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Is it worth it?
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 8:25 pm
So I'm a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend is a wee bit older. He's 25.
We've been going out for about a month and he's a great guy to me - he buys everything (not just dinner, like he asks if there's anything I want in stores etc.), he opens doors, he always says the kindest things to me, and yes he's great in the bedroom.
But I've just been wondering lately if this is the best time for me to date someone his age. He's so perfect but it's kind of difficult when I get the weird looks from friends and classmates about dating an older guy. He hasn't met my friends yet and I don't even know if his friends know about me. The whole age thing is just kind of throwing me for a loop.
So, do you think I s...
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homecoming.
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 7:34 pm
ok well this guy. bob* i really like for some odd reason and i dont know why i just like him. but i never really talked to him. he is the greatest thing i swear well kinda. anyways my friend joe* was like i will just ask him to homecoming for you and i said no. and he was like ok whatever. then the next day my friend told me he said no to homecoming. and bob* said no because he only liked me as a friend thats all. and now i don't know if i should call him and talk to him about it. I am kinda a shy person when it comes around the guy i like. but what should i do?? HELP!!! I am 14 he is 14. I am a female. he is a male. Plus bob* always looks at me at lunch and in pe.
* names have been changed
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boys
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 6:59 pm
Im 13, and theres this boy who ive liked from the first day of school, and on the second day, he just randomly walked up to me and started walking next to me and talking to me. He is kind of my friend now but he still doesn that sometimes...do you think these are signs that he likes me?
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Boyfriend.
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 6:57 pm
I have been going out with my boyfriend for quite some time now. I met his parents last weekend and they invited me for lunch on Sunday. I would love to go and all but I don't know what to talk about to make sure they like me.
Suggestions? Thanks so much!
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Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 6:47 pm
Okay.
My question. If you liked a person that one of your close friends liked, do you suppose your friend would get mad at you?
Even though chances are he won't like both of us anyhow, would it still be okay?
Or would it somehow offend that person. Yeah. (:
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Birthday
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 6:47 pm
i'm 13/f. well me and my boyfriend have been going out since July and my birthday is at the end of October. he said he was going to get me a CD and i'm not at all greedy so i told him not to get me that and just get me like a 99cent card or something. because i would love a CD but i want something more memorable like even if he got me a 25 cent ring from a vending machine because it would be cute and sweet. I suppose that isnt my problem though besides the fact that I feel heartless for wanting something more romantic for my birthday. figuring we cant drive we cant go far either. but i'd like to do something special with him and ik usually its the guys job 2 figure something out but w/e i mean he's not going to even tho he's the sweetest gu...
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breaking up?
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 6:33 pm
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about a month, but i dont really see him as a boyfriend because he doesnt really treat me as one. i feel like we are better as friends but i dont know what to do. some people say i should break up with him, but others say to tell him to start treating me as a girlfriend and let it last longer. what do i do?
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Homecoming Night
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 6:01 pm
Okay, my boyfriend's name is Justin. He has a best friend, Aaron, and Aaron's girlfriend's name is Brittany. That's so you all know who I am talking about.
Anyways, we're all going to Homecoming (hopefully, but that's a long story.) Since the guys bought Brittany and I jewelry, we want to do something special for them. We want to make them dinner. There's a few things wrong with that though, like the fact that Justin has been working all week so he could pay for dinner on Saturday night before Homecoming. Even though I told him he didn't have to. He complains about having to spend all of that money, but yet he won't take it when I say that he doesn't have to take me out to dinner.
Now, I was wondering how I sh...
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I'm really hurt
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 5:15 pm
To give a little background, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year I'm 16 and he's 17. He would always get things in the mail from the Army, Navy and the Marines. He would save them, show it to me and I'd rip it up and tell him he's not going. The thought of my boyfriend going away to war is something I just CAN'T handle.
I was in his room, cleaning it up while he was in the shower like I always do and I found a flyer that had the information about the Navy on it... I was getting ready to rip it up when I saw that he had signed up for it..
I always told him that I'd be heartbroken if he would sign up for anything that COULD get him killed.
I'm trying SO hard to understand... But I...
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Boyfriend/other guy
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 4:49 pm
I have a steady boyfriend of three months, who I really love. But there's this other guy.. I can't help but like him too. I like them both so much, and the other guy likes me too. I don't know how to sort out my feelings about this and work everything out.. I can't decide who I like more.. What should I do..?
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What do i do???
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 3:33 pm
ok im sorry if this is long but i really need help!!!right well im 14/f and i met this guy over the summer and ive fancied him ever since and apparently he fancies me...but he has a girlfriend but their ALWAYS on and off and when their off people say its coz he wants to be with me and stuff, i know this sounds stupid but yesterday i hugged him and he smelt so good and it made me want to be with him..and he told my friend that i dont seem like the kinda person to be in long term relashionships what does that suppose to mean??hes 17 by the way and before anyone says hes just messing me around hes not that kinda guy! my best friend just got with his best friend and im so jealous of them what can i do to get him???!?!?!?!??! im so depressed!! sorry its long ill rate high! thnx xxxxx
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Boyfriend likes another girl?
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 3:31 pm
How can you really tell if you're boyfriend likes another girl?
Before we were going out or even started talking regularly, I had heard he liked this other girl. Then a little bit later, we started talking and he started liking me, I guess, because he asked me to homecoming then he asked me out. So then I asked him if it was true if he liked that other girl, and he was like "like on the first day of school." But how can you only like someone for a day?
Later on, the girl he used to like started going out with one of his friends. Then my boyfriend started saying things about how he didn't like the guy she was going out with... but before they were going out, they were friends. Hmm...? And now the girl ...
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feel neglected.............
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 2:44 pm
i just hate when the boys make fun of me.i just want them to treat me like a girl.i always feel like im one of the boys and i just hate it.nobody care for me i always left out.i feel realy lonely to the maximum.other girl friends all get attention from the boys but nobody understand that i need to be cared to.i want to be loved to.its there anything wrong with my character?maybe im boyish but the way i dress up is lady like.perhaps im too friendly and outspoken.what to do???
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what should i do about this boy i can't stop thinking about?
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 2:10 pm
ok i'm soon to be 16 and i known this guy for about three years and he's really nice to me and everything then we both met each other at a party over the summer and me and him were dancing together all night and his ex girl friend was there and she was getting mad at me for dancing with him and i like him a lot and he likes me a lot but we're not going out i told every one at the party that we were going out, (like messing around), and telling everyong that we are going to get married the day i turn 16 but i didn't mean any thing i said. but now he's the only boy i think aboout now and i can't stop thinking about him we supposed to hang out this weekend and mess around and stuff but i think i love him if you were in my position what would you do? what would you consider this?
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i love him
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 12:52 pm
Yeah...I have an advice column...But for once I don't know what to do here. Im soo lost. I love this kid so much. And like he told me that he would ask me out..but it wouldn't be fair to me. So today we were on the phone and I told him that he was sooo sarcastic. And he's like ouch that hurts. And I never wanted to hurt him. That was the last thing I wanted to do. And I wrote him a letter and emailed it to him....It basically said that I didn't deserve him adn that he's amazing and everything adn that he deserves someone so much better than mee...and now I haven't stopped crying in like....an hour...I love him so much...and i judt don't know if i did the right thing...or what i should do from here? Im just so confused...it sucks...please help me...kthanks
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question for GUYS
Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 10:05 am
Hello...this is a question for guys to answer but girls are welcome to answer the other question i ask.
okie dokie...
GUYS: do you think it makes us, girls, feel good about our selfs when you call hott to an extended degree?...(example: yesterday this guy YELLED from across the street at my friend(13/f) "turn down the AC cuz its getting hott in here".)
GIRLS: do you apperciate (sp?) it when you are called hott (like the example above) by your boyfriend or another guy?
will rate for good answers
1s for dumbass/smartass/stupid/iggnorant answers
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Can't decide..
Posted Monday September 26 2005, 11:58 pm
For some time now i've thought i was bi. I've never done anything but i've realized how i was thinking was totally different and unusual. It's been a year and i still haven't made up my mind. Once in awhile i'll "decide" that i'm not but then it ALWAYS comes back and drives me nuts until i'll decide i'm not again. But even then i can't get it off my mind. I know that raging hormones has to deal with this too, but what are the chances of this coming back EVERY SINGLE TIME?!?!?! My family is against it and my friends are okay with it. So please don't tell me to talk with my parents. I just need to know what's going on and why i can't decide. I'll rate ya high!!!
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whats wrong do i like him or not???
Posted Monday September 26 2005, 11:22 pm
i'm confused. ive liked a lot of guys i like dream about them and try and get there attention and flirt with them a lot, but when they start to like me, i like stop likin them to the point where im afarid too see them, but then they stop paying attention to me and statt flirting with other girls i start to like them and then if they start to flirt with me i stop liking them. i dont understand this, it confueses me i really want a byfriend, and i really like this guy right now and he likes me, somdays i really like him but somedays i dont. this always happens when a guy starts to like me. ive ruined a lot of my relentionships becaue of it and i dont want to ruin this one. why do i feel like this?
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homecoming
Posted Monday September 26 2005, 11:12 pm
ok i'm 14..turning 15. Im a freshman. homecoming is next next friday and i dont have a date. i dont understand why a guy wont ask me. i am NOT ugly. i am actually really pretty. i used to model. i am NOT mean. i am a really nice person. i like this guy but i dont get why he wont ask me. any ideas? i dont think he likes anybody else. should i just ask him? is that weird? i really dont want to do that cause i think is akward.
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I need girl help!
Posted Monday September 26 2005, 10:32 pm
There's a homecoming dance on Saturday that I want to go to. There's a girl I really like and want to ask her to go with me. People have told me that I should ask her. I've never done anything like this before and am really nervous. Can you please give me help on what to do? Thanks a lot.
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