My boyfriend asked me to go to the movies with him today. The only problem is, when we got there, he got sick and ran into the bathroom and THREW UP !! YUK !!!! Then I just went into the movie and told his friend to have my boyfriend meet me in there. (cuz i didnt know he was even sick yet) He ended up going home without telling me OR CALLING ME !! how rude is that !? About an hour after the movie started he FINALLY called me and told me he got sick and threw up !! I left the movie early and went home.....for like HOURS I was crying in my room !! The most embarrassing part was that, when I got home, ALL MY BROTHERS 10TH GRADE FRIENDS where there, staring at me while I was crying my eyes out in front of them !! What should I do about my boyfriend !?
bound_heart answered Monday May 22 2006, 8:23 am: You seem more concerned about your embarrassment and your welfare than that of your boyfriend. He was sick. Could it be that he was so sick that he didn't feel well enough to come and find you? Maybe you should cut him some slack.
What should you do about your boyfriend? Maybe you should ask if there's anything you can do for him. Perhaps you should step outside yourself for a moment and think about how embarrassed *he* must have been... you know, since it was *him* and not you who got sick and everybody knew about it.
Altruistic answered Sunday May 21 2006, 9:27 pm: It might have been that he was too embarrassed to tell you that he was sick/threw up. You shouldnt take this too hard unless this happens a lot. Try talking to your boyfriend and asking him why he didnt tell you sooner that he was sick. And let him know that if hes sick, he should tell you right away instead of leaving you in the theater for an hour. This shouldnt be that big of a problem though, so dont worry about it too much. [ Altruistic's advice column | Ask Altruistic A Question ]
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