I'm a southern Asian girl. I have been through a lot in my life. I don't think that I know everything about life, but I like to help people. I might be able to relate to their pain and find a way to help them. I'd like to help with anything from friends to depression. I don't judge people, you can believe me when i say that or not. Don't be shy to ask me questions. I'd be gladly to help. I'm talkative and very outgoing. I hate gossips. I love to be in touch with different people. I don't have high tolerance for bad attitude or any kind of sexual behavior. If there's anything you'd like to know, just message me (:
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I'm turning 17 this summer. Right after I turned 16 I got really, really emotional. I used to rarely cry; when I was younger, I considered it a sign of emotional weakness and willed myself not to cry even when I wanted to. I probably cried once or twice a year.
It has nothing to do with being sadder, but I seriously just cry so much more often and easily now. Like, my boyfriend (older) brought me to one of his friend's parties last week, and I didn't know anyone. His friend was chasing him and he ran away into the woods to hide with another friend. After about five minutes I took my stuff from the main party area and stood by his car and just cried. I guess because I knew nobody there? I know I had no need to, but I just cried, hard.
A few weeks ago I went through something really emotional at home, something I had a right to be upset about. In school the next day, one of my teachers harshly took my phone (while I was texting) right out my hands without a warning, which isn't extremely common at my school. That little trigger made me cry so hard and for so long that I had to go home from school.
Is this a hormonal imbalance? If I bring it up with my doctor at my next physical I'm afraid she'll think I'm like depressed or make me see a psychologist or something. Its not puberty, I've had my period since I was 11. Ideas? Any help? Thanks so much. (link)
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I think you're just emotionally unstable that's all. I don't know what cause it.
I can relate to it. I never cried before but starting two years ago i would just get depressed over everything and cried.
You're not likely to be label as depressed but it's a possibility. I think you should try talking to your friends or your mom about it. If there's anything that's bothering you at all. Even if you think it's stupid to talk about. I think the reason why you cry so easily is that you have so much emotion built up in you for the years that you didn't cry. You started to have low toleration for things so it triggers you to cry very easily. If you let those emotions out maybe they won't overflow and maybe then you'll be able to control your emotions.
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Ok, this may sound strange, even cliche, but lately I've been getting let down, and right now I'm all out depressed. For no reason! I don't understand! The slightest thing can tick me off, and it's not even something I'd usually get upset over. My mother says it's just "teenage hormones" but I highly, highly doubt that. I'm debating going to the doctors on my own, and asking about some medication I could be put on. It'd be great to not feel this way anymore. I really hate it, and it's wrecking my relationship and friendships. Please help! Thanks! (link)
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I think your mother might be right. But I would recommend you see a psychologist. I'm not saying that you're crazy or whatever. But it happened to me too. I would get depressed very often and it would be over the littlest thing.
But I think you should try and rest a little. Maybe it's just the stressing of the brain that brought your moods plummeting. If after that and you're still depressed a lot then I think the doctor might be able to tell whether you're a depressant or not.
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So, me and this guy have been talking for quite awhile now. We hang out and act just like couples do. The problem is, he never texts me. Sometimes we go all day without texting and it urks me so bad! I text him and he will write back maybe once or twice and thats it, unless he askes me to hang out.I just hate how he dosent text me that much. I know we don't have to talk 24/7 but i dont wanna go all day without talking to him. Ive mentioned it to him 3 times and all he says is "im sorry." I really really like him but i dont know what to do. :/ Help! Should i text him first, not text until he texts me or what? (link)
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I understand where you're coming from. It happened to me too.
But what you must ask yourself first is: Is he a shy person? Because if he is then he's probably doesn't want you to think that he's being too clingy by texting you too much.
What would be the best thing to do is talk to him about it. Not just tell him that it hurts. Ask him if it bothers him to talk to you or what is on his mind. Just ask him to pour his heart out to you. I know guys don't like to talk about their feelings but if he loves you then he should be able to tell you exactly what is wrong.
But also there could be a possibility that his texts never made it to your phone. It happened sometimes with the network. I'm not sure but Talking is the best cure.
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