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love competition


Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 7:33 pm

ok i'm a 14/f. There is this guy at my school lets call him Nick. I have a HUGE crush on nick. Well Nick and I r friends we talk on IM 24/7 and when we go on band trips he askes me 2 sit by him on the bus. When we r on IM he always seems 2 b asking me questions like who I have a crush on and wut kind of guys I like. It would seem like he likes me right? worng! He likes a girl named(lets all her sally). Yes things get worse. Sally likes Nick back! They aren't going out but they both know that they like echother. So I need 2 know how I can get Nick to like me instead of Sally. I really like him so I really need you help please!
much luv xoxoxox,
marsbars

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help wit this


Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 7:27 pm

Let's see i am dating this guy who i think i am in love with but i cant get this other guy out of my head and my friends all tell me ichanged since i been with this guy and say the other guy is better for me ,i just dont know what to do who can help??

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Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 6:28 pm

I think Well I know I love this one guy from school. I don't know what to do. I've been writing him notes(but i don't tell him it's me)and like he's only writen back once and he thought it was my friend. I want him to know that I like him. I've liked him since like EVER! I mean the day I saw him in 4th grade I like fell inlove!
Help me Please!
Signed,
Luv Struck.

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Should i say yes or no?


Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 5:51 pm

Ok this guy asked me out, hes 13 same as me, now hes not the best looking guy out there but hes really nice and sweet..and i know i should like him but for some reason i just dont

ive thought about saying yes but every time i look at him its like eww no i cant say yes to that

and i know it shouldnt be about looks yadda yadda yadda but i cant get past the way he look

what should i do? should i go out with him or should i not?
<3 Confused
P.S sorry so long

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well lets say not an easy decision


Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 4:02 pm

im very confused i have a girlfriend and i like this guy (yes im bi) he is awsome im friends with him we have alot incommon n i dont know but people say he is gay so im hoping. well any way i dotn know if i should break up with my girldfriend n then c if he is gay or any thing at all or has any intrest in me.or c if he is gay n has any intrest in me n if he dose then break up with my gf. dont get me wrong i like my girlefriend and all but i like this kid more. if any one can give me realy good advice ill rate high.

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Please Help mee!!!


Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 12:11 pm

ok I really need some help,in the next few hours,I just recently ended a realationship but still love this guy,lets call him guy a but I have some1 from a preveious realationship and i kinda sorta love him 2,but he lives in bel air and not near me,but guy a is really close,turned out guy a lied to me and now i was really mad at him and my mom hates him,understandable,but i'm going rock climbing tongiht,and i want a guy to go with me,should I go with guy a or no1?? or bring my x boyfriend and his g/f?/ or just another friend of mine,ineed to meet guy!

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forbidden love


Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 1:39 am

I've been in love with a man for the last 3 years. I've never felt such strong feelings for a guy in my life. I believe that he loves me too. The problem is that he's married. I've never crossed the line with him. We've never even kissed but have exchanged loving glances. He knows how I feel and that I've been suffering in silence. We have so much in common and have similiar values.
He has a very rocky marriage. Everyone knows he and his wife arent happy. They work together at a cafe and they fight like cats and dogs. They have nothing in common and I've heard that she has several addictions, including drugs and gambling. They have no kids together but she has two grown children from her first marriage. They don't respect m...

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She is contemplating braking up, what should i do?


Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 12:08 am

Me and my girlfriend of over 2years have been having some issues lately. She says that she isent sure if she wants to be with me, and when she says this she cries and tells me how much she loves me, however, the reason she doesnt know if she wants to be with me, is because i dont hurry up and finish school. I love this girl so much and definetely see a future with her. Everytime we talk about this, we end up crying , so i decided to send an email, telling her how if she wanted I could brake up with her to make her decision easier, its been 2 days and i have not received an answer to my question, we still talk on the phone all the time and see each other, but no mention of my email is ever brought up. What should I do? How much time do i...

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I gotta win him over


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 9:22 pm

ok so i'm sorry if this is long but for you guys 2 understand you need sum background info. I want guys and grls 2 answer this question please.
First of all i'm 14/f and in 8th grade. I like this guy alot at my skool. We are friends and talk 24/7 on IM. We have 2 classes with eachother band and L.A. When we go on band trips he askes me 2 sit by him on the bus, he's been asking me who I like lately and sumtimes i c him looking at me. Plus he is so nice 2 me and says things that make me feel good about myself. Seems like he likes me right? Wrong. So I found out who he likes and he says that that is true. Plus another sucky thing for me is that the girl he likes, likes him back! How much worse could this get? I was devistated. I keep ta...

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How to be...


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 9:02 pm

Okay so apparently i've known this guy since before i was born! Our moms are best of friends even after "his" family got uprooted and moved far away. Our families stopped seeing eachother for a while. We just started getting together more and in the past 6 months, we've seen eachother 2 times. I am 13 and he's 14 almost 15. I have feelings for him, and no way is it lust. He's not even that attactive, but his personality makes him so much hotter. The last time we met, he was trying to convince me about something (i was too busy day dreaming to listen to what it was. Something about cornbeef) my face got hot and i turned away and laughed my head off. So did he. I think I'm such a dope! I can't even look a guy in the eye without laug...

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how can i tell


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 9:02 pm

okay so theres this guy i like and i dont think he knows i like him or knows who i am. we never really talk but every time i see him it seems like hes looking at me and smiles at me and if im talking to my friend (shes friends with him) he will come over and say hi to her which he never does when im not around...i want to know if he really might like me or if its wishful thinking?

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How can you ever tell??


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 8:49 pm

I'm 13/f and the boy i'm writing about is in my Lit class.

He sits behind me and constantly pokes me and squeezes my shoulder! It's really annoying and I've told him to quit it...but he persists and says "Come on you have sexy shoulders!!" The thing is...i used to like him, but i don't anymore. Does he like me or is he just being annoying. I've seen he does this to other girls...but he never squeezes their shoulders!!

1.Does he like me?
2.HOw can I get him to stop harassing me?!

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should i stay or should i go.


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 8:27 pm

well in sixth grade i was a complete loser, i mean ugh i had really curly hair and wore it in a bun, and i wore big clothes. like i didnt even care. and i liked this guy A LOT. his name was david, and like he didnt like me at all. and he hated me in seventh grade. and we havent seen eachother in a year. untill saturday night. and when he saw me. he kept looking at me. and like we cuddled or whatever. and he said he liked me. but like i dunno. sixth grade was weird for both of us. and ive changed A LOT since then. and i just wanna know should i give it a chance?

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i cant stand it


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 7:27 pm

hi my name is jess i recently broke up with my b.f tony and wel he went to a party like a week after we broke up and hooked up with a friend of mine. i still like him and i cried when i heard what happened. i cnt take it anymore. how can i get over him. please help me ill rate 5's
--jess

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Should we stay just friends?


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 7:10 pm

15 - Female

Okay, so, there is this guy I like a lot. I care for him a lot, I would do anything for him just about. We're pretty good friends, we keep in touch and whatnot -he lives a little bit away and he doesn't go to the same school as me-. One of the problems is, he's a really busy guy, he's got a job, school, and things he's been working on outside of school. I just want to spend time with him. It's kind of hard to be in a relationship with someone who lives a bit away, I know.. but yeah. He seems to enjoy my company as well and he tells me he wants to come down, but he has to go to work and stuff like that. We've talked about being in a relationship before, and he told me that he didn't want to be in one because he doe...

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Help me please


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 6:26 pm

Ok well I've liked this boy for some time now. Like 6 years. I just dont know what to do I think he likes me but not sure. We were best friend but we both went to new schools this year and well we kind of arnt that close anymore. I still get that butterfly feeling in my stomach everytime he calls me or I see him but I just dont know what to do. I'm way to chicken to tell him I like him or to ask him our so dont even think about telling me to do that. Also I dont have anyfriend that are close to him to tell him. I just dont know what to do so please help me!!! I rate 5 for good answers!!!

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this kid i like


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 6:02 pm

Well i met this kid and he goes to my school and i really like him but he has a girlfriend but he always tells me im hot and we have great conversations together and hes really sweet too. He says he loves being single and everything and he said also that he likes her but he just doesnt know and it kinda seems he likes me but im not sure. help me please!

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Cute ideas...


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 5:41 pm

I am 15/f, and re-entering a relationship with this guy I care a lot about. Long story short, I messed up big time and we broke it off for a few weeks. Now he is giving me a second chance, even though he is very hesitant about it. I want to show him I care, and do a few little cute things for him, only I have absolutely no ideas. My creativity is failing me, but I need to make it up to him. Anyone out there have some ideas?

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Best Friends Boyfriend....


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 4:48 pm

I stayed over my friends house one weekend and her brother is my bestfriends boyfriend. That night me and him stayed up and hung out and played around (like hittin eachother with stuff and pushin eachother of the bed) and he said 'You know what? Dont tell Cjay(my bestfriend) this but I think I'm starting to like you. I didn't like him before he said that and I started to like him.And they are the type of couple that break up everynight and get back together sooner or later, and this was a night they broke up.Then we stayed up all night watching movies and playing around and holding hands and stuff, nothing bad. But Cjay found out and she told me to stay away from her for however long. Her b.f told me that he ment that he liked me, and not t...

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HIM


Posted Monday January 16 2006, 3:15 pm

ok, im asking the guys on this one bc i want a guys point of view but the girls can answer this one if they want. well there's this guy and i liek him alot. he flirts with me all the time but he has a girlfriend. he'll like put his arm around me and stuff some days and then some days he completely ignores me and im so sick and tired of this and i just wanna know what hes doing and ugh im just really hurt!! please let me know thx guys <3

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