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Break up
Posted Monday February 7 2011, 4:58 pm
I'm asking this for my friend who is too chicken to do this himself. He and his girlfriend of one year and 14 days broke up. She broke up with him. They were doing the the long distance. After our first semester of college she broke up with him saying that she was too busy and join so many clubs and whatever. He didn't want to break up. So now next semester he is still into her. Everytime he's one facebook he looks at her wall posts, who she added as friend, and new pictures. Its kind of creeping me out. So what should i do or say to help move on? I'm running out of ideas, Help!
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Valentines day...
Posted Monday February 7 2011, 10:07 am
Okay i am 19/m and she is 16/f. I need an idea on what to do for valentines day. I'm not a poet..been there tried that, and i'm in a financial bind at the moment, so it's not like i can buy her something nice. Every christmas and her birthday, i do something special and get her an extravagent gift..but this year is going to have to be different and she understands that, i just feel horrible that i can't get her anything nice. hell..i don't even have the money to buy her roses.. I would love to sit down and spend time doing something for her i just have no idea what i can do..plz..help
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Posted Sunday February 6 2011, 11:02 pm
what does it mean to spoon someone
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Dumped for the superbowl
Posted Sunday February 6 2011, 9:34 pm
Okay, lol I feel like I'm being so unfair to my boyfriend. I know its a ONCE a year thing. But I don't like football. So he is having his big superbowl party and everything and I feel left out.. is this wrong. I won't say anything, just need to know if anyone else feels like this. Ps. Its my birthday
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I'm shy... but I don't want to be shy anymore
Posted Sunday February 6 2011, 5:03 pm
Are there any good ways to get a guy to like you? last year my best friend was flirty and out going so she brought out that side in me which all the guys loved and this year we aren't friends and I have became more shy so are there any good ways to make a guy like you other than being yourself that is easy to do for a shy person??
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Falling hard for Mr. Unattainable
Posted Sunday February 6 2011, 1:13 pm
My brother is in a serious relationship- and we met the family for the first time recently, and I found myself attracted to her brother- physically, and personality-wise. We all went out afterward, and I talked to her brother at dinner basically the entire time... I had a feeling he might be interested, but (a) he is very outgoing and friendly, so he might have been trying to be nice (b) I'm his sister's boyfriend's sister, so that ties in closer to (a), and (c) he might already have a girlfriend, according to my brother, but we aren't sure if he still does, or if it's a serious relationship.
It's a difficult/awkward situation to be in. First, our siblings are in a serious relationship. I live across the country, for the time...
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hateful words
Posted Sunday February 6 2011, 11:47 am
long story short: my boyfriend and i got into a heated argument last night and things just went a little too far (i was drunk and he was drinking a lot too). i said some things i didn't mean, but he took it to the next level and said some REALLY mean things.... what should i do? my feelings are completely hurt and i feel like i could never forgive him for saying those things... any advice would be great, thanks y'all.
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Knowing when a guy likes you
Posted Sunday February 6 2011, 4:42 am
How do i know when a guy likes me?
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I started liking my cousin's boyfriend
Posted Sunday February 6 2011, 4:29 am
Okay so my cousin has a boyfriend & i dont, he likes me & i didnt like him, i told my cousin everything that he said; because im a good friend, but then i started liking him too... what do i do!!?
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Posted Sunday February 6 2011, 2:53 am
(I am fifteen, girl, sophomore. He is seventeen, boy, junior). So me and my ex have been broken up for about nine ish months? We dated for eight and had a reeeeally messy break up. While we were dating he, yes, had me pretty whipped. It's something I'm really not proud of. But he took advantage of that in a lot of ways and really hurt me... To sum it up he pressured/guilted me into physcial stuff, dumped me in a text, and told me he only stayed with me for so long cause he liked hooking up and he never actually liked me. Yet yeah, he had me whipped cause he reallly had me fooled that he loved me. He would actually force me to look him in the eye while he said he loved me... Didn't really think someone could lie to my face like that but ugh ...
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This guy I was close to, Then he got a girlfriend!
Posted Sunday February 6 2011, 12:44 am
So, I'm in the middle school and I had this guy I was into, and I think he was really into me. Even my sister, and friends thought he really liked me. And, one Saturday, this girl said She was going out with him. Suddenly, I felt so crushed and I was basically crying the whole night. I texted him and confronted him in a pretty harsh way and told him not to talk to me. Then, about a week later, I guess we kind of became friends again. I don't know if that's the right choice because he will always be around her..Please help! I don't know what to do!
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Am I Overreacting?
Posted Saturday February 5 2011, 6:01 pm
I'll try to keep it short. One day, I was playing games on my boyfriend's phone when I noticed a series of texts from this girl (we have tons of mutual friends so I was wondering why I didn't know this girl). I went through the texts and I didn't like what I saw. Texts like "smart is sexy", "hanky panky is a fun exercise ;)", etc. were in there and I got really angry. I confronted him about it, but he didn't seem concerned at all. He casually mentioned he's known this girl for a while and they've always joked around like that and it wasn't a huge deal. I'm old fashioned and I see it as a mild form of cheating. Am I overreacting or should I be worried? Thanks so much guys in advance.
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Should I ignore this guy that I like? I also don't know if he interested in
Posted Saturday February 5 2011, 12:35 pm
Okaay, so there is this guy that I like but I don't know if I should ignore him or not because it might give him mixed signals. But one day I didn't talk to him at all and atleast every 5 minutes he would try to talk to me but I wouldn't answer. It seems like he likes me but I'm not so sure. What should I do? Also I am 13 and female and the guy I like is 13 too bur male.
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overprotective boyfriend!!
Posted Saturday February 5 2011, 1:13 am
My boyfriend is SOOO overprotective. Some background stuff: he's seventeen and he used to live in chicago where he did a lot of bad stuff; alcohol, pot, gangs/fights. But when he moved here we started dating and have been for almost a year (11 months). When we first started hanging out (before we were official) he knew I didn't like smokers so he stopped that. He never liked being in a gang in the first place so he's not into those anymore. And drinking, well, we both party so its not a big deal. The problem in, he's gotten in about four bad fights sinces I've known him. He just get's SO jealous. One of the times he was legitimately protecting me, but the other three have been caused by random stupid guys which yes were pigs but never actua...
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i love my bestfriend but...
Posted Friday February 4 2011, 10:56 pm
hello.im 16 female. so if you have known a guy for a year 4 months 3weeks n 3days and you love them and you think they feel that same like they act like it and say they love you too. and they treat you like a princess n protect you,but they moved to st pete awhile back and you miss them all you do is cry,and you know that there with a girl who isnt right for them and they promise you to get married to run away when there 18...but you cant help but hurt...how do u handle it?
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special valentines day
Posted Friday February 4 2011, 6:12 pm
18/f
I need some ideas to surprise my boyfriend (17 years old) for valentines day/weekend.
starting on saturday morning until sunday night.
saturday night we are going to a dance so that night is taken care of. but I wanted to do something extra special with him so he will always remember it.
I was thinking about saturday morning take him out to breakfast? then to this place where you can play laser tag and bumper cars and bowling. then go to the dance.
then sunday i need a little help. Im thinking about telling him we are going to the mall or something but instead drive somewhere with a great view and then watch the sunset (but we will be in the car since its cold ...
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Crush on the same guy for over 2 years...
Posted Friday February 4 2011, 11:48 am
Ok, I am a 15 year old girl, I'm homeschooled and Ive liked this guy at my church for over 2 years. He seems like hes flirting all the time, he stares at me constantly and when i look back at him sometimes he looks away quickly and sometimes he keeps eye contact and smiles. In our church youth group he always sits near me, at summer camp he left his group of friends to come sit next to me every day. He makes me laugh all the time. Im the only girl he acts like this towards. Hes a year older than me, and i went to the same prom as his sister, and when he came to pick up his sis he asked me to dance, and i was the only one he asked. We talk all the time but were not like close friends or anything. The thing is, he has a girlfriend. Theyve bee...
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Crush on the same guy for 2 years?
Posted Friday February 4 2011, 11:32 am
Ok, I am a 15 year old girl, I'm homeschooled and Ive liked this guy at my church for over 2 years. He seems like hes flirting all the time, he stares at me constantly and when i look back at him sometimes he looks away quickly and sometimes he keeps eye contact and smiles. In our church youth group he always sits near me, at summer camp he left his group of friends to come sit next to me every day. He makes me laugh all the time. Im the only girl he acts kile this towards. Hes a year older than me, and i went to the same prom as his sister, and when he came to pick up his sis he asked me to dance, and i was the only one he asked. We talk all the time but were not like close friends or anything. The thing is, he has a girlfriend. Theyve bee...
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Posted Thursday February 3 2011, 11:43 pm
So Ive had the biggest crush on my best guy friend for a long time now. It really seemed like he liked me back but recently he's been different and today he was talking about a girl he wanted to ask to prom... He's like my best friend but how can we talk on the phone or text EVERY SINGLE day, and him not develop more feelings than friendship?? It actually broke my heart when he talked about the other girl... And I don't know what to do... I havent felt this shitty since when my last boyfriend dumped me and this guy has been the first guy since (almost a year) that i can talk to and not miss my ex... Please help me:( I hate this...I'm 15/F hes 16/M
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Contradicting Thoughts About This Whole Soulmate Thing
Posted Thursday February 3 2011, 11:11 pm
For a long time I've been struggling with the idea of a "soul mate". I don't buy it. How can there be one person in this world who you're destined to be with? I know so many people who've had broken relationships and marriages. If my sould mate does exist, why is he so impossible to find?
I used to decide relationship status based on the people that I felt I NEEDED in my life. But honestly, do you really NEED any ONE person? Everybody you come across is going to leave at some point, even if it's just by death. That's reality. And the world isn't go to stop functioning and neither am I. I'll be sad, sure. But it won't physically kill me. I'm starting to believe that God allows us to choose who we WANT to be with rath...
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