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Should i break up with him?


Question Posted Thursday February 10 2011, 1:21 pm

I love the guy i'm with but he doesn't give me freedom with my friends and my phone. he's also the jeslous type. he's just like this control freak and he wants me to give him attention all the time, and we argue. should i stay with him or break it off?

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HelpingHand2011 answered Friday February 18 2011, 1:48 am:
Honey,
I can say from experience that jealousy in men can eventually turn physical. You don't need that kind of treatment. I am pretty sure you are a very fun person to be around so why let someone tell you how to live or who to be around? In your best interest, I would say to break it off. But, definitely do what you think is in your best interest at heart! Good luck honey!

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Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday February 10 2011, 9:49 pm:
Frankly, a guy like that is bad news. Who is he to have any kind of a say in who you hang out with, or who you call?
No matter how long you've been together, if he's not giving you any freedom, take it. He has absolutely zero right to control you like that. None. Zip. Zilch. Nada.

Catch my drift?

Not to mention, if you're so ambivalent about your relationship with this guy that you're asking a bunch of strangers on the internet if you should stay or go, you already know the answer. You KNOW he's not treating you right.

I don't know how old you two are, but you should be aware that controlling, jealous, possessive guys can easily become physically abusive when they don't get what they want.

Just remember that you deserve to be treated like a person and an equal, not a pet or a possession.

He's an asshole. Get out now.

Siren

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Thursday February 10 2011, 9:16 pm:
break it off. I dated a guy like that and trust me it didnt go well he was constantly blowing my phone up i had to change my cell number and my house phone i slammed on the floor and broke it he just drove me insane.

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