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UGGGH!! i dont know what to do!


Posted Wednesday January 16 2013, 2:46 pm

I like 2 girls: Susan and Victoria. i asked Susan out last year but she rejected me but i still like her, so I just like her and we're only friends. But at the same time i like another girl, Victoria, we are also just friends but she hugs me sometimes. I joined the play and both of them are there. i dont know what to do, how to make them notice me and more interested in me. I cant just stat here and look at victoria,shes the one i really want. I know there still might be hope, but i cant find it. PLEASE HELP!

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Wife says she wants to sleep with other men.


Posted Wednesday January 16 2013, 2:42 pm

My wife and I have been married for 20+ years. We are both in our mid-40's and have two teenage boys. Both my wife and I were in multiple failed relationships before we met. So, we both had other sexual partners before our marriage. Since our marriage, I can't speak for my wife, but I believe our relationship has been monogamous; at least I have been monogamous. My wife even after kids, still has the figure of a 20 year old. I am still in good shape only 15 pounds heavier than when we married, but I am not chiseled anymore and have a slight muffin top form with a receding hairline. I think that our sex life is great! We still go at it like rabbits 4 sometimes 5 nights a week. Although, I must admit that I am not the man I was 20 years ago. ...

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the right time to go visit a long distance partner?


Posted Tuesday January 15 2013, 11:00 am

i have so much to ask this guy I've been talking to..i wanted to ask him before i fly to see him since he lives in a different country but he replies with stop being insecure.. i just don't want to fall for a guy without knowing where he's at with me.(we have been talking for 8 months and dont worry ive met him before) tired of the guys who see only sex in me or im just some fling. i try talking and he just gets upset. if i go see him. and talk face to face would that ruin our 4 day vacation? ugh.. what to do what to do..i just don't want to get hurt or waste my time. for expect anything from our get together.. we don't even talk the way we use to ever since i brought it up.

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I don't know if I like this guy.


Posted Tuesday January 15 2013, 5:42 am

Okay, I met a guy some time back and we are school mates. I'm 16, female. We started off as teasing each other from time to time but now we are really good friends. My palms do not go sweaty when I see him, nor does my heart palpitate as fast as a train. Although when he was absent from school I was pretty concerned.

Is this a sign? I hope not. I need to focus on my studies. And I don't get emotional over him.

So, any advice?

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20 year old male sex with 15 year old female what consiquences?


Posted Tuesday January 15 2013, 12:44 am

Hello I'm a 20 year old male that lives in Canada and slept with a 15 year old girl and was lied to about the age, I was under the influence that she was 16 not turning 16 in a week. I am wondering what can come of this? What can I be charged with? Can I be charged? Am I in the wrong? I know I am the adult here but people make mistakes and people lie how are we to know the truth with these lies thrown around so easily, what am I to do in this situation?

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a guy asked me out


Posted Monday January 14 2013, 8:07 pm

ok so today a boy asked me out but he just got dumped by my best friend last week and I only like him as a friend but I have NO idea how to tell him no but still be friends I would appreciate if you gave me advice ASAP I promised I tell before I go to sleep Thank You I am a girl 13 years old
~RaeleneAndZayn<3

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Posted Monday January 14 2013, 7:22 pm

i lik this person.there a stud. But i kniw they will never feel the same. Wait. I dont even know if i like this person. I might do or maybe its made up in my head. I cant seem to think. One minute we tlk next minute i dnt get no replys. Im onli young. All this is messing up my edducation. Its not good. I get mixed feelings around tthis person. Ive had a disagreeement with this person once beforr. I dont know wat to do. No one seems to undertsnad.. Im onli a kid in secondary I dnt know what going on in my head. I have mentoring but it does not seem to get me no where.

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guys


Posted Monday January 14 2013, 6:43 pm

im always talking to this other guy in gym just as friends and this other guy always comes up to us and just stands. but hes kinda awkward and stiff & i hate that. but after winter break i came back in sweats and a sweatshirt & barley any makeup & my hair was in a bun & he came up to me & he's like "melissa you look beautiful" & i'm like "thank you" & hes like "well you look beautiful like always" & im like "thanks haha" & he just walked away. he talks to this one girl whose my friend & i told her what happened and shes like yeah hes a really nice guy. & she told me he had a gf but they broke up. but he told me about me being beautiful after they broke up. d...

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I dont know where my relationship stands with this guy....!


Posted Monday January 14 2013, 5:54 pm

15/f so i started talking to this guy alot around the beginning of Oct and we texted all the time like everyday all the time, and we were really comfortable around each other i felt like he was a brother to me i could tell him anything and i trusted him as a friend. but at the same time i just came out of a really bad estranged werid reltionship with my dad that i ended right before we really started talking. so that whole bad reltionship made me not trust guys at all or want to give them a chance and evrything a guy did i would associate it with my dad, like basically me thiking all guys are bad and i wouldnt allow myself to flirt with them, even though im not a big flirt either way. but anyway once we became good friends he told me over ...

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Sex


Posted Monday January 14 2013, 1:28 pm

I slept with this guy I'm in love with, and when we were together, he was perfect. I now found out that he isn't willing to give love or relationships a shot, but I've fallen for him hopelessly. I don't know what to do. Can someone please tell me how I can get out of this situation?

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how can I make him happy?


Posted Monday January 14 2013, 11:42 am

I'm a 13 yr. old girl. My bf and I have been dating for 9 or 10 months. He said that he has never had a girlfried like me(isn't tht what they all say) but he barely talks to me, doesnt call, never invites me to his house, never sits with me, and when he does sit with me he gets onto me for not talking to him. Why should I tlk to him when he doesnt even bother to give me a call? He's been going through a really tough time with his dad and I've been putting notes of inspiration in his locker like every other month. If he wanted to stay in my life he would make an obvious effort to do so, right? Idk what to do. I'm really confused..

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i wantto do sex


Posted Monday January 14 2013, 10:39 am

hello i am siddhant i want to do sex with a girl who is my negibhour how can i make him agree for this.

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he said the L word then disappeared!


Posted Monday January 14 2013, 10:13 am

i've been friends with this guy for almost a year but we never dated or anything, he's in my circle of friends. just last week we were planning to hang out with a group of friends as we always do then it didn't work so me and him decided to grab a bite anyway. I picked the place, he decided to treat me and you could tell there was a spark plus it was all romantic. He walked me to my car and decided to tell me that "I think I'm gonna fall for you" I smiled, hugged him and we took off. He asked me later on texting that night if i felt anything i said "i guess i like you, so let's not rush anything" he said ok and everything was fine. Texting then started to fade out, it's been a week since that happened and haven't heard f...

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I am too protective: how to stop being over protective


Posted Monday January 14 2013, 12:39 am

how to stop being over protective when they do not want it..i am a female in the 20's


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He's constantly being hot and cold


Posted Sunday January 13 2013, 11:40 pm

16/F
I've been with my boyfriend for a good couple of months now, he's started to sometimes act hot, then cold, I feel as though he's taking me for granted. A couple of times I've left him too it, I've gave him space and he's always texted me but I think I say something wrong again, I start talking about feelings and what's wrong with him all the time and it drives him back to being cold, then he won't text me for a couple of days, then he will and he'll act like nothings wrong. We're literally on a break at the minute, he asked for some space and I gave it him. I'm just wondering, when we do start to speak again, how should I act? What do I say?

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Depressed. What to do?


Posted Sunday January 13 2013, 9:45 pm

19/f

This might be quite lengthy, so brief yourself.

My ex-boyfriend and I were together for almost three years. I was his first actual girlfriend, that he apparently "really loved." We had a complicated relationship for a while. I guess you can say, we were "friends with benefits" but we actually had feelings for each other after we broke up. He kind of had a hard time balancing things out with school and a relationship because he would get distracted.

Last month in December, he told me that he wanted to end the complicated relationship that we had. He said that he wanted to start 2013 fresh and he wanted to do better in his life. And of course, I thought it was predictable f...

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Cant stop thinking about them..


Posted Sunday January 13 2013, 9:09 pm

Ok so I went to a dance friday night and danced with 2 guys (Tyson, Trevor) and then this other guy named Sam whom I have a history with came up at the end of the dance and told me that he wished he had asked me to dance during one of the slow songs. Now, its only been 2 days and I can not stop thinking about those 3 guys. The things I dont understand: 1. Trevor is on my bus and thinks Im crazy and has been kinda a hater, but Ive always like him a tiny bit. He asked me to dance and then gave me a hug before I left. 2. Tyson and I only text and talk, he likes me and flat out admitted it when we danced. Problem is that my best friend is his ex. 3. Sam has a girlfriend.. Help?

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What is he thinking?


Posted Sunday January 13 2013, 8:26 pm

Ok, so I'm a female in my twenties, and so is the guy I've been talking to (Jake) for a few months now. We've gotten along really well, and have a lot in common. I don't want to rush into anything, but at the same time, I want the relationship to be heading toward something.We've already been fooling around and all,too. I finally got up the nerve to ask what we were doing, but didn't get a direct, clear answer. Lately, the conversations have been really good, and he tells me how different I am than people in his past, blah blah blah. For the most part, when we're around each other, it's like we're together...but we're not. He told me how he got out of hanging out with another woman to hang out with me, but then he turned around and said he...

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I don't know if he's worth the wait or if i should just get over him.


Posted Saturday January 12 2013, 10:24 pm

So my brothers friend james he's in 9th grade and I'm in some7th grade. Ever since last summer we've both had crush on each other so we would try and hang out when school started. But every time he wanted to hang out i wasn't able to. Soon enough he thought i was blowing him off. Yet i wasnt and he told my friend that he was sad and mad at me , by the way he never talks to my friends about us because he doesn't want anyone to know he likes me. It been 2 weeks sence we talked. I don't know if he's worth the wait or if i should just get over him. Or if i should text him

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Broken hart


Posted Saturday January 12 2013, 9:32 pm

Y is it that having a broken hart can destroy your life ?
Y do we get so close to someone only to let ourselves be hurt ?
Y do we feel as if we are the only ones on this earth to feel this way ?

I myself have gone through this pain of losing someone I love and feeling like there's nothing for me to live for , when I got dumped by my Fiancée she dumped me over a txt message on the phone after being together for almost 3 years she couldn't even say it to my face :(. I was a grate boyfriend and I looked after her a lot she had a lot of issues and she never really loved me the way I loved her she would flirt with other guys in front of me and contact her exs behind my back knowing they wanted to sleep with he...

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