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I actually believe I'm in love with this girl.
I am 17 year old boy. I have been through my naive days and honestly have a completely different, more real mind set. I actually believe I'm in love with this girl. I don't ever use that word either, 'love' that is. I never thought a person can have this sort of perplexing feeling. She's not the average/typical girl, if ya know what I mean. I won't bore you any further because I can go on and on. I don't know how she feels about me. I don't know how to confront her about it either.
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I recommend looking up "love addiction" Many high schoolers go through this. However if you look this up and it is not you, then just try talking to her. Good luck!
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Ask her on a casual date, like a movie or even swimming during the summer. Tell her that you like her a lot, but DON'T use the love word yet. That can sometimes scare people away.. in a good and bad way, I guess. If when you tell her that you like her, she says it back, take her out again and let a relationship form. If something more becomes of it, after a while, you can tell her that you love her.
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First ask her to hang out. Ask her to a movie and some pizza afterwards. You know, get to know this girl a bit more. I dont know how long you known this girl.. so I dont know how comfortable you guys are around each other. But maybe after getting to know this girl after some time(like say after hanging out a few times) tell her how you feel. Now dont go using the love word. That's way too soon. Tell her that, you like her alot. Tell her that you have really strong feelings for her and that you want to try things out and see where things go. And see what she responds to that. ANd if she likes- then great- ask her to be your gf. And if she dosent feel the same... then you know how she feels.
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The only way you'll know if the feeling is mutual is to ask her about how she feels about you too. If you're not dating her then it's time to ask for her phone number and if she'd like to see you this weekend at dinner or a movie in town.
"Hey, NAME, I was wondering if I could have your phone number so I could give you a call sometime, if that's alright with you..." Call that evening and ask her out for this coming weekend. Try to find a place where you guys can have a casual conversation (ie: not the movies right away; try a few nifty activities where you live like bowling, having dinner together, or just walking around a lakeside if she's into that sort of thing).
Note, if you're not dating her currently then don't jump the gun with "L" word. Try to play it off as you're simply interested in getting to know her better and building a relationship that may blossom into something greater.
If you are seeing her already then maybe it's time to have a nice, romantic date together and express your deepest feelings about your girl.
"I've been thinking about where we our in our relationship. I've never felt like this before about you. You are amazing and I think we really have such a great connection. This might come as a shock to you because I'm shocked myself that this is real...I am in love with you."
Either way, if you want this to develop into something beautiful then it's time to make your move! :)
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