I've been going out with this guy for ages. He seems perfect. He has a great body etc etc. Thing is i have loads in common with this other guy, and i really like him. I go all girly everytime i see him. I really really like him! Im 15 and my bf is 17. The guy I like is in the year below me. Hes not the best looking either. But when my boyfriend and i have sex all i think about is this other guy. What shall i do?
decemberbaby answered Friday March 3 2006, 9:02 pm: just to say this first, having sex at 15 is VERY dangerous. i hope you use a condem. anyways, if you are feeling that you really like this guy, drop some hints that you like him and maybe he will drop some back. if nothing happens just try and really spend more time with your boyfriend. if that doesnt work, talk to the other guy. everything happens for a reason. remember that.
LoViNu2mOuCh answered Friday March 3 2006, 4:17 pm: It sounds like you just don't have ths same feelings you probably used to have for your boyfriend. When you start thinking about other guys when you are having sex, then that is the time to break up with him. I mean you are 15, so having different boyfriends is a good thing. So I think you should try to go out with the boy you really like right now. [ LoViNu2mOuCh's advice column | Ask LoViNu2mOuCh A Question ]
sweetpea318_247 answered Friday March 3 2006, 2:59 pm: worst thing i person can do is stay in a relationship that he or she is no committed to. and clearly you arent very committed to your boyfriend...i mean having sex with him and thinking about someone else the whole time? yea i definetly advise you to break it off with your current boyfriend before his feelings for you get too deep and you end up really hurting him. if you do decide to break it off with him do not use any corny lines just straight up tell him you dont see a future with him. just be honest with him...if anything he should appreciate your honesty.
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aquababe1 answered Friday March 3 2006, 2:51 pm: It seems that you like the guy a year below you more than your like your boyfriend. i mean, if you're imagining its him and not your bf when youre having sex, thats definitely a big signal. stay with your bf for another week or two and see how you feel, but if it was me i would go with my heart and date the other guy.
xEVYx answered Friday March 3 2006, 2:12 pm: follow your heart, if it was me i'd go with the older guy bc he's probably more mature and expierenced w/life but thats up to you! good luck
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