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i love my bestfriend but...


Question Posted Friday February 4 2011, 10:56 pm

hello.im 16 female. so if you have known a guy for a year 4 months 3weeks n 3days and you love them and you think they feel that same like they act like it and say they love you too. and they treat you like a princess n protect you,but they moved to st pete awhile back and you miss them all you do is cry,and you know that there with a girl who isnt right for them and they promise you to get married to run away when there 18...but you cant help but hurt...how do u handle it?

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AskAlonte answered Sunday February 6 2011, 1:56 am:
It's very easy to dwell on one situation, sit in it and sulk. While it's bit more difficult to get out of the mode of crying and being sad you should definitely try to bring yourself to being able to talk to other people and meet someone else that can do the same things for you that this guy did. The time that you spend crying could be going into building up another 4 months, 3 weeks and 3 days with another great guy to treat you like the princess that you are. Talking to him about your feelings may help you move on as well. Best wishes and good luck!

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sparkle26 answered Saturday February 5 2011, 1:16 pm:
Call him and get your feelings out, trust me it will feel alot better. See what he says, if he still feels the same way and you CANT live without him, nothing wrong with a long distance relationship! If you feel differently after you let it all out, branch out, theres probably plenty of other guys that are waiting for you to give them a chance. If he doesn't feel the same way and you still do after you tell him, talk to someone you trust, move on gradually, let yourself forgive and forget and give other guys a chance. Remember: there are plenty of fish in the sea, so dont be surprised if you find someone you feel the same way about. I hope this helps! Good luck! Rate me if you'd like:)

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