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scott
ok thanks guys for all your advice! i am really taking it to heart. well scott gets out of rehab monday and comes home....and i am supposed to vist him tuesday at work...i love him so much but i want him to get better, off drugs and get his life together and i think i just need to be his friend for right now but i dont want to break up with him but i dont want to hold him back becasuse of my own selfish reassons...i love him so much and i just want whats best for him. he tells me he loves me too but someone said if he really loved you then he would want to stay away from drugs and rehab and want to not go back so he would be with you hes putting drugs befor you and i've been thinking about that ever since she said that i dont know what to do please help me asap! thanks love you all xox
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I don't think that is true at all. Drugs are very addicting, and they are very hard to control your use of them. It sounds like he probably really does love you, he just has a really bad addiction. I think the best thing you can do is to just be there for him, and help him get through it, if he loves you then he will be trying to stop, and get help for it. He may not necessarily stop all together, but overtime. Just because he is doing drugs, does not mean he doesn't love you.
I hope everything goes well!
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That is true to a certain extent.
However, people who have a problem with drugs cannot always control what they may want to do. That pull to do drugs is bigger than the both of you.
Hopefully, the rehab sticks this time (average is 3 times). Encourage him to go to a group like narc-anon or something, they will be a big help to him staying straight.
Good luck to you both. :)
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