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getting the guy YOU want, not the one who wants YOU
Posted Monday May 8 2006, 7:17 am
see, every month, I get a new guy telling me he loves me, wants me, and needs me. But it's never the guy I want. I seem to be very attractive to lots of guys, but never to the ones I find attractive. So I've been told about books like "CATCH HIM AND KEEP HIM" "THE RULES" "GET THE GUY" "WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES" and so on, books on how to get THE guy. And I'm considering buying one, so my question is, has anyone ever bought a book like this? was it good/easy to understand? did it give you specifik tips on what to do? did they work if you tried them? Just anything you can tell me about it and what book it was. Thaaank yooouu! ♥
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Posted Monday May 8 2006, 3:21 am
ok..ehm..hehe, err..gahh! Fine! I'll say it - I guess...I have a crush. ugh, I know, I know..how pathetic is this? I'm 17 years old, and I have a crush, and I come to a website to ask about it.
But here's the deal, it's the typicall high school thing, Ms. Nobody is in love with Mr. Popular. You know, hottie, funny, always the loud one, wanted by all chicks and worshiped by all dudes. That's the guy I fell for! We've never spoken. Ever. And we have no common friends, so I have no reason to talk to him /get to know him..but that's the thing. I want to get to know him! But I can't just go up to him and start talking, that's crazy! Plus he wants the confident chicks, and my body language pretty much SCREAMS "insecure" so I gues...
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Breaking up
Posted Monday May 8 2006, 1:56 am
I really need help. My boyfriend of two years broke up with me a few weeks ago and it's getting really hard to handle. I knew that I'd be crying a lot and facing a lot of pain, I'm just in a really bad moment of pain.
I've been crying a lot every night because he has a new girlfriend and it really hurts to think about. I know that I should be talking to someone and I do have a really supportive family. I guess I'm asking if theres anything more that I could be doing at this point?
He had an away message talking about how much he loved his girlfriend and it set me off into depression. Can anyone help any further when it comes to dealing with a break-up?
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Posted Monday May 8 2006, 1:45 am
ok well i have a friend and hes my best friend and like i like him (secretly) and like he always sleeps over and stuff like he did last night but like hes asked me out one time but i said no cuz i was wworried but anyways should i tell him i like him or should i stay friends with him cuz i really dont want to ruien our friend ship. please help...=0
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To carry on my last question.
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 11:11 pm
So, I previously asked a question not too long ago.
About Bob and Joe.
Well, to fill in .. I don't really like Joe much anymore and I'm still totally liking Bob. &me and him worked together last Friday ... again. &after work .. we went on a little drive and stopped somewhere and talked ... and we kissed. Yeah .. we made out and all of that, but he said he never said he didn't like me .. he said, "I probably wouldn't date you because you're older." Which is lame .. yeah I'm a grade higher, but I'm only 4 months older. &he kept telling me at work it was my privilege to kiss him and all that and called me that Friday night to make sure I got home alright and he still kept kissing me after he told me ...
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i NEED HELP PLEASE
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 10:15 pm
*14*FEMALE*
OKAY i WENT OUT WiTH THiS ONE GUY FOR ABOUT 6 MONTHS. AND WHEN WE HAD BEEN GOiNG OUT FOR 4 MONTHS WE HAD SEX. 2 MONTHS LATER HE BROKE UP WiTH ME. HE SAiD WE NEEDED A BREAK(3 MONTHS AGO HE SAiD THAT) AND THN i FOUND OUT HE FOLLOWED SOME KiND OF MOTTO...
"FiNGER 'EM
FUCK 'EM
FORGET 'EM FOR LiFE"
i ASKED HiM iF THAT WAS TRUE BUT HE SAiD iT WASN'T. AND NOW HES STARTiNG TO TALK TO ME AGAiN AND HE SAYS THAT HE STiLL CARES ABOUT ME A LOT BUT i DON'T KNOW iF i SHOULD MAYBE TRUST HiM AND GO BACK OUT WiTH HiM OR STOP LiKiNG HiM. ALL MY FRiENDS SAY THAT i SHOULD JUS FORGET ABOUT HiM BUT i CAN'T CAUSE i STiLL LiKE HiM A LOT. ONE OF MY GUY FRiENDS SAY i SHOULD HATE HiM FOR ...
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boy trouble..
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 9:34 pm
SORRY IN ADVANCE..its gonna be kinda long..
okay so yesterday i met this boy named keith at my neighbor's communion. i had met him once before like two years ago..but i mean like WOW. he is HOTTTTTTT. and he is soooo sweet too. i have the biggggest crush on him. i dont know what to do. i cant sleep. im hardy eating. i spend all day day-dreaming about whether or not he is thinking about me. only problem is that he live like REALLY far away. i left to go to the movies, thinking that he would be there when i got back, but he had left. i really didnt get to say goodbye. i was going to ask him for his cell number and whatever. ...im probably not going to see him for another 2 years . i wanna call him. i wanna talk to ...
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Get him 2 trust me
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 8:42 pm
I'm 15 yr. old girl and a musician. Plus I'm in a band of all guys. Thing is I have a boyfriend who doesn't trust me at all. Every time we have practice he always wants to come. I love him to death and I've talked to him many times about it. He always thinks I'm going to try something. I've been in this band way before I met him and I'm not giving it up. I just started dating this guy like 6 months ago. I've been with this band since I was 13. Anybody have any ideas on how I can get my guy to trust me more?
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He moved... i still love him
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 7:55 pm
my ex moved 1000 miles away almost 2 years ago. we had lost touch for a while... now we talk all the time. it's like he just popped into the picture again. I really love him... what should i do? or say?
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who picks up the check?
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 7:27 pm
when on a dinner date, how should handling the check go?
should i, the woman, grab the book and look at it, or should i wait until my date picks it up?
should i ask him how much it is? should i take the money out of my purse? how do i handle a credit card ?
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I have this guy friend..
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 6:32 pm
15/F
So this year, I got to know this guy really good, and in the beginning of the year he was dating a girl. Then eventually they broke up, but I find myself having a crush on him.
I dont know if he likes me though,
I mean honestly the only way to know is to ask, but I'm scared of being rejected.
Asking is easier said than done duh.
But I think he possibly could like me because one day he randomly hugged me and was like, aghhh i missed you!! And I just thought, awwwh thats so cute. And he always says hi to me now in the hallways, and I dont know, he probably doesnt, but I'm just wondering.
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Why does everyone have a boyrfriend?
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 6:29 pm
This question may be stupid, but I'm honestly wondering - why like everyone but ME is getting a boyfriend.
I'm a girl, and i'm 15.
I just dont get why all my friend have boyfriends, and I dont? Is there something wrong wiht me? I've been told numerous times, that my time will come, but geez, i dont want to be like really old!! I want one soon, not because I just want a boyfriend to say "oh i havea bf" but because I really want to love someone & be loved in return, as corny as that sounds.
Ahhh is this normal though? To feel like this, is there anything I can do to get a boyfriend, like anything boys like in particular..?
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My high guy.
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 6:11 pm
My name is Januari. I am thirteen, female, and I have an issue. Now I know all about the bads of drugs and what not but can we forget about them for a second. My best guy friend Derek got high for the first time last Friday. This usually wouldn’t be a big deal because me and most of my friends smoke pot but Derek said he wanted to for the first time with me there. Though this was not the case he did meet up with me that night while riding his bike and this is what happened: He comes up to me while I'm with a group of people and I know right away he's high, they don't. I ask him if he did it with so and so etc. he answers all of my questions with a giggle, a shrug, and a direct answer. He was acting a little different but not too much unt...
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Lier!?
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 5:59 pm
i just broke up with my boyfriend because one of his close friends told me many things he's been doing behind my back and my boyfriend called me to tell me he loves me and that's all not true, his voice was so sad.. how do i know which one's telling the truth?!! ! please i need help
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flirting
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 5:48 pm
i really like this guy but im really shy so i dont know how i will get him to know with out actually telling him straight up. so what are some things i can do to flirt with him?
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when should i call her
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 5:37 pm
ok, here's the situation: i was at a dance Friday night and i met this girl(whoo hoo!), and i got her phone number. I said that i would call her sometime.
what i was wondering is when i should call her. should i wait 2-3 days or do it right now? and when i do call her, what should i say? Should i be like "hi, remember me from friday?" or what should i say?
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girl likes boy, boy likes , boy likes other too...
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 4:56 pm
14/f My boyfriend and I love each other but recently he went away on a feild trip and started liking another . This was about a week ago. I just found out who it was. I asked him about it and he said he dosen't like her anymore that much. He dosen't have the guts or will power to lie to me so I beleive him. How can I prevent this from happening again?
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whats up with him?
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 3:07 pm
I'm 13/f, he's 13/m.
Right, so there is this guy, and Ive known him for about half a year now, I really fancy him, when I first met him we chatted alot and were just like friends.
But then I went to this party, and we danced together for ages (i mean like, slightly dirty dancing), and ended up kissing.
When I saw him at school after that, we were back to being like friends again, he was being his usual self, chatty and funny.
He started hanging out with another group of people, and I didn't see him for ages.
Me and my friends were at a fair about a month ago, and he was there, since then we have started going out places with him at the weekend, to the cinema, shopping ....... etc. and he's always really ...
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ugh
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 12:31 pm
so theres this guy that i have been like in love with for like 3 years. He broke my heart 2 years ago, then I though he had changed and started flirting with him again. I had these dreams a while ago that he would hurt me and go with his girl (his good firend lets call her kate) and leave me there crying. I didn't really think anything of it and started falling 4 him again. I though I had a good chance that he would ask me to this formal at the end of the year. But then a couple days ago I found out that his firend kate dump her date and now there going together just like me dream. Now im all alone sad and depresed. ugh i have no one to got to the formal with and i am just really lonley.
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a.s.a.p answer
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 11:55 am
hey im 13/f gonna be 14 in september.i have thiss boy that i really like in skool last yr we were in the same class and we were gd friends but this yr we r not in the same section so we r not talking to each other as usual.i cant talk 2 him in private for some reasons i have but i really like him. another thing is that there is this guy who is my neighbour i really like him then i knew my mail i talked to him for a while but then we blocked each other for a reason but i really still like him and i cant stop <i cant talk 2 him in private> everytime i see a couple 2gether i really get jealous cause i really cant find the right guy pllllz i really need gd advice a.s.a.p
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