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I don't understand my teacher's actions....?
I have this very young teacher and lately He keeps on winking and smiling at me, or just hugs me randomly when there is no one around.he also keeps on talking to me even whenever other students are around and he kind of ignores the others
im getting afraid of him and my friends start laughing whenever he does something.
does this mean he likes me and he is into me?
how can i find out? and how can i tell him to stop?
i still go to school btw.
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I agree with the other written below; but his is not something you should try to handle yourself. This is a problem that requires parental intervention, so you need to tell your parents about this.
What your teacher is doing is wrong and very possibly even criminal. The winking and smiling can be explained away as a form of encouragement. The hugging is where the problem comes in and what may raise this to a criminal act.
An occasional hug in front of their students and teachers for outstanding performance can also be explained as encouragement. To do so when no one is around or in dark corners is a problem.
Most importantly you must understand that you have nothing to be ashamed of and you are not to blame yourself for anything that has happened. You are a victim, possibly of someone with child molester tendencies.
Tell your parents and let them handle this. The teacher should be immediately suspended from teaching and the Police should be notified fr them to investigate and do a background check on this man.
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You need to contact upper authorties if he is making you feel this way than that is wrong in general and talking to your principal IMMEDIATLY. It is very important you do this because I or anyone else here doesnt want something to happen between you and he.
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You don't need to wait to find out how serious he is. What is doing is wrong now.
Next time he tries to touch you, say "No."
Loudly, clearly, say "Don't hug me. Stop."
If he doesn't stop, talk to your principal.
He's making you uncomfortable, and he needs to stop.
If you don't feel you can tell him to stop yourself, talk to a teacher or guidance counselor you can trust, and tell them what is happening.
His behavoir is inappropriate, and it's abusive for a teacher to do this. You would be perfectly right to tell him to stop it. You'd also be perfectly right to speak to an adult and get their help.
It doesn't matter why he is doing this. Don't try to understand why. What matters is that he must stop. Do whatever you need to to make sure he gets the message that he needs to stop it.
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