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I can't let him go be he let me go.
I started talking to this guy about a year ago around thanksgiving. We talked for 2 months &i really thought it was going to go somewhere. We texted all day long and hung out when we could. Then out of nowhere when things were going great he just told me he was "busy" and stopped talking to me. I for some reason am infatuated with him. But the thing is he annoys me, gives me anxiety and is boring. Doesn't make sense huh? Haha. Well we randomly text each other but it never is a conversation it's just 2 texts back and forth. I texted him on thanksgiving &it had been awhile and I was starting to move on. We started talking like we had before &it lasted for a week. We would flirt and he would be so nice &then randomly he stopped texting me. I feel completely broken hearted again. I want to move on more than anything but I feel like it's so impossible. I only want him. Part of the reason I can't move on is because I can't not know the reason he stopped talking to me last year was for. &now he did it again. It eats me up inside but I'm too afraid to ask. I don't think that will be the last time we talk I just love him so much. I've had 2 past relationships and the guys were amazing but I can see now I only want this guy. We are both 21 &go to the same college. Any advice on this situation/how to move on? Thank you so much in advance!
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I know it's hard to move on in a situation like this.It ruly does take some time to get over it.
But you do need to move on.I've been in a similar situation.I was also scared to ask why he suddenly would stop talking to me.But I wish I would have asked.I found out that he had a girlfriend,so he stopped talking to me all together.If I would have asked him up front I probably wouldn't have been so hurt.
But that happened three years ago,and Ive moved on,but still think about it and feel sad.
But the point of that was to show you that sometimes you have to just be daring and take that chance,to ask.
Whatever the reason for him doing it, it's wrong,and he should not do it.
You should ask him why he is doing it then tell him you can't speak to him anymore.No matter what,on't let him get the satisfaction of knowing you still like him.
Hope it helps.
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