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She's heartbroken :'[
Posted Monday November 27 2006, 10:21 pm
one of my very good friends has had this MAJOIR OBSESIVE CRUSH on this guy in our grade. shes liked him for 5 years now & has hardly said 2 words to him. i've become very good friends with him & gotten to know him very well. he asked me if she liked him [because it was totally obvious] and i said yes. she is really worried now that he likes me not her & is starting to get frustrated. i'm sick of hearing all of her drama about this boy & i really think she just needs to move on with her life, but how am i supposed to tell this to the most shy girl in our grade. she has cried on the phone to me for 5 hours before, when he didn't ask her to dance at our 8th grade graduation party. i'm just stuck we're sophmores in highschool &a...
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My friend has trouble with guys...
Posted Monday November 27 2006, 9:11 pm
Okay, so i have a friend that i would really like to help out. I'm finding out that a lot of guys like me. And she has to hear about this all the time. I can tell she is annoyed by it, and she also tells me about how she is sad that she doesn't have a boyfriend... and how she is always getting jealous of people, because almost everyone in our grade has a boyfriend.
She really likes this kid that we talk to a lot. But she won't let me hint out that she likes him, or anything like that. She is scared that he will have a reaction of "eww she likes me..." and not like her back. I think that it is totally possible that he could like her. But i'm not sure how to find out how. Any advice? (The kid she likes is ...
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Mary is outta her mind lately, but should warn our friend?
Posted Monday November 27 2006, 8:25 pm
This question requires a bit of a back story so please bare with me.
I have two friends, for arguments sake: Whitney and Mary. Whitney is my best friend and roommate. Mary used to live with us and we were all quite close, but she moved out over a year ago. As we have one large group of friends many of us still have contact with Whitney’s ex boyfriend Mark, although he no longer lives in town. They were together for about three years so it was rather serious but things are pretty good between them now.
Anyways, Mary is pursuing Marc romantically. Not sure a huge issue, we are all adults here. She was upfront with Whitney about it, here is the problem:
Mary is out of touch with reality. This has ...
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Christmas time SUCKZ for me
Posted Monday November 27 2006, 4:20 pm
I'm not a christian but at school we exchange gifts. Not angel earthling but like friends share gifts. My friend normally buy stuff for me and I buy stuff for them but the problem is what to buy. IT's always been what to buy. I want to buy it early this time.
I have 3-5 girls I want to buy for. Nothing too...expensive or over-the-top. but something cheapish and worth gettin. Something maybe a book or something that's a simple nice gift and that I can go anywhere and get one!
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should i stay out of it???
Posted Monday November 27 2006, 1:39 pm
i am 23 years old.my ex boyfriends girlfriend thinks we are having an affair. we are not. i have not seen him in a year. she got suspicious because i called him out of the blue on his birthday. now he tells me she wants to question me about our alleged "affair". should i talk to her and tell her there is nothing going on or should i stay out of it completly??????
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What should I do?
Posted Monday November 27 2006, 10:54 am
I have been having issues with a friend and shes bene doing the same stuff to me for a long time since I met her. Everytime she gets ticked off for no reason, she blames it on a friend and I and we havent done anything to tick her off, etc. She doenst seem to realize though that all she cares is about herself and not us and how we feel, etc. She will not give up that her boyfriend is not good for her. He controls her, etc and she doenst realize he isnt good for her since hes making her uncorforable, etc nad wont give up on him and date other guys sicne hes not really a good boyfriend for her and that she wont get over her ex friend as she keeps sending her unwanted emails, etc and her ex friends has basically told her to leave her alone and...
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parties
Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 9:31 pm
jackie, kelly and i are all good friends. jackie always follows kelly around at parties, like wherever she goes. it annoys me because then they leave me out of stuff sometimes, like all three of us could be talking and they'll randomly leave to go get a drink or go to the bathroom together and they leave me by myself. i have alot of other people i hang out with/can hang out with at parites and stuff but it's just times like that when they leave me that annoys me. advice?
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how to talk
Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 4:40 pm
i pause when i talk. i dont know how to get the words out of my mouth. i say like and ugh way too much.i feel akward in conversations with people who im not as close with. how do i speak more fluently and about things that are more interesting?!??!?
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to shy
Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 12:09 pm
there is this problem.... i am to shy to talk to guys i mean not cuz i like them just to make friends idk if it is because i'm so used to girls or what but it is hard.i mean i can talk to them on the internet or on the phone but not in person. what is the Problem here?
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SHe's stalking the guy i like
Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 12:07 pm
i've liked this guy for two years and i know a lot about him....but my friend is obsessed with him but she doesn't like him....or so i don't think how do i tell her to back off without her being hurt.
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"friend" -or so i think- problems/ fight -is she really my f
Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 8:32 am
13/f
This girl that I know was really nice to me on the first day of school -i was new- so i thought she was my friend, but then she calls me wierd and stupid and a loser...and she's not joking. And a few days ago she signed on as my best guy friend -on AIM- and started saying I'm not your friend, I think you suck, and stuff like that...so blocked her. i really want to be friends with her beczuse we have to be friends-cathioc school-or we get detention. Everytime I say STOP or sumthing she says I'm only joking. then the next day she makes fun of what I said the other day. I guess I'm asking if anyone has a friend or ex friend like this...and whether that person is still your friend or not...or whether I shouldn't be this girl's frien...
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Annoying friend.
Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 2:57 am
I have this one friend. He is decent enough offline, but online he is extremely annoying. He IMs me the second I sign on and if I do not answer any of his IMs withing thirty seconds, he spams my IM with "PLZZZZ TLKKKK!!" and such. Seriously, one time he was doing that to my away message for over an hour. He is also pretending to like A Clockwork Orange because I do, which is extremely irritating. He even talks like them now. He is also obsessed with the 60s and that is one of the only things he ever talks about. I can't tell him because it'll really hurt him, but...ugh, he greatly annoys me online. I've tried not answering what he writes or saying I'm busy at the moment, but you can only do that for so long. Blocking him is not an...
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loosing him.
Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 12:18 am
recently ive had this feeling that one of my best friends doesnt seem to be my best friend anymore its like he's moved on to someone else [im a girl, hes a guy] he doesnt talk to me the way he used too. hes moved on to some other girl [he's gay]and it sucks. everything he used to tell me he tells her instead and it kills me.Ive tries to talk to him about this but he denies it and says he loves us the same and that im over eacting but i know im not ive known him for half my life and hes known her for a year, i really dont want to loose him.What do you think i should do?
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HUGE friend problem
Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 7:05 pm
I have 3 friends, REALLLY good friends, and we all go to the same skool and in the same class. were besties. anyway, those 3 friends live pretty close to each other, and i live a little farther away, so they r always doing things without me (shopping, movies, hanging out ect.) and leaving me out. I know theyre not doing it on purpouse, but it still REALLY hurts becuase they talk about it infront of my face. Ive tried to talk to them about it, but they just get REALLY mad. what should i do?
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My friend's family problems
Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 5:25 pm
15/F
My best friend, Allie, is having family problems and I am wondering how to support her. Her mom has recently started drinking too much, smoking and having a bad attitude. Allie (15) has two younger siblings (aged 12 and 13). Her mother is constantly yelling at Allie, but not the other two children. Allie is expected to run the family.
Allie's parents are divorced. When Allie is at her father's house she is made a slave. She is trated very unfairly (I have been to her father's house and I came home crying because they were so mean to us).
Allie's father a few years ago made her live with him (normally she just goes there on weekends) because her mother was 'too unstable'.
Allie...
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popular
Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 12:40 pm
im really popular now
but im so scared that im not gonna be throughout highschool.
Ive been pretty popular for a few years, im just scared
and i know its not all about being popular
but once you get used to it, then its hard to not be it.
help??
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my friends..
Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 10:47 am
(May be kind've long, but bear with me)
Alright, so I have this friend, she is a girl, she's 16 (im 15). Everytime i hang out with my boyfriend, her and my boyfriend's friends (who are all 16 as well), all the attention seems to go to her whenever she is around. I dont mean to be mean or anything, but it just seems like no one pays any attention to me. Im not tryin to be a bitch or anything, its just im jealous, because even sometimes my boyfriend talks to her more than me some days, but then walks over to say hi to me and hug me because he sees me not talking to anyone or i just look upset. The reason im not talking to anyone is because i cant relate to anything they talk about and the things i like to talk about dont intere...
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This guy
Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 1:13 am
There's this guy that I've sorta known last year. We were kinda the people who went "hi" in the hallways and nothing more since we had no classes together.
Well, this year--I still don't have classes with him but I see him at lunch and I get to talk to him during that time just a little. And since in high school there are more school activities going on, I can talk to him at some of them. But overall, I don't get to talk with him much in or out of school. But I really like him because he's silly and funny and cute and just awesome.
At a school play, I made a rash decision and rested my head on his arm and he didn't seem to mind. And so after that he seemed a little bit more talkative to me I guess y...
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cutting
Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 12:56 am
Ive been cutting for about a year and i just got found out about a month ago. Im kinda happy to be out in the open about it and everything but i told my best friend and she didnt even care. She actually started to tell everyone shes an alcoholic when in reality shes acting drunk for the attention and now shes hurt that i dont care about her problem.. Its completly made up.. why should i care if shes doing it for attention everything she does is to start stuff and i really dont want to just ditch her cuz shes my best friend but i have no idea what to do anymore
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flirting friend
Posted Friday November 24 2006, 11:09 pm
ok i really need your advice columnists:
I have ben goin out with this amazing guys for almost 4 months.The problem is, my friend who is in like all of his classes, flirts with him all the time! Its not that im jealous, im just scared of looing him =[ I always tell my friend to back off, but it doesn't work, it fot to th point where i started crying on the phone on 3 way with my best friend and my boyfriend. What should i dooo?
I'm realy upset and confused =[
please help, FASTT!
thanks again =]
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