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Getting a shy guy to like me?


Posted Saturday February 12 2011, 1:39 am

how do i get a shy guy to like me! im pretty outgoing what can i do? i dont wanna make uncomfortable!

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Does my best GUY friend like me?


Posted Saturday February 12 2011, 1:03 am

Okay so i have a guy friend & we've known each other since 4th grade & we are still friends.
im starting to think he likes me because he looks at me alot, when i give him a hug gives the beest hugs well my opinion, and i think hes just cute but the issue is, my bestie likes him! idk if he would ask me out or i should?
but idk because my bestie likes him .. but my bestie can be a big bitch at times!

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Too "innocent" for stereotypical "country boys"?


Posted Friday February 11 2011, 7:57 pm

Mid teens female here, about to leave home for a small farm town.

I don't mean to sound so narrow-minded with the subject, but it's the shortest way to put it.

Anyway, I was wondering... It seems to me like country people and city people alike are fairly open about sexuality these days, but it seems like, note I'm saying SEEMS, not is, maybe I'm crazy.... Well it just seems like your average country girl, though she may stay pure till marriage, isn't too afraid of discussions pertaining to sex and the like, isn't afraid to show a bit of skin. Is this stereotype true, and if I move to a small town boys will be put off by me and my shyness about those things? Or, like most everything, does just depend on the person and I'm worried over nothing?



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Does he like me?


Posted Friday February 11 2011, 5:20 pm

There is a guy in my homeroom and I think he likes me but I'm not sure. Stuff he does: stares at me, always ask me if I want to hear one of his jokes, he wants me to touch him ( his head), and he is always trying to get close to me! I don't know what this means but I do have a crush on him.

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what is wrong with this boy!


Posted Friday February 11 2011, 3:56 pm

we have had sex before a few months ago and have been best friends for 5 years. we have kept in touch since i moved to college an hour away a couple months ago and just recently started sexy textng again. he always says he wants to marry me and i would be the perfect wife and girlfriend and we always sexy text and make jokes about being lovers and getting married-but i think to a point we really do think about it. he says he has fallen hard for me in the past and still has feelings for me. then i came to town (because i moved an hour away,) last weekend and when i hung out with him we went to his house, watched a movie, drank vodka and passed out and just slept..he passed out first. no action. we joked about it later in the week that we got...

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Scared of my boyfriend...? No, what is this??


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 11:45 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years. I'm 19 and he's 21. I absolutely love him, he's my world and I honestly think he makes me a better person. However. We got into a fight the other day over a HUGE misunderstanding. (that's a whole nother story, it's not really that important). Anyway. Big fight right? Well. It got to a point where we were both screeeeaming and I backed up and leaned against a wall. He came over to me and we just stared at eachother for like ten seconds in hatred. And then all of the sudden he takes my hand in his left and with his right hand, punches a hole in the wall. Yep. Clean through. It was about a foot and a half to the side and a few inches higher than my head. I was in shock. Then he just started...

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This guy I am seeing isn't ready for a relationship, but he really likes me


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 11:02 pm

To start off, I am a 21 year old male.

So I started talking to this guy about a week ago and we went out on our first date a few days back and had a great time. We really clicked and expressed to each other that we really liked each other. I stayed with him that night since he does live about an hour to an hour and 30 minutes away from me. We didn't have sex or anything but we did cuddle and kiss. On the second date, which was 2 days ago, he wanted to introduce me to all his friends so we hung out with them for a while then we went back to his house and watched some movies while laying in bed. Once again, we didn't have sex but we did have more aggressive kissing and we were touching each other below the waist, but nothing cl...

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valentines day


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 10:56 pm

what should i get my boyfriend for valentines day? I know he loves basketball, loves singing, loves dancing. He also loves romantic dates. He deserves something other than a card so what should I give him?

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Can't get over loss of killing my baby


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 9:49 pm

I killed my baby - now i can't live with the guilt. I don't know what to do.I am angry at the father for not caring and so I harass him as much as possible. My therapist says I need to let it go but I can't. Help me! How do I move on?

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I don't know what to do .


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 4:18 pm

17/f Me & my bf have been in a relationship for about 3 years. My bf has cheated like 3 times since we have actually gotten together (june 10) this next newest time : Since my boyfriend went to go hang out with his ex and not tell me we've been having problems. I told him some really mean things so then he stoped feeling bad about what he did and started being an asshole saying he was going to move back to texas where he's from so I stoped being mad about what he did so we could just be happy. weve just been having problems now & today bc I wouldn't just "suck his dick" hes mad and needs to smoke so I write him a check to go get money to smoke & hes still being mean & hes like he can't wait to leave, im sucha lame...

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He's confusing, and im tired of it.


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 3:31 pm

He told people that he simply just doesnt want to go to prom. Today he told some people that he doesn't want to go to prom with me, but wont ask somebody else cuz he doesnt want to hurt me. Later he was flirting with me. What could possibly be going through his mind? Like i just dont get him anymore. We are really good friends, he always tells people that he thinks im cool.and we talk all the time. I cant help that im kind of hurt by his comment. As flattered as i am that he doesnt want to hurt me, i just dont see why he doesnt want to go with me. Im going with someone else now but still, id rather he tell me this himself.

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There's this really cute guy in my German class...


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 3:02 pm

There's a really cute guy in my German class, he's really funny and nice, I like him but I don't know if he likes me or if he's even single. What should I do? Thank you
Also I'm 14 and a girl.

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Will she ever date me?


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 2:44 pm

Okay, so it's a long story and I know I've posted on here before. If you've seen any posts about a girl named Nicole and her (now ex) named Kelly, they're by me.
Basically a mutual friend introduced me and Nicole about five months back and we immediately were very close...like...I've never been so infatuated with someone and she's never really looked at anyone other than her (at the time) girlfriend Kelly whom she'd been dating almost three years. We got really close, both emotionaly and physically over the months before it actually led to her cheating on Kelly...quite a few times.

She wasn't playing Kelly, I mean I've seen this girl cry herself to sleep over what she was doing to Kelly. It's not like she was okay with...

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Girlfriend's Sexual History not exactly History


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 2:38 pm

So, here's an odd one. I'm currently engaged to a fantastic woman. She's everything that I've always wanted, and we're madly in love. We dated for a long time several years ago, and then broke up. Now, 2 years later, we've gotten back together. Here's the problem:

We're fairly adventurous people sexually. We've had a sort of threesome (oral on me only), and we've always talked about doing more than that. Then, just after we broke up the first time, I had a threesome (MFM) with a couple of friends. Now, when we got back together, I was shocked to learn that she'd had a threesome (MFF) with the same girl! And our old flatmate. Should be cool, right? I've done it, she's done it, we've done it... Not exactly.
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Should i break up with him?


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 1:21 pm

I love the guy i'm with but he doesn't give me freedom with my friends and my phone. he's also the jeslous type. he's just like this control freak and he wants me to give him attention all the time, and we argue. should i stay with him or break it off?

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starting from zero


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 1:05 pm

hi, i am shirin bansal, male, 18 years old from india. its about my first love.we got to know each other in a coaching in October,2009.to keep the story short, i started liking her, proposed her for being a girlfriend, she never said yes or no, it was all well for just 20 days, then everything went wrong, we never dated, i lost total contact after 17th march,2010 but always sent her messages on her phone and facebook profile, i stalked her.meanwhile, in that time, she got admission in a far city for college.one day, i got her number, called her but i was too desperate and nothing changed.i tried once more but this time she was too loud and rude, so i stopped contacting her since October,2010.

Everything went wrong because o...

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He says he loves me. I'm sure he thinks he does, but...


Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 12:26 am

My boyfriend is away at college. I am a high school senior. We have dated for almost a year and a half.

He says he loves me. I'm sure he thinks he does.

Our relationship has changed. We see each other once a week, usually - he comes home every weekend to see his mommy, not me - and he makes no effort to call me during the week. If we Skype, its my suggestion. All of our conversations are superficial. We're just texting "I love you"'s back and forth maybe 5 times a day instead of actually saying something meaningful or sharing stories. I try, but get nothing back. I used to ask him what he was doing as a conversation topic but because it was never returned I felt as if I was prying and stopped. Now we ...

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So there's this kid I like...


Posted Wednesday February 9 2011, 10:59 pm

Welp, there is this kid I like he's my age and we have two classes together. His name is Joey. Well, Joey I guess you could call him the "class clown" but sometimes he's sort of serious in a sarcastic way.. if you catch my drift. It's not like Joey and I are complete strangers we know each other and have talked on more than one occasion. You can consider us 'friends' I suppose. A couple weeks ago Joey sends me a text saying "We should get to know each other better" I think there was a little bit of truth to it but more of just something to say to me. So I just responded with "Hahaha, okay Joey." And that conversation faded away.

Here's what really bothers me. In last period Joey sits right next ...

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My best friend's ex just asked me if he should ask her out again


Posted Wednesday February 9 2011, 10:19 pm

Well, today my best friend's ex boyfriend, Edson, asked me if he should do something special for her, on Valentine's Day, and then ask her out. I don't know what to tell him because my best friend Jessica is barley getting over him and she is into this other guy who she has been crushing on for almost 2 years, he also likes her. But it's hard because Edson is also my friend and I don't want him to get hurt too. But Jessica has been my best friend for 7 years and I definitely don't want her to get hurt. What should I do? And should I tell Jessica that he asked me this or should I keep it to myself?

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Why is Life so hard?


Posted Wednesday February 9 2011, 9:38 pm

I am seriously doubting everything right now. Idk what is wrong with me I'm just not happy with anything... advice??

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