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Posted Monday May 22 2006, 8:40 am
I have been dating a guy for the past 1.6 years.We are pretty serious and we love each other a lot. But we keep quarelling every time over relly small matters. We are just not able to cope with our differences. Is it because we are of different sun signs? Cuz he is a sagittarius and im a cancerian. But both of us can't even think about breakin up. But all this quarelling gives me second thoughts about him.Advice needed urgently.
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jealous of his ex
Posted Monday May 22 2006, 7:15 am
Hi,
i am really jealous of my bf's ex. I know little to nothing about her, except they were together a year and he lost his virignity to her. i know they're still friends and talk online still. she lives interstate so he doesn't see her, but still. This jealousy has been going on a few months and has not passed. My bf can't seem to offer much assistance. =/ I keep wanting to find out more about her but the more I find out the more jealous I become. How do I get over this?? Its starting to ruin things between us.
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hmm just a question
Posted Monday May 22 2006, 2:39 am
ok if you have sex and after 3 or 4 days you use birth control is birth control will still work? like your not gonna get pregnant anymore? hope you guys get what i mean :) ty in advance
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Best friend has rejoined me.
Posted Monday May 22 2006, 1:13 am
Well, I had a guy best friend 6th through 8th grade .. went to school together .. dated once in 6th grade .. were best friends. Well, I had the BIGGEST crush on him all through middle school and even after, but when we left middle school we went to different schools and he was never home when I called, so we just lost touch.
Then a little over a month ago, he started working with me .. it was crazy but awesome. He told me he wanted us to be best friends again and what not. Well, he told me last Thursday when we were cleaning the dining area that he had a crush on me all through middle school, but didn't want to tell me because he was scared I'd reject him since he dumped me and I told him, no I had a crush on you too, but I...
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he won't leave me alone
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 11:53 pm
Ok i started dating a 23 year old when i was 13( Grose Huh) i like him...we dated for like 6 er 7 mounths, when he said he was movin for a new job er sumin like that!well we had sex before he left on friday night.i got pregnant. i called him right away. he told me to get an abbortion i said ok but i didn't really. well he seen me when i started to show. and confronted me. i told him the truth! ever since then he calls me randomly on everyone elses cell phones so i don't kow who it is...and like when i cruise mainstreet he follows me!! What do i do?
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Is he really worth it?
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 11:14 pm
So I Wanted to know what should I do to get over this one guy. I really like him a lot. like I asked him out and he said that he would think about it and he never gave me an answer back. That was like 5 to 6 months ago.But we still talk and we are friends sort of.And he told his frinds that I was ugly. And I can't ignore him because he is in one of my classes. And whenever I stop talking to him he starts talking to me because the thinks that I am mad at him but i just wanna get over him and then we start talking again. And we have gotten in a couple of fights. And recently we got in a fight and he didnt rest until i forgave him like he texted me and called me and everything so I forgave him. But he still tells his friends that I am ugly and...
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going further?
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 10:55 pm
ok this is sort of personal but i don't care who answers it because i really need help. i'm fourteen years old and have a boyfriend that's been off and on for over a year. but we're so close now and are in love..no matter who says were "too young" we've gone pretty far in our relationship already, but not a home run. we've talked about going all the way before...but i'm not sure if i'm ready. sometimes i want to, but then i realize i'm only fourteen and shouldn't even think about wanting to. i'm risking a lot if i did this, but if we love each other is it worth it? so can someone whos experienced in this kind of stuff please help? cause i really need it.. thanks.
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boyfriend troubles..
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 10:48 pm
I want my boyfriend to take me out on a date but how do I make that happen? Last month was our anniversey. (a year being together) and he didn't take me anywhere. It seems like I only see him when I go to his school once a week. The weekends we don't do anything anymore. Some people told me to let him do what he wants and that I'm a clingy girlfriend..but I've been waiting for almost 6 months! He won't take me to one movie.. because he doesn't have a ride. What do I do?
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Boyfriend troubles
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 10:15 pm
My boyfriend is a great guy.He works double time to pay his bills.
However,He works alot, has two jobs and trains in boxing.
When he's not doing those, he's sleeping.
I feel a little neglected. We've talked about it before but he's seen it as nagging. How do I bring this up to him again (I told him I'd stop talking about it) without making it a confrenation or an arguement?
He hardly gives me any attention anymore and it makes me sad.
I want him to know I don't need to be doted on 24/7 but some attention would be nice.
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my boyfriend...
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 9:19 pm
Okay so like I have been with my boyfriend almost 5 months now. I love him so much and He loves me too. We get along great when its just me and him but like we argue alot at school, because he gets jealous easy. What should I do to stop us from arguing so much?
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So confused
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 9:09 pm
I've never had a boyfriend befor. Whenever im upset i just want one so bad because i want the feeling someone loves me and that there is someone there i can talk to. I think im pretty and so do my friends but im a little chuby. Im blonde,tall,pretty eyes, and im very nice. The only problem is that im really shy. I try to be outgoing but i care to much about what people think. How do i get over that? How do i get a b/f? Thanks to everyone that answers my question and ill rate high for good answers.
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Ahh...A BOY..hard to get his attention..
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 8:43 pm
heyy! well i have this really hot guys in my 4th hour class the only thing is he is sucha HUGE flirt! he flirts with everyone but this girl in my 4th hour likes him and they always flirt it bugs me so much! not to be mean or whatever but like he never flirts with me and i dont think im THAT BAD looking..i think he flirts with ugly girls. i mean i know its not all about looks but he is kinda the guy that goes for that. he sometimes like hits me and stuff but doesnt really talk to me. im not really the outgoing kind so i just wont go start to flirt with him first because i wont know what to do,ect plus i wouldnt want to be annoying and if he flirted with me first i would know he wanted to you know!? what should i do..he is pretty popular but ...
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movies
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 8:20 pm
My boyfriend asked me to go to the movies with him today. The only problem is, when we got there, he got sick and ran into the bathroom and THREW UP !! YUK !!!! Then I just went into the movie and told his friend to have my boyfriend meet me in there. (cuz i didnt know he was even sick yet) He ended up going home without telling me OR CALLING ME !! how rude is that !? About an hour after the movie started he FINALLY called me and told me he got sick and threw up !! I left the movie early and went home.....for like HOURS I was crying in my room !! The most embarrassing part was that, when I got home, ALL MY BROTHERS 10TH GRADE FRIENDS where there, staring at me while I was crying my eyes out in front of them !! What should I do about my b...
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country song
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 7:57 pm
ok so whats a country song thats like a love song.. but its like a newer one .. not an old one.
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breaking up
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 7:19 pm
hola- im 13, f
well my boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months, almost 8 and the relationship has been going fine. . .
i wanted to break up with him before the summer because i usually meet new people. i have this feeling that the longer we stay together, the harder its going to be to break up. i want to do it during school but idk when and how. like, what should i say without making it hurt? i'd perfer to talk to him personally but will he feel better if a friend tells him? and when is a good time to do it?
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Hopeless Romantic??
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 6:50 pm
If your 16 female and still haven't been kissed yet (yeah i know) but only because you want your first time to be very special, then would you be considered a 'hopeless romantic'?
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Monster-in-laws
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 6:50 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together now going on two years this October. We have had our problems, but we always manage to come through being much closer. I love him to death, and can’t imagine not having him as a part of my life. So here’s the problem, after about 7 months of being together I absolutely knew he was the one and we just were getting along so great. Then some guy came and proposed (or wanted to) but I said no (by the way I’m of Arab background). I was telling my bf about it, and he freaked out and said I should have accepted and met the guy. It really frustrated me, and hurt me a lot for him to tell me I should just marry the other guy. We talked and then he said his mother would not agree to him marrying me. I was cr...
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Dont want to be the ugly duckling
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 6:42 pm
I have always kinda had seld esteem issues, all of my friends are gorgeous and i feel like i am the ugly duckling. You know in movies how their is a group of pretty girls and then they have an ugly friend, and one guy has to "take one for the team" and hang out with her.....i feel like that girl.
Its not that i'm fat, (5'9, 110 pounds) i know i'm not fat, i just never feel pretty.My friends tell me i'm pretty but i feel like that doesnt count because they cant call me ugly, i'm their friend. Any advice to boost my self esteem?
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right thing = hardest thing.
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 6:15 pm
I can't help liking this girl even though there's all these reasons I shouldn't. I'm going to graduate next year and she's a year younger so she'll still be in high school; she knows I like her and specifically told me that she doesn't like me the same way; we talk a lot on a personal one-on-one level, but when there are others around she hardly pays attention to me. Recently, it seems things are becoming more awkward between us - we talk less and I feel like she's putting up a barrier.
My question is two-fold:
- I know I should probably give up on her, but I want to at least remain friends - is that too much to ask?
- I don't know exactly HOW to stop liking her and wanting her to like me in a more-than-friends manner.
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boys
Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 6:06 pm
So this is a LONG story. But ill try to make it really short.
Theres this boy that I have feelings for. We liked eachother a ton a couple months ago, but we never went out, but we were about to until his ex girlfriend came along. I dont want to be mean, but shes really fake and high maintenence, gorgeous, but still just exactly opposite from me, and plays with his mind so much, and he always falls for it.
Now they broke up, and he's back to wanting to go out with me. And hes soo sweet though. He called me played "our song" saying how much he liked me, and did absolutetely everything possible you wish a boy would do for you. But im scared that if we went out he would cheat on me and his ex girlfriend who still drags ...
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