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My boyfriend doesn't trust me at all


Posted Sunday July 1 2012, 1:31 pm

Last night my boyfriend took me out for dinner and as the table was full of things(saucers,silver wear,plates,glasses,wine,soda,etc)I decided to put my phone between my legs so it didn't get dirty,and it was reason enough for him to think that I was actually hidding it to text nobody knows who,we had a terrible argument and he ended up taking me back home,it was awful,what can I do or say to him? because I'm also really upset,thanks!

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Struggling with The Truth.


Posted Sunday July 1 2012, 11:10 am

My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship. As of now, he is 15 and I'm 14. He is very sweet but his anger tends to get out of control sometimes(such as swearing a lot) Recently, he encountered one of his friends on Facebook. He told me that he was mad because he had asked her a question and she told him that she would tell, but wanted to know why he was asking. He blocked her and was extremely annoyed. He asked me what i thought of it and I didn't know what to say. I thought that he overreacted to it but even though he never has, I still didn't want him to get mad at me for saying he was rude. I never see him other than online but i don't know what to tell him. His anger gets out of control but he apologized for yelling. If someb...

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I wat to aks a girl out but I'm scared


Posted Sunday July 1 2012, 6:10 am

Hi my name is gijs I live in the netherlands and I'm 13 years old
Iv had this crush on this girl mirte for a year now and I finaly what to man up and ask her out but I don't know how and I'm to scared to do it help me pleasee

Gijs

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How do i know if he likes me ?


Posted Sunday July 1 2012, 1:14 am

So there is this boy. He's my ex boyfriend and i sill kinda like him but does he like me ?? What are the signs and stuff saying if he does?? Help me please? I wanna know if i should move on to a different guy.

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What's the difference?


Posted Sunday July 1 2012, 12:34 am

I've never really known what the difference between loving someone and actually being in love was. So basically I just want someone to tell me what the real differnce is between the two.

P.S. The reason I'm asking is because I really like this guy and ive been liking him for like 6 months already and I wanna know if I'm in love with him or not. Thanks for all your help!

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Kisses and that's it!


Posted Sunday July 1 2012, 12:14 am

18/f
Okay so I'm seeing this guy and we slept together once. Now, I don't want to do that (and he knows) . The farthest I wanna go is making out, but it makes me SO wet. How can i get the most of making out and not go back on my word about sleeping with him?!

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Lost virginity, very worried.


Posted Saturday June 30 2012, 10:35 pm

Two days ago, I lost my virginity. I'm 16 years old, and I had only been on one pack of birth control. However, it's the kind with only three weeks worth, the last week open for when you have your period. I had finished the pack about 5 days before I had sex and my period lasted about 3 or 4 days, very light. Obviously the day after it ended was when I lost it. He had only entered me twice because of the pain, and even then only about 3 inches. We were not using protection. I've had stomach aches for the past couple days and as stupid as it sounds, it's freaking me out. What are the chances of me being pregnant?

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Family vs lovelife vs self


Posted Saturday June 30 2012, 10:31 pm

I have been living with my boyfriend for the past three years. My family went nuts the very first time that I have introduced him to them. I graduated and earned a degree and he finished high school. I am rebellious from the start and my family doesn't approves him as my "husband". Since my dad and my mom was away from our home, I let him stay with me along with my sister who has always been my worst enemy. I am the eldest and aged 27 and wants to have my own family. Since we always have family disagreements about him, we ran away together. But things gets worse. I have a job and is highly compensated while he is unemployed. He has a single parent of 3 kids which he abandoned due to joblessness. He left them with his in-law...

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I get dizzy, butterflies, and shake when he talks to me.


Posted Saturday June 30 2012, 6:47 pm

We dated and broke up. We are sort of friends. We stopped talking until I was over him. His birthday was yesterday so I texted him happy birthday. When I saw he replied my head got dizzy and I started shaking like crazy. I thought I was getting over him but I guess not. We didn't date very long. One month. He broke up with me for his ex-girlfriend. I was completely crushed. I liked him for 5 months before we started dating and we became best friends a month before we started dating. I have never liked anyone as much as I like him. But since the situation was bad I thought I could get over him easier. I don't want to like him but I can't help that I do. What should I do? We are both 15. Yes I understand he wont "be the one" but rig...

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I like him but I can't approach him.


Posted Saturday June 30 2012, 11:43 am

Hello, I'm a 20 year old girl and i have never believed in love. Lately, there's this guy in my college I've been crushing on, and it's the first time I've ever experienced something like this. I don't know what to call it but I always want to see him and I like everything about him even though I know some of his traits are funny to like.

The thing is; I'm not sure about myself. I can't talk to him because his girlfriend used to be a friend of mine but we ended up awkwardly not being friends because of him, though we never talked about it. But rumors sprang in campus that I like him and now he thinks he's all that, and I don't want to be the girl who liked him unrequited-ly so he thinks I'd be easy to get. That's why I can'...

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Is my boyfriend justified here?


Posted Saturday June 30 2012, 11:02 am

My boyfriend and i have been in a relationship for 2 yrs. We loved each other a lot but often had fights over little things & he would temporary break up with me (like me refusing to eat fish-which is a very imp part of his culture). It was a Saturday and my last exam was over, i couldn't wait to spend the evening with him. We were having a very nice evening when i passed a comment about his family having no property of their own and staying in a rented apartment. This upset him a lot and he broke up with me. We had no contact for a week and i missed him. The following Saturday evening, he stopped by to collect his stuff from my place when i cried & apologized but he stuck to his decision. He was going to a pub with his friends (two...

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Which guy do I choose out of four?


Posted Friday June 29 2012, 4:34 pm

I have recently started going on dates with many guys, as well as making new friendships. Now I have four guys who are all interested in me, but I do not know which one to go for. I am very athletic ad adventurous, outgoing, chill, person. So the first guy is older than me, he is a different nationality, very good looking, I met all his friends and they're all really great. He just isn't as adventurous as I am. The second guy is also older but we have alot in common. I have known him for along time but I never thought o us dating ever throughout the years of knowing him. So maybe I'm not that into him? The third has gotten me into fishing, he likes hiking with me and loves my dogs as much as I do. Te fourth is my age, cute ad we have alot o...

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my boyfriend of 2 years has a roving eyes. help!


Posted Friday June 29 2012, 2:14 pm

Hi, whenever we go out he starts looking at the other women or girls but in home he makes me feel like i'm a princess. he's in his late 40's and single father and i'm in my mid 30's. when we started to date he was so sweet and kissing me all the time and holding hands. we love each other and we live together. so guys, my question is he obviously has a roving eyes that means is he wanting to cheat or is he just wishing that he could have a one night with those women? i mean i have jokingly told him that he has a very roving eyes and he replied, only looking not touching so it doesn't better. what does he mean? thanks.

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giving a blow job


Posted Friday June 29 2012, 4:13 am

do you have any tips for a newbie on giving blow jobs? answers from both guys and girls are appreciated! age 15 gender female.

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How do I get over him?


Posted Friday June 29 2012, 1:13 am

So this boy I was with for about two years hasnt really been talking to me. Im kinda over him but he still crosses my mind alot. I had a dream last night about how our relationship used to be. I woke up crying. He was my first REAL boyfrined. He was my bestfriend. My everything kind of. He helped me through any and everything but how do i tell myself to move on to someone else? Without feeling like crap :/
14 female

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What should I do?


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 9:56 pm

I'm male/17. I like this girl, she's a year older than me. We barely know eachother. She's very quiet, and I'm shy. I don't talk to girls much. I want to get to know her more, but she doesn't seem interested. She gave me her number after I nervously asked for it in an indirect way. Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, I called once each day. (Except for Sunday, I missed her call so I called back a few times) Also, my phone accidentally called her at around 1:40am. But anyway, she didn't answer each day, so on Sunday I left a voice message. We spoke later that night, and I basically asked her if she wanted to go out to eat on Monday. She basically said no. I wanted to ask her a few things but I didn't want to seem creey and/or desperate and annoyin...

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my fiance dont trust me


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 8:38 pm

ok im looking for a job and my best friends brother which is also my mother's friend and i ddint tell my fiance that i knew the guy personally but he went throught on my facebook and find out who it was and he called me he is so mad and think that i've been lying to him lying to him for a long time and my mom saw me crying and called him and he called me child and he said that he doesnt wanna continue and i dont know what to do i love him with all my life that man is my evrything what do i do?



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I Love Him but I HATE him!


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 8:34 pm

Hey, sorry if I'm bothering you guys with so much needed advice about my boyfriend, but I'm in another situation with him. We have been dating for over a year now. I live in Illinois and my faimly wanted to move to Florida but I didnt want to because I wanted to stay with my boyfriend. So my boyfriends mom decided to take me in because she is a kind woman. Yet, there is one problem. I hate my boyfriend. He use to be kind to me, but all he is now is a controlling freak and I dont know why but I am in so much love with him and Im afraid of losing him. Im leaving for the Navy Oct 1st so Im living with him until then. first of all he always even in the past would break up with me and then have sex with me. Like once he had sex with me and then ...

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should I date him or not


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 7:59 pm

I have a friend whom I have known for about 4yrs.. I knew this guy when I was 16 and he was 28... Now I am 20 and his 32 and we both like and care about eachother a lot... But I am too scared to date him because of the age difference, I am still in the university and his a working class guy... He talks about starting a long term relationship that would lead to marriage but I don't know if he would want to spend the rest of his life with me I am still quite young for marriage and I have planned to get married at 26 but I don't know if he would want to wait that long since I am still young I love him and I want to be with him but I am afraid he would move on along the way when he sees I am not ready pls tell me what to do

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I want to go further with my boyfriend


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 6:04 pm

Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 mo., we kiss a lot, making out etc. He asked about sex, I told him I was waiting till 18, and he was very respectful. We have a really great relationship, but I would like to go further, not sex but more than kissing. He's coming over today so please respond ASAP, how do I let him know w/o being awkward that I want to go a little further? Any signals, ect..? Thanks.

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