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Should I tell her how her kiss made me feel?
A couple days ago, I (20s/F) attended a Christmas party with my best friend (also 20s/F) and we ended up exchanging a kiss underneath some mistletoe. The two of us are straight, so we basically did this as a joke. Only problem is, I REALLY enjoyed that kiss! I never expected to enjoy a kiss with another woman so much and I've literally been questioning my sexuality ever since.
I've been thinking of asking my friend if she felt the same way, but I'm afraid it'll make things super weird between us if it turns out it was no big deal to her. I'm so confused right now. Should I risk our friendship by bringing this up or just keep my mouth shut? Don't know if anyone reading this has ever been in a similar situation, but I appreciate any advice anyone may have to offer nonetheless.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Reverse roles and see what you think best then. Say she felt something and you did not but she decided to tell you. You don't want a F + F intimate relationship, but now you know she does and with you. How awkward would that make you feel? Its not just about you but her as well. If you treasure the friendship, try to enjoy just the friendship. If you find you can not, it may mean slowly spending less and less time with her. If she asks why, maybe then mention how you feel.
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