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14/f My boyfriend and I love each other but recently he went away on a feild trip and started liking another . This was about a week ago. I just found out who it was. I asked him about it and he said he dosen't like her anymore that much. He dosen't have the guts or will power to lie to me so I beleive him. How can I prevent this from happening again?
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Unfortunately, the truthful answer is that you can't. He has no more control over who he does or does not feel attracted to than you do over how hurt his feelings make you.
It's actually perfectly normal to fancy other people, no matter whether you are single, co-habiting, engaged or married. It might hurt to find out that your boyfriend felt attracted to another girl but the point is really whether or not he acts on those feelings.
You say he doesn't have the willpower or guts to lie to you, which really is a good thing because at least you know you can trust him to tell you if he wanted to act on his feelings or felt more for another girl than for you.
I know it hurts to hear that he liked or likes another girl. But please remember that even married couples fancy other people a little! It's almost always just a passing phase and really nothing to worry about unless he takes it too far and cheats on you. Judging by how honest he was over this, I doubt he will.
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People truthfully can't really control their feelings. Shit happens. But I think if you talk to him more and grow closer with him his mind wont drift too far. But never change yourself to impress him becasue thats wrong or do something you arent willing to do because that is wrose. Hope i Helped XoXo.
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