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jackie, kelly and i are all good friends. jackie always follows kelly around at parties, like wherever she goes. it annoys me because then they leave me out of stuff sometimes, like all three of us could be talking and they'll randomly leave to go get a drink or go to the bathroom together and they leave me by myself. i have alot of other people i hang out with/can hang out with at parites and stuff but it's just times like that when they leave me that annoys me. advice?
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try talking to them about it .If there really your true friends they will understand .just explain to them calmly !try saying something like "im not mad at you but i am feeling very left out"if they get mad then they werent friends that you need anyway.let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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I'm sure you know what I or anyone would tell you to do. You won't solve this problem if you don't talk to them. Tell them what's going on. Maybe they don't notice that they're doing it. If they get mad at you, don't worry about it. It's a stupid reason & don't let it get to you. They would get over it. But talk to them. They're your friends and they will understand.
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The best thing to do about this is just go and talk to them about it. They may not know that you're feeling left out, and they probably don't know that they are doing it. Everyone does that, but not intentionally. I'm sure they wouldn't try to hurt you if they are your good friends. They probably just don't realize that they are leaving you out all the time. So just tell them about how you are feeling, and how you feel left out. I'm sure they'll understand, and try harder not to leave you out as much.
JaNe
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