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Is a 15 year old too young to visit her mom who will be in jail for 6 month
Posted Monday June 24 2024, 1:01 am
The charge is a check fraud charge and it is a six month sentence. My daughter she seems to be handling it fine. I told her right away about it and she reacted pretty calmly. I told her mom did the wrong thing and is rightfully serving her punishment. They have a good relationship. The main problem I have is she will see her mom in a jail jumpsuit and see guards and other inmates that could be intimidating. Is that ok for a 15 year old to see? Actually my daughter does not seem scared but instead seems excited and enthusiastic to visit. This is strange to me. Do you find this normal? My daughter seems to find the idea of her mom having to wearing a uniform, sharing a room funny. I wonder why she would think it is funny. My wife says bring h...
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Am I crazy irrational here?
Posted Monday June 10 2024, 6:42 am
I will keep this short. I broke up with my bf of 3 years because his life was on pause and he was making no steps to move forwards, no commitments to himself or our relationship and everything felt like it was just hit a wall.
The agreement was that we still loved each other but he agreed he needed to fix his life before we could be together. I told him he could do whatever he wanted, and he reassured me all he wanted was to be with me and make it work. He had a lot of distraction, adhd and other issues related to mental health that he had been avoiding working on for years and I finally said I couldn’t do it anymore unless he got help. He promised he would work hard to get us back on track that he only wanted to be with m...
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Life orientation
Posted Thursday June 6 2024, 10:09 pm
Is it possible if you are finger fucked & loose your virginity due to finger fucking ? Example (lesbian finger fucking)
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I am horrified I might be a bad person
Posted Thursday June 6 2024, 12:34 am
Me and my sister (both teenage girls, she is 2 years older than me) were shopping together with our mother the other day. I looked at her ass with no actual thought in it, just observing what was around me basically, but my brain started to fixate on the fact that I did that and I started internally yelling at myself for it, but because I was thinking about it I kept looking at her ass over and over. It really did not mean anything, I don’t look at people in that way because I really don’t care but I’m so scared that I am disgusting, that I might subconsciously be attracted to my sister even though I know I’m not and the idea grosses me out. I feel so horrible for looking there, she’s my sister, I never should have looked even tho...
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My husband tells me to shutup during fights.
Posted Wednesday May 15 2024, 3:57 pm
My husband and I have been married for almost a year. We have been married for this long, however, we have been together for about three years in total. For the most part, we get along. However, ever since we started the relationship, I realized that he has a lot of unhealthy communication. I def have my own faults and things to work on, but I never come near disrespect in this relationship unless he starts it. Unfortunately, there were many times before we got married, that he would tell me to shut up when we were arguing or in a heated fight. So at first, I used to retaliate and tell him to shut up back and that he can't talk to me like that. We've had several conversations about this, he always makes me feel degraded by telling me I need...
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I feel so stressed everyday and it gets worse
Posted Thursday May 9 2024, 3:49 pm
25 F
I began working full time at 23. During this time my boss who really wasnt my boss but she was head of the department annoyed me. Giving me this to do out of my duties etc. Hence, I would get upset then one day I eventually told her about it. She said that these were the duties she designed for the position and that by doing them I was helping out the department etc. I explained to her that stuff that she added to my role was not what I agreed to do when I signed the contract with my actual boss. Soon after I got a job in Latin America and left so not much came out of that situation. When I was leaving and stuff she bought me gifts and organized a goodbye party so no harm was done. Now in my new job in another country I...
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I can’t get over what I did in my past, what do I do?
Posted Thursday May 9 2024, 6:41 am
I’m a girl 14 years old turning 15 soon, if it is relevant I’m autistic and have anxiety, and I’ve recently been in a depressed spiral, I barely get out of bed at all except for to go to the bathroom and if I have to get out for anything then I end up just crying, I don’t want to eat anything either. The reason for this is because in my recent past (like 2020-2022 maybe 2023 I can’t remember, I might have done it before 2020 too) I looked at inappropriate stuff of underage fictional characters, like anime and stuff like that. I’m so disgusted and ashamed of myself, it wasn’t only underage characters and it didn’t reflect my actual thoughts obviously, I never felt like that towards any real children I’m not a predator and I...
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Am I wrong for choosing to stay at my job?
Posted Saturday April 13 2024, 3:03 pm
Currently, I work as an overnight stocker and I’ve been doing it for 7 years straight. The pay is decent( 17 per hour). Currently
, I live at home with my parents and older sister. Life hasn’t been easy since I made dumb decisions when I was younger, thus I had been battling depression for a decade. In 2023, I decided to try to get out of my runt and confront my issues. Firstly, I dealt with my debt. I was dealing with student loan payments and other personal debt. In 2024, by the grace of God, I was able to file for bankruptcy. Secondly, I was job searching to find something better. I did get hired for an overnight stocking position for 19 dollars with a different company. Initially, I was excited but then I rejected the offer....
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living with an abnormally fast metabolism
Posted Thursday April 4 2024, 8:39 am
I was born with an abnormally fast metabolism. My parents noticed it by the time I was 4 years old. I think they have high metabolisms too, especially my mom, but not like me. They were both college athletes and my dad played minor league baseball for a while.
I was always much hungrier than other people and I ate a lot more than normal. My mom would talk to our doctor about it. Despite many tests no problem was found. Around 7th grade my appetite got very large and my friends at school would even tease me about it.
In college I was living full time with other girls. I got very self conscious about my appetite and even started to think something might be wrong with me. I was training in swimming and I would eat 7000-8000 calo...
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Just Saw My Best Friend's Reddit Confession – What Should I Do?
Posted Thursday March 28 2024, 4:13 pm
My (20M) best friend is a woman (22F). I was browsing Reddit and just came across a thread from her in the advice subreddit. Her thread was about how she's recently started developing romantic feelings for her best male friend... first just seeing the thread I was thinking "interesting, I'm in an identical situation with identical ages of M20 and F22, I'm just the man in the party", and then I saw her username, and yep, that's her.
To be honest, I feel the same way. I love that woman with all my heart, and I'd be open to exploring a romantic relationship with her- I just don't want to risk losing that special friendship. So I've grappled with these romantic feelings too; she's confessing online that she's developing...
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Tired of being put in the corner
Posted Thursday March 14 2024, 9:36 pm
I've been married what would have been 18 years but he pushed me to the side for his computer, his cell phone and his job. We have 3 amazing kids together but I didn't wanna be alone anymore.
Now I'm seeing someone I've been with over 4 years and we both had good jobs, but we were being treated unfairly and being overlooked for any type of promotions. Anyways, I feel like all I do is cook, clean, work my 40 hours and try to be with my kids as much as I can. But now he makes me feel like a piece of trash. Now he's claiming I'm making him feel like he's walking on egg shells, when I'm tired of being treated like I'm not good enough for any man. I'm close to just leaving him and hanging it all up. I don't know, any advice would help me so very much.
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Boyfriend keeps pushing me to do things I don't want to do
Posted Sunday February 18 2024, 9:36 am
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now. He knows I have diagnosed anxiety and I struggle to do things out of my comfort zone. Lately he's been hard pushing me to get over my fears, and while I know he's trying to help, he's doing it in a way that is starting to really upset me. I'm pretty uncomfortable around his parents and he likes to push me to interact with them more. I don't mind that, but he wants me to be alone with them. Today right before he left for work he told me to do and help his mom with her cookbook. I asked if she knew I was coming and he said no, to just knock on her houses front door and ask to help. When I said that makes me uncomfortable he just told me he'll be very disappointed in me if I didn't g...
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Do I tell my husband I am using birth control?
Posted Tuesday February 13 2024, 5:07 pm
Me = 23F
Husband = 26F
We have been married for 1 year, dating for 3 years. The whole time my husband and his family and my parents have been very open about wanting us to have kids. I have gone along with that and kept to myself fact I do not actually want to have kids. I did not want to disappoint him and or everyone else so I just kept using birth control after the wedding and during this whole time we supposedly have been trying to have a baby. I have used sex to distract him and keep him feeling like we are making the effort. I pretended to get myself checked when we were not conceiving and he had his doctor do a sperm count test and he is fine. I feel rotten I made him doubt himself. His older brothers are...
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How to forgive yourself
Posted Sunday February 4 2024, 1:20 am
I am a 34 year old female and I have been in a loving relationship with my good hearted boyfriend of 7 years and we intend to marry too. However, last year I met a guy when I was having some problems with my boyfriend who lived in a different city. I met this new guy 3-4 times and ended up talking a lot. We had many similarities and I think we sort of had a good and caring friendship and we resonated. We also shared a lot of secrets about our lives. However, I started having some intense feelings for him which I also told my boyfriend. There was clearly and mental and physical attraction between me and this new guy. On the 4th day of our meeting, he suddenly kissed me. I kissed him back and this continued for almost 30 mins where we were ki...
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My question is about healing my friend
Posted Friday January 19 2024, 12:50 am
I want advise to give my friend who was caressed by a boy once and she allowed it once now she's living with a burden of doing that she thinks that she's a monster a bad person and little did I know she also hates her self
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My niece moved in with us.
Posted Sunday January 7 2024, 10:04 am
So my 22 year old niece moved in with my mom and i because she is going through a divorce and she brought her dog. I live her and the dog , but she and the dog is getting on my nerves. I am 34 years old and I live with my mom because I have an anxiety disorder, autism, and sensory processing disorder. My mom is disabled. My mom uses a walker if that helps any. My niece works with home health and she is supposed to be helping my mom do things she can't do that was the agreement when she moved in. Instead of paying rent and helping with groceries she would cook and clean and take me places with our car when my mom is unable to do so . The thing is we share a room and she keeps it a mess she was going through our food to see what was good a no...
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Should I tell her how her kiss made me feel?
Posted Saturday December 23 2023, 4:52 pm
A couple days ago, I (20s/F) attended a Christmas party with my best friend (also 20s/F) and we ended up exchanging a kiss underneath some mistletoe. The two of us are straight, so we basically did this as a joke. Only problem is, I REALLY enjoyed that kiss! I never expected to enjoy a kiss with another woman so much and I've literally been questioning my sexuality ever since.
I've been thinking of asking my friend if she felt the same way, but I'm afraid it'll make things super weird between us if it turns out it was no big deal to her. I'm so confused right now. Should I risk our friendship by bringing this up or just keep my mouth shut? Don't know if anyone reading this has ever been in a similar situation, but I appreciate any advice anyone may have to offer nonetheless.
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Trying to find a job!
Posted Saturday December 9 2023, 10:08 am
I am a 34 year old female and receive disability but I called social security to see if I could work since I have been on disability since I was 12 and they said I could work for 90 days to see if I could work without it affecting my check and insurance. My problem is that since I've never worked at 34 years old I have no references. I have volunteered with my church. Could I use my pastor as a reference? I volunteered with the kids church. Could I use the children's pastor as a reference? I need 3 references. Who else could I use use as a reference? I have babysat for family members but I know family members are not allowed for references. I have also volunteered at a thrift store but that was about 10 years ago. Is that old and half the p...
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How do I make friends?
Posted Thursday November 30 2023, 10:41 am
So I am a 34 year old female and I have no friends my age all my friends are at least in there 60's and I have been going to counseling and my counselor says I need to make some friends that are girls my age to just hang out with . I went to church last night my step dad dropped me off because I don't drive. This girl I use to be friends with in highschool asked if I was going to the Christmas at the church and I said I was going to try . She asked if I needed a ride? Does this mean she wants to be my friend again? I said yes. We didn't get in to a fight after highschool we just lost touch. How do I go about asking her to hangout with out sounding weird? I just don't want to send off the wrong message.
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Moving Forward- non-existent love life.
Posted Monday November 27 2023, 10:23 pm
So, I do not have the best of luck with men and I think it is because I need to do a lot of mental healing. With that being said, I have these unhealthy crushes on guys for years and nothing ever happens. I also have this really unhealthy cycle where if I like a guy they won't like me back or if a guy likes me I do not like them back. Honestly, I think it is a curse and I think I am destined not to have anyone in my 30's. Moving forward, I've had an unhealthy obsession with a guy that I have liked for years. I have terrible social anxiety and have never spoken to him much before...I have met this guy through a mutual interest and think he is the weirdest guy ever. During events, I used to catch eyes with him all the time and he would purpos...
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