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ok well i have a friend and hes my best friend and like i like him (secretly) and like he always sleeps over and stuff like he did last night but like hes asked me out one time but i said no cuz i was wworried but anyways should i tell him i like him or should i stay friends with him cuz i really dont want to ruien our friend ship. please help...=0
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My theory on situations like this is that it depends on how much and how long you have liked him. If you have liked him a LOT and for a very long time, then it might be worth risking your friendship over to ask him out because you can't get great love without great risk.
If, on the other hand, you think you just like him quite a lot and have liked him for say...less than 6 months, it might be a better idea to try to stay friends.
If you decide you do want to go for it with him, explain to him first that you have liked him for some time and that you wanted to go out with him before but you were too worried about what it would do to your friendship to say yes. Then explain that you would really like to go out with him but that you can only do it as long as you are both sure you can be friends if you split up later.
Remember that the best relationships are normally based on a foundation of friendship and that, as long as you make sure you remain best friends to each other throughout your relationship, you will never need to worry about losing your friend if you split up.
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well, this happened to me before with one of my best guy friends named daniel...well before we were best friends and we went out but then broke up and it was really akward before and after we broke up...but take a risk and tell him you like him..i mean the worst thign that could happen is him saying lets just be friends but look at the bright side atleast he is your friend! and before you go out (if you guys go out) tell him that if you guys break up lets not stop being friends because of that.
hope i helped
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if you and him end up hooking up your relationship will be even stronger since you two would be best friends before, but if you two happened to break up it would be awkward for awhile, but eventually things would go back to normal. if he's asked you out before then there's probably a good chance he feels the same way about you that you feel about him. it wouldn't hurt to tell him how you feel. or if you don't think it's the right time to admit your feelings to him then just wait and ride it out and something will eventually happen if there is mutual feelings. hope everything works out. love, kali.
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well if he is your friend im sure hw will understand so just come out and tell him I have feelings for you but I dont want it to ruin our friendship he will most likely feel the same way and just see where it leads you from there. If yuo are good friends then it should work out great. good luck with him
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ask him how he feels now it wont hurt to tell him how you feel too
hope i helped
kristin
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