So this is a LONG story. But ill try to make it really short.
Theres this boy that I have feelings for. We liked eachother a ton a couple months ago, but we never went out, but we were about to until his ex girlfriend came along. I dont want to be mean, but shes really fake and high maintenence, gorgeous, but still just exactly opposite from me, and plays with his mind so much, and he always falls for it.
Now they broke up, and he's back to wanting to go out with me. And hes soo sweet though. He called me played "our song" saying how much he liked me, and did absolutetely everything possible you wish a boy would do for you. But im scared that if we went out he would cheat on me and his ex girlfriend who still drags along would create drama.
I told him exactly how I felt about it all. He said he would take care of it if it happened, but im still really scared that if I went out with him, id get hurt because they would be flirting behind my back. I also wonder if hed really appreciate me if he went out with a girl like that. You know what I mean?
So im not sure if I try to go out with him and see how it goes with the risk of getting hurt? or just back off and see what happens. Im not sure.
Please help. thank you. ♥
Additional info, added Sunday May 21 2006, 10:17 pm: If it makes it easier to understand, this situation is alot like the kristen,lauren, and stephen thing from laguna beach. Also I think i do also have trust issues because of whats happened in the past, do you think thats why?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iilOVehiiMx3 answered Thursday June 8 2006, 3:47 pm: just go out with him and if he cheats on you then dump him. then just like never go out with him. but if you feel uncomfortable going out with him then just do what you feel is best.
alilovesyou answered Sunday May 21 2006, 8:27 pm: i think if he's that crazy about you, he wouldn't let it happen. sometimes you just need to trust in people. this isn't a lot of advice, but i hope it helps
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