My boyfriend keeps coming back to me, claiming to love me but he always ends up cheating on me with his ex. What do i do? I'm a female age 15.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mackenzie answered Thursday June 9 2005, 11:05 am: If you take him back you aRe only showing him that you accept and appRove of his infedility, and I'm positive that you do *NOT* want to give him that impRession. And whateveR you do, please please please don't believe the line, "I've changed" - Riiiiight, that's what eveRyone on MauRy say, isn't it?? And look what happens theRe!!!! If you take him back this time, he'll think he can just always Run off and do whateveR he wants, because he KNOWS you'll be theRe with open aRms. Bottom line, it's simply unfaiR to youRself... don't even botheR with it. I say the best thing foR you to do, though tRagic, is to gatheR up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt and push foRwaRd, leaving him in the past... waayyyy back in the past. Love is RecipRocal, it's not just one-sided, so if a peRson is inteRested two... they simply DO NOT feel ENOUGH FOR EITHER ONE. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to someone who isn't willing to give you theiRs? Don't waste anymoRe of youR time, teaRs oR effoRt on this CLOWN. Just use youR head, and think of youR *own* well being! I wish you the best of luck - hopefully I've been of some assistance heRe! Know that you can come to me if you eveR need a second opinion. =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Teza answered Thursday June 9 2005, 10:44 am: Dont belive him! Take him back and cheat on him with his ex or with some1 hes really good friends with. Then dump him! ♥ [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
S_C answered Thursday June 9 2005, 8:14 am: You're way too young for him to be putting you through this. Now if it were me I would probably give the guy a second chance, but if you're already given him your second chance then you have to give up hope on him. He hasn't changed. Now maybe if you lose touch with him, you're single 10 years down the road (or a little less) then yeah, you can always give him another chance then. But do you really think after all he's put you through he's worth it now. Eventually you'll find the right guy because In your life you'll meet one guy Unlike any other... you can talk to him and never get bored...tell him everything and never be judged...Smile and get butterflies everytime you see his face, hear his name, or his voice
This person is a best friend*boy friend* and a *true*love, and that is most definitley what any girl deserves.
So dump this screwy boyfriend and find one that actually cares about you,
he breaks your heart </3
and tells you lies
why do girls ALWAYS fall for THESE guys?
Michele answered Thursday June 9 2005, 6:25 am: YOu are too young to be so miserable in love. Love can be wonderful, find someone who respects you and doesn't spend all his time thinking with his little head, instead of the head on his shoulders.
*sara* answered Thursday June 9 2005, 4:18 am: stop letting him! come back to you you idiot! like i heard on maury. one a cheater always a cheater. [ *sara*'s advice column | Ask *sara* A Question ]
BrOk3nHeArt3DbEcUzOfU answered Thursday June 9 2005, 3:34 am: hey chicka...im sry to say but forget about him!!! if hes always doin tht then yoo need to fynd some one bettr!! and let him stay with his ex becuz if he loved yoo then he wouldnt want to hurt yoo!!
*-*hOpE eVeRyTiN WoRkZ oUt!*-*
MapleAdvice11 answered Thursday June 9 2005, 2:22 am: Let him go. You're too young to deal with a loser like him. Find someone better, you deserve it. If he's cheated on you multipile times before, he will more than likely do it again. You can do better than a scum cuch as him. [ MapleAdvice11's advice column | Ask MapleAdvice11 A Question ]
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