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What should I do?
I have been having issues with a friend and shes bene doing the same stuff to me for a long time since I met her. Everytime she gets ticked off for no reason, she blames it on a friend and I and we havent done anything to tick her off, etc. She doenst seem to realize though that all she cares is about herself and not us and how we feel, etc. She will not give up that her boyfriend is not good for her. He controls her, etc and she doenst realize he isnt good for her since hes making her uncorforable, etc nad wont give up on him and date other guys sicne hes not really a good boyfriend for her and that she wont get over her ex friend as she keeps sending her unwanted emails, etc and her ex friends has basically told her to leave her alone and stop contacting her. all we kept giving was this friend advice and she doest seem to want to leave her ex friend alone and she dont think that her exfriend will call the cops, etc because she is harassing her ex friend with the unwanted emails, etc and her exfriend doesnt wnat her to email her or have any kind of contact with her anymore for the things she done to her ex friend like tell people to prank call her ex friend, give out her number online for people to prank call her. I was one of the people she told to prank call her ex, but thank good that I didnt plus I cant make long distance phone cals and I dislike talking on the phone and I would never prank call anyone as thats just lame and stupid and her ex best friend has bascially has moved on and she wants nothing to do with my friend but she wont move on! so when ever we give her advice or if we arent doing a thing wrong, she will take her anger out on us which we done nothign wrong to upset her as she has these monthly tantrums where she thinks she can get her own way but she cant and I am really tried of it. I ma begi nning to think I shouldnt be friends with her and want nothign to do with her either like her ex friend becuase I am tired of her and her excuses and she doesnt really care how I feel, etc. So She will stay mad at me for a day or tow then the next day she comes back saying "I miss talking to you, etc" excuse and I am tired of it. I have known her for almost two years and I am sick and tired of her lame excuses, etc. So what should I do? I have tried time and time to try and tell her how I feel but she wont bother to listen to me or a friend or care but only for herself and all she ever talks about is her ex best friend and her boyfriend, etc and she dont bother or care what we say, etc. I know she will come crawling back to me begging for me to talk to her, etc. But I have told her numerous times how I felt along with a good friend of mine and she dont bother to care about us and how we feel, etc but only herself. Thanks. :) anyone ever been in a simular sitsuation or delt with this before? Thanks. :)
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I guess the only thing you can do is really just stop hanging out with the girl. I know it sounds harsh and everything but something kinda like this happened to me but just say a friendly hello every now and then and if she truely needs you be there for her. If your friend doesn't care about you or your good friend...is she really a friend? And if your worried about her with the bad boy-friend...try to tell her and if she doesn't listen ask your mom! Really...asking your mom could help, if your mom can't think of anything...let the girl go and learn her own lessons. And the girl's ex-friend, tell her to block her e-mails. I hoped I helped
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