me this and whilst doing this B tried so hard to get my attention .
WHAT SHOULD I DO????? (link)
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Since you and "B" broke up twice, think about the reasons that you broke up in the first place. It's not good for either partner to redate each other all the time, so if you want to, you have to be for sure that it's what both of yout want.
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Okay, I live with my mom and my step dad.
they BOTH smoke. my step dad works on a boat for 4 days out of the week and then come home for 4 days. when he's gone my mom will smoke in the garage because she knows I hate the smell of it.
but when he's home they both smoke in the house.
(the living room) my question is; if I go in my room to get away from the smoke am I actually getting away from it? or am I still breathing in cigarette smoke! i've seen that commercial on tv where there is now a cigarette that lets out water vapor, instead of smoke and its not unhealthy for the person! I want to get it, but im a kid so I dont have that kind of money.
my stepdad REFUSES to quit smoking, and since its not "my house" I have no say so as to where he goes to smoke.. HELP! (link)
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I'm really sorry, but you're not getting away from the smoke.. Once you've smoked in a house for a long time, the chemicals get in fabrics, anything that can soak up a scent. Your mom is good for smoking in the garage, but I understand your stepdad is too stubborn. You could ask your mom to help you get the water vapor cigarette for maybe your stepdad's birthday? Spend time outside if you can, because secondhand smoke can be just as harmful as the smoke being inhaled by the smoker. Besides your hate for the smell, it can really hurt you.
I hope this helps, best of luck
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I am 17 year old boy. I have been through my naive days and honestly have a completely different, more real mind set. I actually believe I'm in love with this girl. I don't ever use that word either, 'love' that is. I never thought a person can have this sort of perplexing feeling. She's not the average/typical girl, if ya know what I mean. I won't bore you any further because I can go on and on. I don't know how she feels about me. I don't know how to confront her about it either. (link)
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Ask her on a casual date, like a movie or even swimming during the summer. Tell her that you like her a lot, but DON'T use the love word yet. That can sometimes scare people away.. in a good and bad way, I guess. If when you tell her that you like her, she says it back, take her out again and let a relationship form. If something more becomes of it, after a while, you can tell her that you love her.
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where can i get a dress similar to these? like stores that sell similar, etc.
http://tinypic.com/r/n3rxwj/6
thankyou(: (link)
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I saw something with almost the exact same neckline at Dillards the other day (:
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I heard this song on the radio. I think I've heard it before but it seems like a long time ago. I am thinking it might be an old song. It repeats a lot of numbers a lot. I think it's like a phone number but a made up one, of course, for the song. It says, "Jenny, I got your number...I got your number..." over and over too.
Who sings this song?
And does anybody have some lyrics they can give me on here too for it?
THNXXX (link)
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Goo Goo Dolls sing "Jenny". It's a great song, hope this helps (:
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15/f
My boyfriend and I are going to have sex and when I told him I had just gotten on the pill, the first thing he says is how excited he is because he won't have to use a condom. When he said this, I had no idea how to respond because I've always been under the impression that with sex, a condom is ALWAYS a must for protection. My first time was last winter break when I was raped. Since then, I've been tested (clean) and only had safe-sex once with my current boyfriend. I know the fact that I'm having sex with my boyfriend at such a young age may seem "slutty" after such a short period of time but being raped, I never thought I'd have any desire to have sex again. Plus, now that I've done it, I'm much more open to it. But, I'm not sure how open I am to sex without a condom. He's 18 and I'm his first and we're currently not seeing anyone else....I just don't know what to think about sex without a condom. I want this to be special but I'm just not sure. Because I'm his first and we're both clean, sex without a condom shouldnt have any risk.....right? (link)
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Yes, it's relatively safe, but I had a friend that got pregnant on the pill, wen she had sex without a condom. If you want to completely ensure that you're protected, use a condom anyway. He may not want to, but it's really the best thing to do if you want to be careful.
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ok so im 14 girl and in the small town i live there aren't many teenage guys. i go to the movies, bowling, everywhere but i can't seem to find any? i dont like anyone at school and am not joined in clubs that have guys in them. None of my friends know guys so what can i do to meet some?! please help and when i meet one wat do i say?! ahhh thnx :) (link)
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Your question is a REALLY common one for girls your age, and I'm sure you don't want to hear the "You should be happy without a boyfriend at your age," because I'm sure you've heard it enough times.
You could try a youth group maybe? There's a lot of great guys involved in that kind of thing.
Also, you're nearly old enough to get a summer job. If you're interested, the places that you'd most likely work would have guys your age. You could always start out with friendship, then into something more.
Keep going to the places you're going, if it's meant to be with someone, it'll happen. (:
Do you have any guy friends? Sometimes who you're meant to be with is right in front of you, you just don't know it yet. I didn't think it could happen either, but it turned out my guy best friend became the love of my life. So, don't knock it until you try it. (:
Best of luck! I really hope you find someone special!
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