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Dumped for the superbowl
Okay, lol I feel like I'm being so unfair to my boyfriend. I know its a ONCE a year thing. But I don't like football. So he is having his big superbowl party and everything and I feel left out.. is this wrong. I won't say anything, just need to know if anyone else feels like this. Ps. Its my birthday
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Well, I understand that you are hurt, but its the SUPERBOWL. Asking a guy not to participate in the annual Superbowl activities is like asking a Christian not to celebrate Christmas. Its a guy thing, not just your boyfriend. If it were me, I would have gone to the party and treated it like it was a birthday party for me, with a football game to entertain folks! Superbowl is only a few hours. You could have gone, hung out and enjoyed the noise and food and drinks. Then, after it was all over, you and your bf could have just continued the celebrating doing something you wanted to do. It seems unfair, but sometimes you have to compromise to get what you want in a relationship. And sometimes you have make your own fun.
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Boys will be boys; You have to stop being selfish, and do things that he likes to do, REGARDLESS if you can't stand it. Im sure your boyfriend does things that he really could careless for, but he does it anyways because he cares about you. Super bowl only comes ONCE a year, you could have went to his party and tried to enjoy it, or atleast act like you did. Have him teach you things about football, to make you seem interested. My boyfriend is a major basketball fan, I DISPISE BASKETBALL SO MUCH! But I try to stick it out for him; I try to seem interested, so do the same.
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