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Contradicting Thoughts About This Whole Soulmate Thing
For a long time I've been struggling with the idea of a "soul mate". I don't buy it. How can there be one person in this world who you're destined to be with? I know so many people who've had broken relationships and marriages. If my sould mate does exist, why is he so impossible to find?
I used to decide relationship status based on the people that I felt I NEEDED in my life. But honestly, do you really NEED any ONE person? Everybody you come across is going to leave at some point, even if it's just by death. That's reality. And the world isn't go to stop functioning and neither am I. I'll be sad, sure. But it won't physically kill me. I'm starting to believe that God allows us to choose who we WANT to be with rather than showing us who we NEED.
With that said, what happens when the person you WANT isn't what you NEED?
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If your question is what's at the very bottom, than obviously if its not someone you need; than you need to move on. You are contradicting yourself in every aspect of your question. If you don't believe in "soul mates" or just the fact that there is someone made for you, than that is your opinion. Everyone has different ones. If the person you want, isn't what you need, than you obviously shouldn't be with them, especailly when you already know you don't need them. It's a simple question that your giving too much thought into, which will leave you alone and lonely.
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