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I need some guidance for an upcoming maybe-reconciliation
I am so worried, I ruined the relationship with the woman of my dreams over 3 years ago. We haven't spoken a word to each other since then. Last week I called her parents house and left a brief message and , suprisingly, she called and left me a message telling me that she will be at home for fathers day weekend. How do I stop myself from telling her that I still think about her everyday and that she is still the center of my dreams, or do I just tell her and risk the chance of her telling me to buzz off? I need to tell her but I don't want to risk gaining back the friendship that we once had, even if thats all it will be. Someone help me please!
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Well make sure that you two are still good friends and everything before you mention it. Then do something completely spontanieous. Take her for a walk in the late evening and have a picnic set up somewhere and yall sit there and have a late late lunch or dinner and watch the sun set. Then lay down with her and look at the stars. Then just start talking, ask her what her life has been like lately. Then hopefully when she gets done, she will ask you the same question. Thats when you basically say, "You've been in my head every minute of every day for the past 3 years. I miss you..." Good chance that will work cuz i know seeing old X's and shit like that works some times. And if she says no... say you were just kidding hahaha.
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Go for the plung! Tell her. It will make her realize that you didn't mean to ruin the relationship. Your obviously in love with her. Its just the matter of how you tell her.
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You need to tell her. You also need to mention the fact that you're considering her feelings. These feelings would probably be that it's her life and you want a relationship now. Acknowledge it verbally to her and let her know that you care and that you are considering her feelings and then hopefully , once you tell her how you truly feel, then she'll give you another chance. If she doesn't , then unfortunately you'll have to come, respect, and accept her decision . And the fact that it truly may just wasn't meant to be .
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follow your heart hang out with her at first and try to read her signs and see how she feels mayb a friendship that will bloom into something more is all she needs right now
sincerly
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You have to be honest with her. Tell her that you still have those same feelings for her, but if friends is all she's willing to be then you accept and just friends it is.
Wow, three years... that is a long time to be thinking about someone. You must really truly love her.
So maybe you can say something like *Sally* I don't want to freak you out (maybe not that part) but after all this time we've been apart, I've thought more and more about you, and I think (or I know) that I still love you. Now if you don't feel the same way, I can try my hardest to handle it, because I want more than ever for us to at least still be friends. Sorry if I came on too strong but I wanted to get my feelings out there, so now you know.
That's only advice coming from a 14 year old girl. I could tell you if my ex came back into my life and we had broken up for a suitable reason, like he moved away or something, and he told me he still had feelings for me, and I was single... I'd probably try it out with him again.
So your best bet is to be honest with her. Girls like an honest guy, not a liar. So I mean yes, I guess the friendship might be at risk, because for some girls it's weird to be just friends with a guy, hopefully not with this girl though. I was going to say what have you got to lose, but thats to risky of a sentence for me.
Well good luck, I hope everything works out for you.
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