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What would you feel if you lost your virginity to a guy who has a girlfriend... and you are not her?
I liked this guy for awhile but he has a girlfriend, he knew i liked him and we went to this party wednesday. We both got totally drunk and we had un-protected sex, i lost my virginity to him. I kept telling him that i couldn't do it because of his girlfriend but he said it was fine. My question is should i be feeling like crap because he has a girlfriend? and why do i feel like i cant talk to him again?
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You were drunk and he was a swine for taking advantage of the situation. You did tell him no but in that state he was able to manipulate you. He should feel like an idiot for his behavior not you.
I would feel regretful but not beat yourself up over it as you got taken advantage of and in a drunken state couldn't make sound choices. In the future have a sober friend watch out for sleazy people like this to help protect you. It's a good idea in general
Do you know who his girlfriend is? Do you know friend's of hers? Maybe through them or your own familiarity with her you could approach her and tell her the guy's a big time cheater and took advantage of you well drunk. Perhaps if you clued her in you would feel better as that would right a few wrongs.
Losing your virginity is a big deal for almost everyone. The fact it happened this way was not directly your doing and you were not in the all together mentally or physically and someone took advantage.
What you should do is tell yourself and your next partner the truth and consider yourself as born again and make the moment special and the way you wanted the first time and remember that and not regret what happened when you had zero control. That's how I see it.
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well, it is normal to feel guilty about it, it means you're human. if you didnt feel anything, THEN something would be wrong. yes, it's gonna be awkward between you 2 for a while, as long as you feel guilt, it will be awkward a bit. eventually, you'll get over it and you'll be good friends again like you were before.
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