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Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 6:19 pm
Okay, well theres this guy I really like.. I loved him for a year now and he used to like me, we even went out before but it never worked out. Now my best friend likes him! So i told her she can go out with him and that I didn't like him anymore (infact, i told everyone I don't like him) because I really want them to be happy together.. he liked her too but she didn't go out with him because she knew I liked him. thats why iI told her I didnt like her anymore. Well, when I told her that, they went out, then they broke up because he didn't like her anymore.. unfortunatley.. she still loves him but I love him too and I think he likes me.. I don't know what to do! Should I tell him I love him? Should I tell her? (I'm a girl and 13 years old.)
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Class Trip....
Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 4:42 pm
My 7th grade class is going on a school trip to Lake Compounce in Conneticut. It is on June 16th and (this may sound weird but...) I want to GO with someone (as in a DATE) I am not sure what to do. Should I drop hints, or ask? Ask one of ym guy friends and tell them I want to go as friends? Or tell them it is a date? Please help!
Also although we usually have a dress code we can wear w/e we want (I am going to wear a bikini under my clothes) but I am not sure what to wear. I want to dresss attractively, but not sluty.
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(As long as it is not retarded)
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now they're changed
Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 4:37 pm
f/14
Recently my friend just broke up with his girlfriend. Before, i wasn't really sure how i felt about him and i started to lean toward the not really liking him more than a friend choice, but now that he broke up with her, my feelings are starting to change because he's single now. She was my friend but it looks like a mutual breakup because they still talk a lot. It seems like he's starting to flirt with me again but then he told me about this girl that i hate that flirts with him a lot. It kinda freaked me out. I told him that his x-gf thought that i liked him but he was like cool. Obviously he doesn't care or he wants to sound like he doesn't care. I don't know.
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Trust
Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 4:10 pm
Im am 16 year old female and my 18 year old boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. A week ago i said i didnt trust him because i heard he was flirting with his friend.I was hurt up until i heard it was part of there relationship. I really do trust my boyfriend and didnt mean to say that i didnt. I have told him a million times i didnt mean it but things havent gone back to normal. He says he still hurt by what i said. What should i do??
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Who to Believe?
Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 4:05 pm
My best friend told me that my boyfriend was flirting with one of my friends. I dont know who to believe.. my boyfriend said nothing happened but he might just be trying to not hurt me. But then again i think my best friend is trying to break us up. Who should i believe? My best friend or my boyfriend? PLease help.
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Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 4:00 pm
ok so theres this guy. hes like 3 yrs older than me nd he asked me out ((i said no)), nd he still hits on me, flirts ALL the time, always tells me how hot i m nd wants me to send him pics of me! now i kno hes not like a COMPLETE freak cause hes my bbf's bro! but my bf is like really jealous, i feel bad nd hes freakin me out. also, his parents told him not to talk to me cause i told my bbf he was freakin me out, but he still does. i dont want his family to think bad of me for talking to him since its my bbf! this is like pmo so please help!!!
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Rejection
Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 2:32 pm
I'm switching schools next year so I won't be going back. I want to admit to my guy friend that I have feelings for him. I like him alot but I know he likes another girl & she knows that. If I tell him how I feel, do you think things will be weird this summer if he rejects, since I planned on hanging out with him as friends anyways?
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He Is Forever Gone... and I am forever broken inside.
Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 1:20 pm
Am I going about this in the right way? I am 19 and my ex is 18. We were together for almost 3 years and this is what happened:
Ok. I know that I have not wrote in here in a little while, but my heart has not been in the right place to do so. Two days ago (actually less than 48 hours) I found out something about my boyfriend that changed my life forever. I found out that he has been cheating on me for the past four months of our relationship with a girl named Allyson who lives in California and who is 17. They have never met, but I found out that they have been talking on the phone for 4-10 hours a day and sometimes all night long and this has been happening since January. This was the hardest news that I had ever had...
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what should i do
Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 9:33 am
I wrote last time how my ex wants to hook back up with me the advice was great. i talk to him and i told him how i felt and told him i was tryed of him leaving me to talk to some other gurl, and how he never sends any times with me. I seeing change in him he comes every moring to see me where it's mostly all of my girls. come to my one study hall some days to one of my class and we write notes to each other. we spend time after school with each other when we can. The thing is couple of my girls and one of my teacher friends are telling me not to get back with him. that all he want is bootie. i don't think that what should i do?
PLZ HELP ME OUT
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clingy or not?
Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 3:35 am
i know that guys dont like clingy girls, and i know that guys dont like girls that are to "separated" if you know what i mean...so my question is...what is in between clingy and separated to where it is just right and the relationship will not fail due to this type of problem....and also in that "just right state," how does the person act?
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should i keep going or give up
Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 3:31 am
I really really like this guy and he is like everythink i ever wanted(cute, can talk to him, and actually has friends...lol)well, he recently broke up with his girlfriend and she was really not "loving" and never was by him when he wanted her to be. well, he knows i like him and when we hang out sometimes he flirts and i think he likes me, but when we r talking online, i have to be the one to say, "hi, whats up," and doesnt seem interrested at all, he only really talks to me when i bring up a good subject, but when i dont have a good conversation starter, words are minimal...and sometimes doesnt resopond to my little questions like, "how r you doing?" I dont wanna sound desperate and be like,"why arent y...
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i need advice now~~~!!
Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 1:54 am
My boyfriend keeps coming back to me, claiming to love me but he always ends up cheating on me with his ex. What do i do? I'm a female age 15.
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I need some guidance for an upcoming maybe-reconciliation
Posted Thursday June 9 2005, 1:17 am
I am so worried, I ruined the relationship with the woman of my dreams over 3 years ago. We haven't spoken a word to each other since then. Last week I called her parents house and left a brief message and , suprisingly, she called and left me a message telling me that she will be at home for fathers day weekend. How do I stop myself from telling her that I still think about her everyday and that she is still the center of my dreams, or do I just tell her and risk the chance of her telling me to buzz off? I need to tell her but I don't want to risk gaining back the friendship that we once had, even if thats all it will be. Someone help me please!
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advice please!
Posted Wednesday June 8 2005, 9:25 pm
Alright! I really like this boy and he thought we broke up because i didn't reallt talk to him because when i sit near my friends and with him, i am more tempted to talk to my friends. well, he broke up with me and asked this other girl out who he said was annoying. My brother was talking to him and he told him that he broke up with me because he thought that if he went out with me for a long time, i would talk to him more but i didn't realize it. He said he doesn't hate me but he wants to be my friend. How do I get him to like me agtain????
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friend's brother
Posted Wednesday June 8 2005, 8:34 pm
ok, so recentally i have been crushing on one of my friend's brother. I know she is really protective of him and i dont know if i should tell her or not. what should i do?
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your love moving away
Posted Wednesday June 8 2005, 8:28 pm
i dont no what to do. my best friend/the guy i love. that "loves" me back. is moving to bosten(i live in ny) and i go to him "are you ever gonna come back to me"? nd he said no. then i asked him if he would forget me and he said yea. then i asked when ur like 23 nd out of collage are you gonna come back to me, nd he said no i will forget you. i dont no what to do im so sad. i cryed alot about it cuz i really really really love him. and now hes moving in 2 weeks. im crying right now. im gonna miss him alot, nd he is going to forget me. someone please tell me what to do. i need help
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UGG FREAKING OUT!!!!
Posted Wednesday June 8 2005, 7:44 pm
welps you see im a pretty "well known" prson in school, if ya know wat i meen. anyways im 18 and have had 3 boy friends in my life. everytime we would get close lyk makeout or r even close to having sex and that typ of stuff it gets around school and everyones is lyk o she did this and she did that. and my current boy friend breaks up with me and im heart broken. i will cry for days weeks. and everytime a person says o shes really "hardcore" a guy calls me and asks to have sex. ugg its rong just rong. so i have my new boyfriend and weve been going out for 2 months and i dont wana do anything serious to put our relation ship on the line. i love him soo soo much lyk i could never live without him. what should i do so anyth...
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I dont believe this..
Posted Wednesday June 8 2005, 7:24 pm
ok we'll call this boy that is only a friend of mine Billy..my best friend Sally,my boyfriend Tod,and my bad friend Tiana. Well tod and i are close,and Sally's boyfriend is Billy. but today..mine and Billys conversation is --
Billy-hey i got to tell u something important
Me-ok..
Billy--i dont like Sally any more
Me-why? i think you should break up with her then
Billy-i need to tell you something else
Me-ok what..
Billy-i like you but you cant tell Sally anything i told you.
Me-umm i have to go by..
Well the thing is,the might not have been billy.it could have been my very worst friend,tiana. But im not sure. What should i do in this HUGE mess?
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They are friends...
Posted Wednesday June 8 2005, 7:07 pm
I have been talking to this guy (we'll call him chris) and his friend (lets call him anthony) has been calling me and stuff. They are like brothers. Chris had asked me to go to the movies but i said i couldnt. and Anthony asked me to the movies too and i told him i couldnt either but i invited anthony to a softball game...and chris got mad at me and anthony. i dont know if chris likes me or something. and if he does i dont wanna mess up their friendship but i really like Anthony...what should i do?
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Help!
Posted Wednesday June 8 2005, 6:19 pm
Help! I like this boy a lot and he thought we broke up and so he asked this other girl out who he said was annoying and i think it was just to make me jealous but whatever. This other girl said stuff behind my back to my friend. She now wants to talk to me and i don't know what to do? I really like the guy but i don't know how. I have tried ignoring him and stuff but it just doesn't work. What to do????????
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