Ok, two days ago (Wednesday) my boyfriend (Mike) wasn't at school because he was sick. Yesterday, he was at school. He was acting kind of wierd. Like, he wasn't doing things that he would normally do (such as walking up with me to my locker in the morning, talk to me the whole class that we have together, come up to my locker at the end of the day, and get out of class to go to the "bathroom" just to see me ). Then later yesterday online I told him about this guy that is one of my friends in Geometry class that played a little joke on me. I had my paper on his desk and I was turned around, so when I turned around again it said "Steph <3z Pete Sepe". Obviously I erased it. So I told my boyfriend about this and I could tell he was mad. He then said "Hey, I'm gunna go take a nap, see ya". Usually he says when he is about to sign off "Love you" or something like that and last night he didn't say anything. So then he signs on about a half an hour later and says that he didn't really take a nap and that he was mad about the whole Peter thing. So then I told him it was a joke and he was all like "what ever" and then I said " If you're going to give me attitude about some stupid little thing, then don't plan on talking to me". Yes, I know I was a bitch. Then he signed off saying "Fine.". So then he signed back on and we straightened it out.
Then today when I talked to him online,(since he was sick again and didn't go to school) and he was all like " I miss you so much" and all that and then I had to sign off and I signed back on, asked him a question, and then was like "are you there?" and he was like yeah. Then he totally ignored me. He then said "Oh I have to go" and then I was like "Will you be on again?" and he was like "No." and usually we tell each other when the next time we are going to be on. So then I was just like "Whatever, bye". And signed off.
I don't know what to do. Am I overreacting? or was he overreacting?
Thanks!
Stephh
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ChOcOLoLo answered Saturday March 4 2006, 4:36 am: Hey there! I personally believe there is an underlying problem in this that needs to be sort out with the help of you and your boyfriend. Set some private time for you guys to talk about what you feel about the relationship. It might not be just the note that triggered this problem, but maybe something else. It kind of appears that of you guys are being indifferent from lack of communication. Just need to clear the matter a bit on how both of you expect from each other in this relationship... If you need anything else, just hit me up in the inbox! Take care always, and I wish you the best of luck.
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LoViNu2mOuCh answered Friday March 3 2006, 9:31 pm: Hey,
It sounds like something is wrong, I think that you need to talk to him about it. Just say you are concerned and wondering what has been up lately. I don't think you are overreacting, but I think he did when he got upset over that joke that boy played on you. So ya, I think you should just talk to him and find out what is wrong. [ LoViNu2mOuCh's advice column | Ask LoViNu2mOuCh A Question ]
pugluver answered Friday March 3 2006, 9:28 pm: I really would be the same way worried that he is cheating or doing something that is kinda of like i dont think your overacting because most girls do this when they're boyfriend is doing unusal stuff. i just think its love. hope i helped [ pugluver's advice column | Ask pugluver A Question ]
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