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I have been dating a guy for the past 1.6 years.We are pretty serious and we love each other a lot. But we keep quarelling every time over relly small matters. We are just not able to cope with our differences. Is it because we are of different sun signs? Cuz he is a sagittarius and im a cancerian. But both of us can't even think about breakin up. But all this quarelling gives me second thoughts about him.Advice needed urgently.
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Sagitarians can be a little tactless but don't mean to hurt feelings, they also find it difficult to cope with negativity.Cancerians tend to be very sensitive and emotional.
That being said, it sounds as though you both need to learn to tolerate each others differences, it's what makes life interesting after all. It would be very boring to have someone who agrees with you all the time.
If you both really care about each other, you need to talk and work out ways of dealing with your differences.
If you are unable to find a middle ground maybe you would be better off with other people.
Good luck.
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So what if it's because of your astrology? Figuring out how to stop this behavior seems a little more useful to me then blaming the stars.
If you are arguing about pointless things, over and over again, then one of you needs to learn to step back and say "I know we don't agree, but this argument is pointless."
If you are arguing about things that are actually important in your relationship, then you both need to learn to stay calm and listen to one another in order to have a discussion instead of an argument.
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