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Yeah...I have an advice column...But for once I don't know what to do here. Im soo lost. I love this kid so much. And like he told me that he would ask me out..but it wouldn't be fair to me. So today we were on the phone and I told him that he was sooo sarcastic. And he's like ouch that hurts. And I never wanted to hurt him. That was the last thing I wanted to do. And I wrote him a letter and emailed it to him....It basically said that I didn't deserve him adn that he's amazing and everything adn that he deserves someone so much better than mee...and now I haven't stopped crying in like....an hour...I love him so much...and i judt don't know if i did the right thing...or what i should do from here? Im just so confused...it sucks...please help me...kthanks
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ok.. number one, why wouldn't it be fair to you? Number two, from what I get of the phone conversation.. he was joking with you. And number three.. chill out. Don't say he deserves someone better than you or any of that shit. If you want him, you have to get him and not be insecure about whether you will be "deserving." Tell him you really like him, that you both would work out and you really want to give it a try and definately. DEFINATELY, make it a point that he is the one that does not deserve you.
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If he really is sarcastic, I don't think you could have hurt him too bad just but telling him the truth. He should have already known that. But anyways, ask him why it wouldn't be fair for you to go out with him, if he hasn't already told you. Get some answers. Other than that, I think you're just gonna have to wait and see what happens. If someone doesn't want to go out with you, they aren't going to. But things change, and something could happen and change his mind or something. Just talk to him, and be his friends. Good luck!
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Give it time. I'm sure he'll come round. And you should ask for some answers too. Why wouldn't it be fair? Why isn't it as easy as you think?
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