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confused about myself...


Posted Thursday December 6 2012, 12:50 am

i'm an 18 year old female college student. i have had a boyfriend for 2 years.

all my life, i've been straight. i have never, ever seen a girl that i found myself attracted to, except the fact that she's pretty.

however, in one of my classes of my first semester this year, there was a girl there who had me thinking otherwise. she is a biiig tomboy and has a really outgoing personality, which is opposite of me, which i think lures me to be interested in her as a person.

then, i started having sexual daydreams about her. i've had dreams about masturbating to her.

so that's where i'm confused. i think it all may be because her personality attracted me first and she was also very tom...

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Love him too much


Posted Wednesday December 5 2012, 11:04 pm

21/f-I'm absolutely CRAZY about my friend who is in a relationship with a girl who lives all the way across the country. This year has been such an emotional roller coaster for me, caused by this. I feel like such a dumb bitch. My priorities have always been with my education and my close friends and family. How stupid am I to let myself get obsessed with a guy?

I've never had sex, never been in a relationship, and have never had these feelings before. At this point, I just want it to stop. If I could flip a switch that would make me disgusted every time I saw him, I would. I can't control these feelings though. I've tried to see the worst in him and be pissed off but it hasn't worked. Avoiding him is impossible because we're...

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how can I be an awesome girlfriend?


Posted Wednesday December 5 2012, 10:28 pm

We've been dating for 10 months and I feel like I don't treat him as good as he treats me. We're in the 8th grade, how can I be an awesome girlfriend?

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Ex/New Boyfriend Issues


Posted Wednesday December 5 2012, 7:30 pm

19/f
My ex-boyfriend use to make me feel very secure. Always held me and took care of me when I needed it or was stressed. We also had a very romantic relationship and went out all the time. My new boyfriend isn't exactly the same. When i'm with him I love him I sware I do. Our personalities click and everything but I feel like it's at a plateau. He doesn't like spending money and is very cheap. Normally when we hang out were just at my house or his house. I just feel this empty space sometimes and miss my ex. Not to be with my ex, I just miss what we had if that makes sense? I just don't know if what i'm feeling is normal or if it's a sign to move on.

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What does it mean to be a "prisoner of love"?


Posted Wednesday December 5 2012, 3:47 pm

What does it mean if someone says that to you?

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How can I help my boyfriend?


Posted Wednesday December 5 2012, 3:24 am

So my boyfriend is dealing with Depression. he's had trouble finding work for quite awhile now. He had a job for awhile but had to quit it due to the awful commute. He recently got a part time job but with the gas and parking permit he has to have, he doesn't even feel like it's worth it.

We've been together for about 2 years and 8 months now and still don't live together because he lives with his friends and hasn't been able to get a place of his own because of his work problems and I can't help atm because I'm a full time student.

I understand why he's depressed, I just dunno how to help him. It hurts me to see him like this, I wish I could help more but we're in different phases in our lives, a lot of his ...

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nicknames


Posted Wednesday December 5 2012, 12:39 am

What's a cute nickname to call my boyfriend

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Love of my life


Posted Tuesday December 4 2012, 7:09 pm

So me and my best friend have become so close in these last two years. We've passed friendship and have already admitted our feelings for one another. He jus recently told me he loves me for the first time. The thing about us though is that we kno so much about each other. I don't know what to talk about any more, sooo what are some good topics or things I can bring up to spark good convos. Thnx in advance

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some good subjects to talk to ur boyfriend about


Posted Tuesday December 4 2012, 5:03 pm

Some subjects to talk to boyfriend about.

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bf working on a project with a girl that i dont like!


Posted Tuesday December 4 2012, 4:51 pm

hey guys so my bf n i recently got n in a long distance rela recently and in that time he made some new friends (3 months of friendship only) and in the time i have seen his pics of fb ... there is always this girl that he hangs out with all the tme ... he said thta he is a gud friend of hers ... so i cant even create a big issue out of it ... yesterday he told me he ll be doing a project which he has to run every night .. that means no more talking to him .. during the week days .. n it was already hard to digest that but i was like this is for his career but then today he told me that his 3rd partner is the girl who he hangs out with a lot .. the only prob that i have is that is that he ll be spending more time with that girl .. than with...

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I can't let him go be he let me go.


Posted Tuesday December 4 2012, 3:09 pm

I started talking to this guy about a year ago around thanksgiving. We talked for 2 months &i really thought it was going to go somewhere. We texted all day long and hung out when we could. Then out of nowhere when things were going great he just told me he was "busy" and stopped talking to me. I for some reason am infatuated with him. But the thing is he annoys me, gives me anxiety and is boring. Doesn't make sense huh? Haha. Well we randomly text each other but it never is a conversation it's just 2 texts back and forth. I texted him on thanksgiving &it had been awhile and I was starting to move on. We started talking like we had before &it lasted for a week. We would flirt and he would be so nice &then randomly ...

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Meaning of this song


Posted Tuesday December 4 2012, 1:43 pm

My boyfriend recently messed up and hurt me very badly. He sent me this song saying, "I know you may not want to think about me right now, but hopefully you'll like this song and it'll make you feel a little better". If anyone could help me with the song meaning or find it somewhere online that would be awesome, thanks

All the same - by does it offend you, yeah?

http://www.songmeanings.net/songs/view/3530822107858867219/

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My boyfriend acts all weird?


Posted Tuesday December 4 2012, 1:28 pm

We're both seventeen and have a son together. But, he's kind of rude to me. He loves me, but he abuses me, not physically, but just verbally. Sure, we hit each other, but not hard enough to harm each other. And, it's only jokingly. But, also, every time I ask about money and things like his plans, he starts acting all weird. Is he up to something that he doesn't want me to know?

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pick up lines for a female to pick up a guy


Posted Monday December 3 2012, 10:22 pm

i am a female i need some good not cheesy pickup lines for a guy im straight

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i want a nick name for ma fiance


Posted Monday December 3 2012, 8:32 pm

i need a good nickname for my fiance,
a cute one to be called on...like my love ,jaan etc

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Parents and dating???


Posted Monday December 3 2012, 3:24 pm

Hi, ok so im 20 and female and have always been a little... odd. my first bf i broke up with a couple months ago but im over it and feel im ready to date again. im currently in university but.. as it turns out there is a very large glbt population here and most of the guys who are cute and nice to me turn out to be gay or turn around and say "im not ready for a relationship blah blah blah". i will soon be asking my doctor for a referral to a psychologist as i think i may have mild aspergers but that is a whole other story. i would like to try online dating but im very close to my family and my parents are always in the loop about what im doing, where i am, who im chillin with, etc. people might say im to old for that and should b...

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What would you feel if you lost your virginity to a guy who has a girlfriend... and you are not her?


Posted Monday December 3 2012, 4:13 am

I liked this guy for awhile but he has a girlfriend, he knew i liked him and we went to this party wednesday. We both got totally drunk and we had un-protected sex, i lost my virginity to him. I kept telling him that i couldn't do it because of his girlfriend but he said it was fine. My question is should i be feeling like crap because he has a girlfriend? and why do i feel like i cant talk to him again?

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kissing what age should you start?


Posted Sunday December 2 2012, 9:54 pm

is 11 and a half to young to kiss but that being all no nothing else at all maybe making out or what ever but like no sex, fingering etc

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jealous about a bff guy


Posted Sunday December 2 2012, 8:15 am

hi im a female in middle school so my bff has this really hot bf i have told her he is so sexy me ad him are good friends we hang out and stuff but nothing ever more i am kinda jealous what should i do i have another problem to i get scared in relationships and i bak out a wat shud i do because its really annoying breaking up with people again and again
thx

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Im 17 and I want a family


Posted Sunday December 2 2012, 7:27 am

Well I am a female im 17 and I have soon to be 19 year old boyfriend. We have been goin out for 3 years and 11 months. We talk about getting married and everything else<3 lol. We are so inlove with eachother:). My family and friends met him and they love him:) but For the past couple of months I have been under goin a lot of problems. My boyfriend and I have been talking about having a baby on his birthday in january. We really want a family we picked out the name and all .. but im not sure what road to take:/.help me lol

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