I'm 13/f and the boy i'm writing about is in my Lit class.
He sits behind me and constantly pokes me and squeezes my shoulder! It's really annoying and I've told him to quit it...but he persists and says "Come on you have sexy shoulders!!" The thing is...i used to like him, but i don't anymore. Does he like me or is he just being annoying. I've seen he does this to other girls...but he never squeezes their shoulders!!
1.Does he like me?
2.HOw can I get him to stop harassing me?!
TimmyTM answered Monday January 16 2006, 11:12 pm: 1. Yes.
2. Confrontation will deflate him. If you don't say something, he won't know. Just be honest. "You act like you like me, but it's making me uncomfortable." [ TimmyTM's advice column | Ask TimmyTM A Question ]
Porphyrogenitus answered Monday January 16 2006, 10:57 pm: Even if he likes you, that's a pretty annoying way to show it.
There are two things you can do and each situation depend on whether or not you still "like" him.
1) If you like him, ask him if you likes you and react accordingly.
2) If you don't like him and want to rid yourself of this pest, report him to the school authorities for harassment. Or, if you wish to be unnecessarily wicked, add in "sexual" in front of harassment.
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