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so theres this guy that i have been like in love with for like 3 years. He broke my heart 2 years ago, then I though he had changed and started flirting with him again. I had these dreams a while ago that he would hurt me and go with his girl (his good firend lets call her kate) and leave me there crying. I didn't really think anything of it and started falling 4 him again. I though I had a good chance that he would ask me to this formal at the end of the year. But then a couple days ago I found out that his firend kate dump her date and now there going together just like me dream. Now im all alone sad and depresed. ugh i have no one to got to the formal with and i am just really lonley.
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I strongly believe that your dream had nothing to do with what happened. So I wouldn't take all of that seriously even though it is a pretty weird experience.
When it comes to a guy breaking up with you, basically you have to let him come to you if he really does want you back at all. It's a pretty dangerous move to out your heart out there to the guy who broke it because it's bound to happen again.
I know it's hard to take all of this from the guy you've loved for a number of years, but you've got to stop with him for good now. You've both had your share of opportunities to be together again and he blew it. Sometimes you just have to pick up the pieces over and over again until you realize that you just need a new guy, and a new start. And I don't mean right now, take a while to just be around yourself more and then maybe when a different guy comes into the picture you can put your heart out again.
As for your depressed feelings, find a way to unleash them in a healthy way. A friend to talk to, a family member you can really relate to, or even if you feel like you can't relate to them, it's a way to start. For a long time, you've been thinking about this guy and the reality is that he hasn't been thinking of you as much, so maybe it's time to decide to put this all behind you and start over.
-TheTeenGirl
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Aw cheer up boys aren't worth it. What you need is a good frapachino some bon bons and some chick flicks. Also sometimes it better to go single to dances that way you can dance with who ever you want without any commitment. As they say everything happens for a reason you never know you might find that you've always had someone but never thought of them in that way and now you can. Xx hope I helped tell me what happens if you can. Good luck.
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