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Overreacting? Overprotective? Or just L.O.V.E?
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 6:22 pm
Ok, two days ago (Wednesday) my boyfriend (Mike) wasn't at school because he was sick. Yesterday, he was at school. He was acting kind of wierd. Like, he wasn't doing things that he would normally do (such as walking up with me to my locker in the morning, talk to me the whole class that we have together, come up to my locker at the end of the day, and get out of class to go to the "bathroom" just to see me ). Then later yesterday online I told him about this guy that is one of my friends in Geometry class that played a little joke on me. I had my paper on his desk and I was turned around, so when I turned around again it said "Steph <3z Pete Sepe". Obviously I erased it. So I told my boyfriend about this and I could ...
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guys finding attractive ..
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 5:54 pm
I'm just wondering, but what do guys find attractive in a girl? If you're a guy please just tell me the truth. It can be looks, personality, whatever, but please be specific. If you're a girl, tell me what you think or what guys have mentioned to you!
Thank you! <3 I'll rate 5.
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He wants to marry me...
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 4:35 pm
Me and my boyfriend were just talking and stuff (we've been together for a lil over a month) we went out before in the summer and that lasted almost 4 months but anyways he told me im the only girl he ever loved n stuff and how much i mean to him and he told my best friend one of his wishes and its nothing gross or anything but idk is this a weird wish for a guy to want?
he wants to marry me when we are older... like 6-7 years from now.
Is that weird?
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boys
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 4:34 pm
I, really like this boy Alex. And he used to flirt with me, a little and stuff. Then i told him that i liked him. he said okay and was fine with it. Will my friend Alli asked him out for me today and he said Yes, then we had to play against him Gym (we were playing vollyball) and see i wasent going to get much in the game beacause my team cheats, and fights all the time. So i kinda just was in a little, and see Alex doesnt like how lazy iam, and stuff. So like right after that He told me that it was "over" pretty lame. I think its beacause im really lazy in his opinion..but i dont know. I honestly dont care but like i do? I want to get over him, i know he seems like i can do way much better and every body tells me that. but how can i get over him Im 13, and he's 13.
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crushed.
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 4:21 pm
So baiscly I was told flat out never in a million years would my crush ever go out with me. I'm really upset; and now that he knows I like him he treats me like a little baby. I wanna move on and like another guy, and I want to get back at him, but part of me still likes him.
What should i do?
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I Heard this and that
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 4:17 pm
I went with this boy 2 days ago and he told his friend. (who is also my brother's friend who you can say is my friend.)That friend went up to me and said," I heard you and _________ went out together. He told me. " I asked him what else did he say, and he said he wasn't telling me like my BF was hiding something or said someting inmature that wasn't true. I want to know what my BF told my friend if it was true. If I went up to him and asked, he'd think I am nosey. What should I do?
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he talks to 7 girls on the phone every night
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 2:54 pm
hey guys i need some advice....me and scott have been dating and everytime i try to call him the phone is ALWAYS busy! i know he has a lot of friends that are girls but he talks to like 7 girls on the phone every night he tells me its not even like that..but i'm having doubts then one day he called me and told me his ex girlfriend called him and she bought him a presant and i got mad and he goes " see i knew you would get all bent out of shape about it." ok if some whore is buying my boyfriend presants am i supposed to be happy? i dont know if hes cheating on me and i think he is because the phones always busy and when i try to talk to him about it he gets all mad..what do you guys think please help me out!
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scott
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 2:20 pm
ok thanks guys for all your advice! i am really taking it to heart. well scott gets out of rehab monday and comes home....and i am supposed to vist him tuesday at work...i love him so much but i want him to get better, off drugs and get his life together and i think i just need to be his friend for right now but i dont want to break up with him but i dont want to hold him back becasuse of my own selfish reassons...i love him so much and i just want whats best for him. he tells me he loves me too but someone said if he really loved you then he would want to stay away from drugs and rehab and want to not go back so he would be with you hes putting drugs befor you and i've been thinking about that ever since she said that i dont know what to do please help me asap! thanks love you all xox
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Posted Friday March 3 2006, 11:31 am
I've been going out with this guy for ages. He seems perfect. He has a great body etc etc. Thing is i have loads in common with this other guy, and i really like him. I go all girly everytime i see him. I really really like him! Im 15 and my bf is 17. The guy I like is in the year below me. Hes not the best looking either. But when my boyfriend and i have sex all i think about is this other guy. What shall i do?
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Emptiness in my heart
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 8:02 am
Im a guy, me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up(she broke up with me, said she needed some time off)...anyways its been over 2 months and all I do is think about her, i miss her so much, and even though we still hang out and talk on the phone, i feel alone. I wonder if maybe i should go and date other girls because i seriously can no longer take the emptiness in my heart, i love her so much and wanna be back with her, however, i dont know exactly what plans she has. I have asked her if she sees us getting back together and her answer is always the same " i cannot answer that, cause i dont know?"
What am i supossed to do here, in one hand i love her and miss her so much, and i can continue feeling empty while waiting fo...
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Stuck
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 7:53 am
Dear Advicinators,
I'm a 17 year old girl.
I reasently had sex with my boyfriend
The problem is I feel like I'm not as in love as I thought. I've resonly had Eyes for another guy. What do I do?
DA
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my friend who i lost touch with
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 5:33 am
Ok so here it goes me and my two friends from college have decided to go on a trip to see this boy i realised i liked he used to go to my old school and i have not seen him for over a year now!!! i realised he was there for me when i was upset but he was always picking on me when we was in secondary school.being horrible but in a way i enjoyed it how crazy.Im now getting abit nervous about it, what if he embarasses me in front of my friends.What if he fancys on of my friends and now me.Although when we left school he asked me to go out with him but i was never sure if he was joking.i realised i like him alot.im 17/f what shall i do when i bump into him do i just go hi.. what if he knows ive come on purpose to see him my friends might make ...
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My best friend and I like the same guy!
Posted Friday March 3 2006, 2:24 am
Not good. My best friend and I like the same guy and he might like her back and I'm completely jealous annnd she doesnt know I like him.
I just got out of a relationship.
what to do?
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Why is he sending me mixed signals
Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 10:49 pm
Okay theres this boy that i like and he likes me too.But he hasent asked me out at all? He sends mix signals and i never know if he truley does like me. I mean i understand if he dosent like me and dosent ask me out. But why would he say he did like me and than not ask me out? Its not like im going to say no, if i said i liked him. Does anyone have the slitest clue on what is going on? Im seriously confused.
Thankss a bunch.
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13/f, never had bf and friends laugh at me
Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 10:49 pm
I am 13 and have never had a bf. All of my friends laugh at me behind my back. I found this out after we had a school dance a couple of nights ago. I danced with this one senior who is kind of on the geeky side, but he's a really nice guy. He's also the only guy who asked me to dance, all the guys in my class don't really like me. Well I found out from one of my nicer friends that all these girls that I thought were my friends were laughing at me at the dance and saying that Lee (the guy I danced with ) was the only guy I could get. They were also laughing and saying what a geek I was for never having a bf.
I was really hurt and felt like crying. Since when is it a crime to have never had a bf? I know girls a lot older than me that arent dating.
What should I do?
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my bf opened my mail!
Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 10:28 pm
My bf came over to my place one day while I went to check my mail. I came back with all my mail, a couple of bills, and one letter that had no return address on it. My bf got very suspicous and asked me who could of wrote it. I said I didnt know, and that it was none of him business. He accused me of cheating on him. I got really mad and told him to leave. He said he wouldnt leave until I opened the letter. I told him no, so he grabbed the letter and opened it. It turned out to be my cousin. I told him we were through.
Is what he did illegal? I heard someone say once that it's illegal to open someone elses mail. Does anyone here know?
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Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 10:08 pm
15/f
I've been going out with this guy for about a month and a half, and everytime he's at my house he's messing with my younger sister. He's almsot a year oldger than me and she's over a year younger than me. She likes to aggrivate people espicially when I have someone over. And lately he's been acting the same towards her. He'll get up and chase her around the house until she runs outside then he'll sit back down until she comes in the room again and then he'll get a pillow and smack her with it. It's really starting to get on my nerves, what should I do to make this stop?
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second best
Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 9:23 pm
14/f
My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. I'm finally getting tired of being second best to his friend. His best friend, I understand. But he will ditch days with me just to hang out with him and 'be bored' and such. It makes me feel insecure about our relationship. He says he misses me so much when we don't get to see each other. And he gets mad if I'm not making enough time in my schedule for him. But it's okay for him to neglect me, in his eyes. I wanna talk to him about it, but I don't wanna come off as the obsessive psycho girlfriend. How should I put it to him?
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ex-boyfriend
Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 8:09 pm
17/f
ok well i was dateing this guy and he ended up joining the army and he told me he loved me and would never ever forget about me well last christmas he came down to see me and he gave me his cell # so i called him a few days ago because i had not talked to him for like 2 weeks and he did not answer so i text him and he text me back and said who is this so i said it was me and he said oh u dose that mean he dose not like me any more because i think i love him and i know he loves or loved me because befor he left he gave me a ring and told me when we get back we would get marryed but now he wont even talk to me what should i do i mean ever since we have not talked i feel like i lost a part of me what should i do
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I don't understand it!!!!!
Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 8:00 pm
I sit next to this really great guy in school (every class except my extra classes[french and music]). Well he has a girl freind and on monday he starts talking to me and he never talks to me. He asked me for a piece of paper. He asked me to help clean glue out of his desk. Then we start talking about our pets. Then yesterday he poked me on the sholder and smiled at me. What does this MEAN????????
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