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fighting again
I am the one who wrote about me and my friend carly. well something just happened, okay here goes....yesterday we were talking on the phone and she suggested that we go online and chat because when I call her it's long distance even though we live in the same state but it's a different county. so we go online and we are chatting and getting along great well all of a sudden her ex comes online and they are chatting. Then she tells me that she thinks he likes me. so I asked her why and she goes I don't know ask him yourself and then I was like no because I really don't like him cause he beat her when they were together. well anyway she was like well he wants to im you and I was like okay fine. I was kind of excited because someone actually liked me but not at the fact of who it was. anyways so he imed me and we started chatting. nothing serious just how I was doing and stuff like that. well my friend got offline and about five minutes later she comes back online. so I started chatting with her again. I asked how her dog was doing and then she was like what do you care. so I was like of course I care and then she goes aren't you too busy chatting with my ex. Then i was like no he isn't talking right now and besides I'd rather talk to you. then she goes oh goody, kind of snobby like. so I was like okay what did I do. and then she was like uggh and she got off. then he started talking to me again and I told him what happened and he said that she blocked me but she was still talking to him and so he asked her what her problem was and she flipped on him and told him that I was a skank ass ho and said that I am not her friend and shit like that and that we can go fuck off. then he was like well you told me to chat with her and then she got offline again. so me and her ex stayed online chatting for awhile longer because her mood changes really fast like one second she's my best friend and the next second she hates me which partly has to do with the fact that she is pregnant but the other part has to do with her bf. anyway, well her ex has a way of calming her down when she gets like this and then she always ends up talking to me either later on that day or the next day. so he said he was going to call her and then call me and tell me what happened. I told him to tell her that if us talking is making her mad then I won't talk to him anymore because she is really important to me and I don't want to lose her. so last night about midnight or so he comes back online and we start chatting again. He talked to her online and she apologized for getting upset and stuff like that and he told her that it didn't make sense that she wanted him to talk to me and then she got mad, and he also told her that I didn't mean to hurt her and he said that she didn't seem upset and that he thought she would talk to me since she was calmed down which so did I. well I waited until today to call her at about noon. first she hung up on me when she found out that it was me. so I called back and she didn't answer the phone. so then I waited a few minutes and called back again. she picked up the phone and started screaming at me. I apologized for yesterday and she said that she doesn't want to have anything to do with me and she isn't my friend anymore. I told her that if it is going to ruin our friendship then I won't talk to him anymore because she is really important to me. then she hung up on me after more screaming. I need help on what to do. she is really important to me and my best friend. how can I not lose her? Help please!!!!!!!!
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